Well, let me add. She bought the cat. I wanted a German shepherd but my community says that dog is too big. Technically, that's her cat. She is going by what her doc told her and I went with her and doc said the same thing when we went for our Anatomy ultrasound. She is my wife and I have to understand and listen to her opinion, even though at the end I am still the leader. That doesn't mean your wife should be a robot and you run the whole show. She's gonna be a new mom and the cat is raising concerns to the baby's health. I still think the baby should be fine. That gyneco doc is overreacting, I believe. Still the point is women are very protective of their kid, especially the first. I'd rather that than a Draya type chick who would not give a damn about my baby.
If I have to remind my wife I m in charge, then I was never in charge.
Look breh i know how womens are about there babies and kids but you can massage her mind and let her know forcefully that she need to smarten up..Baby will be fine,cat isnt going to cause any problems like another poster said it wont give the baby allergies,it will cause problems for someone that already has em...
Obviously by your lil diatribe you have some feelings about it so why just play passive like its no matter to you when it clearly does...You just have to tell her you feel this way about it and she dont need to overreact and fill in the blanks with as much fake simping or BS that she needs to hear to get it done but dont just give in....