I know u probably dont wanna hear this OP, but this aint the L u think it is.
Hear me out now. If she was ready to let u go over (among whatever other problems yall had) something as trivial and ultimately meaningless as pieces of paper with dead cacs on it, she never really truly loved u to begin with breh. And u cant lose what u never had right?
Maybe she been fukking this other guy, maybe not. Dont torture urself worrying about it though, as now u know what time it is, its basically meaningless. And it happens to the best of us. Just charge it to the game. Cause she gone need u before u ever need her again.
Let new guy stress over her greedy ungrateful ass. U got ur daughters out the deal, an unconditional love purer than anything on God's green earth. That is why this is not only not an L, but a monumental win. No reason to even be mad at her when u look at it through this mature wizened lens. And u cant afford to be mad anyway, cause that bitterness is only gone hurt them and u. Instead use this opportunity to teach them how a real
man worthy of them should treat them. And in turn this will show them the kind of woman NOT to grow up to be. That is two valuable life lessons for them for the price of 1, as well as some peace for ur soul.
And while these breh's hearts is in the right place, and they aint even wrong, per se, id refrain from looking for any new relationships to jump into. U got urself and ur girls, ur plate is quite full enough to be getting on with. U wanna get some fresh new
that is fine, but i strongly implore u not to be in any rush to take it past that. Romantic relationships are not only not a necessity, but can often be a hindrance to ur goals and happiness. And that is before u even factor ur children into the equation. Focus on ur relationship with them and with urself. They are ur flesh and blood, or for the purpose of this conversation, they are u, and u gotta love urself first before u can properly love any female.
Cut ur losses breh and count ur blessings here. Im not playing or just tryna tell u what u wanna hear when i say this is just a W in L's clothes. Its a damn fact. Play ur cards right going forward and in time u WILL understand this.