Sohh why is the nuclear family held up as the "gold standard" or natural order when its a recent invention?

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Black families would benefit from abandoning some aspects from the nuclear family stance,



We need to promote more group economics

We should be purchasing property with siblings / cousins

If your mom /dad/ or parents are paying rent

And your cousin’s mom/dad or parents are paying rent

Come together buy a multi family house build equity
Buying property together is an easier idea to push than having anywhere from 3-8 grown people living in that property.
 

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Let your children’s mother have multiple dikks brehs :mjlol:


  1. The Woodabe Peacock Culture

The Woodabe sexual culture, on the other hand, had men treating their women the way most birds treat their females. Peacock culture in the Woodabe tribe of Niger, Cameroon, Central African Republic, Nigeria and Chad believed that women had sexual powers and were allowed to have multiple men other than their husbands. Woodabe men even went on to put on heavy makeup and peacock feathers to impress their women and also put on spectacular dances to attract their women.


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The Wodaabe must be the only African culture which allows girls to take the lead in choosing their betrothed—even married Wodaabe women have the right to take a different man as a sexual partner.
 

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it's from the 1950's, and was considered prosperous and patriotic, as far American Dream fulfillment. This went further in the 80s, the yuppie age, when it was not only a house, and nuclear family, but the expensive car, the clothes, the second home, the Rolex. The American Dream became the professional class. but, yeah there's no real reason why it needs to be dominant. it's cultural, not based on any "real" thing beyond that.

also, yes, it is easier to buy a house with two incomes. but how much of that was factored into the American Dream in the 50's? Almost none. or even now?
 

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I gotta hand it to you, it's almost impressive how you miss the point every single time :ehh:
Give yo self therapy. Yo goofy ass stay crying on here wanting mafukkas to like you. :dead:

Asking mafukkas why they look down on the South. You embarrassing gah damm.
 

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Because it's viewed as the standard image of a white American family that is shipped abroad via TV and movies. Propaganda. Clear propagenda. And according to Project 2025, they will incentives the nuclear family, while punishing the single mother. Also possibly jail women fir abortions. It's all funky, and about to get way crazier.
So you are in favor of single mothers??
 

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The slick part is…. You are at liberty to live how you want to… You are more than welcome to have 2 broads and y’all’s babies under the same roof….. and nobody would give a fukk
Yeaaaa.

This is more about multi-family, multi-generational living. Like grandparents, their children and their families, so you have the elder grandparents, both of their sons and their sons wives and children all living together in a big house, or on a compound, etc. Grandparents, parents, uncles and aunts and kids (all cousins) all in close proximity.

“It takes a village to raise a child”.
 

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That has nothing to do with a nuclear family.

Nuclear family = heterosexual married couple raising a child/children.
The stance I’m saying is you don’t have to just be man and wife to think about purchasing a home extended family should buy property together that’s why I said some aspects
 
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