So i found a coli brehette on tinder.

[MikelArteta]

Yes. Conversations vary...from talking about work, to basketball, concerts, music, similar interests, current events, to dating. No different than what we all talk about on Coli.

Listen, people can expect various things other than what they tell you...that goes for anyone in your life, not just the opposite sex. The only thing that's my responsibility is to be honest and if they are cool, don't cross boundaries and appreciate the friendship then good. And, I've made some friends already, so for me, I know it is possible. Again, I can't tell you what other people use Tinder for. What other people use Coli for (not everyone just interacts in forums...there are private DMs, people adding one another on other forms of social media, meeting in person...the site might not be intended for hooking up, but that doesn't mean people aren't using it for that...it's what YOU want to make it).

so basically gasp men take on the "nice safe, interesting guy" to court and draw you in.

lol you've made friends? No you put guys in the friendzone and there lingering around there. I'm sure if your new found friends needed a place to stay for a night because their place was flooded i'm sure you would obliged right?

Any women can make "friends" on dating site, guys will continue to text and talk to you hoping they be promoted.


compare the coli to tinder to try and rationalize brehettes

 

[-DMP-]

I will lol

Oh shyt. I never knew. Ya ass done went low key and shyt

-DMP-

 

[Desirous]

your on a dating/hookup app, talking to and meeting up with people which by definition is gasp a date

this isn't friendster brehette

how is that not misleading someone?

its like me going on backpage, clicking the escort section going to a hotel putting my 300 on the tv stand and then she tells me :kony: I just want to talk and network

You really can't be this stubborn.

You're comparing paying for an escort to Tinder?! Seriously? And, paying for an escort, who knowingly provides that service, then after the fact tells you she's not interested vs someone who is upfront and tells you I'm not looking to date, hook up etc.

You don't even need to reach that hard - I think most people are in agreement with you already. This isn't about what you think of the site. I'm on it for a reason and it's very different from why you're on it.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Yes. Conversations vary...from talking about work, to basketball, concerts, music, similar interests, current events, to dating. No different than what we all talk about on Coli.

Listen, people can expect various things other than what they tell you...that goes for anyone in your life, not just the opposite sex. The only thing that's my responsibility is to be honest and if they are cool, don't cross boundaries and appreciate the friendship then good. And, I've made some friends already, so for me, I know it is possible. Again, I can't tell you what other people use Tinder for. What other people use Coli for (not everyone just interacts in forums...there are private DMs, people adding one another on other forms of social media, meeting in person...the site might not be intended for hooking up, but that doesn't mean people aren't using it for that...it's what YOU want to make it).

It sounds to me like you aren't happy with the man you are with and you might not even realize this now (though, I'm 99% sure that you do), conversations about work, dating, similar interests.. that's how the balls gets rolling.. and on a dating app of all places to be doing it. Sheeeitt.

If I was with you there's no way this could be happening. It's not even about insecurities. These are discussions you should be having with him and only him or maybe your girlfriends. This nikka does a couple things that make you mad and all of a sudden these "cool friends" become option B and option C, etc...

I don't buy it, @Desirous . You do you, and if your man is okay with this, great but you are a good looking woman (from what I can remember of the pic thread), these guys are definitely not talking for friendship

 

[MikelArteta]

You really can't be this stubborn.

You're comparing paying for an escort to Tinder?! Seriously? And, paying for an escort, who knowingly provides that service, then after the fact tells you she's not interested vs someone who is upfront and tells you I'm not looking to date, hook up etc.

You don't even need to reach that hard - I think most people are in agreement with you already. This isn't about what you think of the site. I'm on it for a reason and it's very different from why you're on it.

You said your not misleading


the analogy i used is the same thing

by being on a hookup/dating app you are advertising you are single and looking
you are the one misleading men

the same how a escort would advertise her services but would just want to talk and network and meet new friends

 

[Desirous]

It sounds to me like you aren't happy with the man you are with and you might not even realize this now (though, I'm 99% sure that you do), conversations about work, dating, similar interests.. that's how the balls gets rolling.. and on a dating app of all places to be doing it. Sheeeitt.

If I was with you there's no way this could be happening. It's not even about insecurities. These are discussions you should be having with him and only him or maybe your girlfriends. This nikka does a couple things that make you mad and all of a sudden these "cool friends" become option B and option C, etc...

I don't buy it, @Desirous . You do you, and if you're man is okay with this, great but you are a good looking woman from what I can remember, these guys are definitely not talking for friendship

That's exactly what is going to happen...after all these pages and shyt lol it really doesn't affect my life no more than Coli opinions affect other people's relationships / marriages, etc. What can I say?

 

[MikelArteta]

It sounds to me like you aren't happy with the man you are with and you might not even realize this now (though, I'm 99% sure that you do), conversations about work, dating, similar interests.. that's how the balls gets rolling.. and on a dating app of all places to be doing it. Sheeeitt.

If I was with you there's no way this could be happening. It's not even about insecurities. These are discussions you should be having with him and only him or maybe your girlfriends. This nikka does a couple things that make you mad and all of a sudden these "cool friends" become option B and option C, etc...

I don't buy it, @Desirous . You do you, and if your man is okay with this, great but you are a good looking woman (from what I can remember of the pic thread), these guys are definitely not talking for friendship

the majority of affairs start innocently as friendships...........................

i doubt her man is ok with this, but hes been "friends" for so long e finally got his shot and doesn't want to insert boundaries.

 

[Desirous]

You said your not misleading


the analogy i used is the same thing

by being on a hookup/dating app you are advertising you are single and looking
you are the one misleading men

the same how a escort would advertise her services but would just want to talk and network and meet new friends

No it's not...it's reaching.

It's in my PROFILE "NOT INTERESTED IN INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS. JUST LOOKING TO CONNECT WITH COOL PEOPLE IN THE CITY PLATONIC OR BUSINESS" If that's not direct, I don't know what to tell you. That's like you saying "Well, she was dressed like a slut, and even though she told me she doesn't want to have sex and said no, she looked like she did so I just put it in anyway"

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

the majority of affairs start innocently as friendships...........................

i doubt her man is ok with this, but hes been "friends" for so long e finally got his shot and doesn't want to insert boundaries.

Hell nah her man isn't okay with it lol. I would assume that he isn't privy to all of these Tinder conversations either. But @Desirous has herself a dude with no backbone and she's got this guy so caught up, damn

This thread should be a lesson to these young ass nikkas on here. I mean maybe she isn't cheating or anything yet but all of her new options are lined up for her. You always gotta assume there's other nikkas lurking in the shadows. Be aware of your surroundings.

 

[MikelArteta]

No it's not...it's reaching.

It's in my PROFILE "NOT INTERESTED IN INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS. JUST LOOKING TO CONNECT WITH COOL PEOPLE IN THE CITY PLATONIC OR BUSINESS" If that's not direct, I don't know what to tell you. That's like you saying "Well, she was dressed like a slut, and even though she told me she doesn't want to have sex and said no, she looked like she did so I just put it in anyway"

everyone says that
ive never met a chick who has said "here for hookups", "here to find a boyfriend"

This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, 'I've done nothing wrong

 

[MikelArteta]

Hell nah her man isn't okay with it lol. I would assume that he isn't privy to all of these conversations either. But @Desirous has herself a dude with no backbone and she's got this guy so caught up, damn

This thread should be a lesson to these young ass nikkas on here. I mean maybe she isn't cheating or anything yet but all of her new options are lined up for her. You always gotta assume there's other nikkas lurking in the shadows. Be aware of your surroundings.

The Danger is when your so caught up, you believe every lie, and look the other way at every indiscretion, rationalizing the wrong - emperor_resincarf

 

[Desirous]

everyone says that
ive never met a chick who has said "here for hookups", "here to find a boyfriend"

This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, 'I've done nothing wrong

Ummm nah. When I was online dating and used POF, I was very clear that I was looking for a relationship. Worst thing you can do is play off your true intentions. If you want a bf, say that. If you want something casual, say that. If you are hoping to find someone to marry, say that. You're not doing anyone any favours by masking what you want.

 

[Kitsch]

Y'all still entertaining this fukkery, I feel like I am being trolled.

 

[killacal]

Yall got it fukked up she doesn't have a man shes a side piece....and its destroying her perception of reality

She's not even lying she wholeheartedly believes the bullshyt shes spewing to the point she's trying to get us to accept her insanity as sound logic

She needs a case study done on her psyche

She on the wrong side of 30 and kissing all the camels from here to Istanbul isn't gonna keep her warm at night

 

[Grams]

Y'all still entertaining this fukkery, I feel like I am being trolled.

I agree. @Emperor_ReinScarf @saysumthinfunnymike she's on Tinder cuz she loves the attention and she's attention whoring it up big time in this thread. Let's stop giving her what she wants.