Single Mother Statistics

[Formerly Black Trash]

To be honest this is how we win & women are not gona like it.

We would have to return back to the family dynamic of the black man being sole provider and BW taking care of the kids. Then, you would need to figure out an economic system to cycle money throughout the community. It would be a slow but positive process.

But black women ain’t leaving their “careers” or that gov support.

Men do not need to be sole provider

 

[Dr. Acula]

As a woman, I never understood women who choose to be a single parent. It has always made absolutely no sense to me.

Not trying to sound like a conservative misogynist but a lot of misguided feminism is to blame. Feminism, as it relates to its core movement, women deserve to be treated equally and equal opportunity as men, is great. But what you had especially during the 80s and 90s is a movement of women who made choices that are not that great come up with rhetoric and movements to normalize and destigmatize their bad choices instead of addressing the bad choices to protect their ego and feeling . Instead of saying being a single parent wasn't my ideal situation but unfortunately it is the one I'm in, they digged in deeper into I don't need a man and being a single mother is great. This wasn't backed by any data but just pure desire to protect egos.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Men do not need to be sole provider

If the couple has no children, then the wife should have a side job. If there are children involved, a man has to be the breadwinner

 

[Starski]

It is way past time for us to stop leading the league each and every year on these stats.

How about returning to our 1960 rates which were around 80 percent of Black children born to two, married parents?

That would place us currently on par with Asian-American families in terms of family and community cohesion.

I know this chart can include couples that are together but not married but

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

If the couple has no children, then the wife should have a side job. If there are children involved, a man has to be the breadwinner

People do the opposite and they're fine
My cousin both him and his wife have careers and contribute to the household

 

[Wild self]

I know this chart can include couples that are together but not married but

If the kid doesnt grow up with their biological father in the same household, they will have massive amounts of emotional problems.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

People do the opposite and they're fine
My cousin both him and his wife have careers and contribute to the household

Shoutout to them if they’re making it work, but I’m of the belief at least ONE parent has to be dedicated to maintaining the household. If both spouses are deep in their careers I’d imagine it being difficult to support their child when it comes to things such as extracurricular activities and school work.

why make things complicated when one of us can simply hold the fort down at home? Preferably a woman for the simple fact that the workforce (unfortunately) pays men better salaries/wages than women.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Shoutout to them if they’re making it work, but I’m of the belief at least ONE parent has to be dedicated to maintaining the household. If both spouses are deep in their careers I’d imagine it being difficult to support their child when it comes to things such as extracurricular activities and school work.

why make things complicated when one of us can simply hold the fort down at home? Preferably a woman for the simple fact that the workforce (unfortunately) pays men better salaries/wages than women.

If you poor both yall gonna need to work

If you got money and you want better for yall kids both yall going to need to work

 

[FaTaL]

What is the racial demogrqphic

Don’t ask

don’t tell

 

[Roid Jones]

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

But women don’t stress husbands out


Just left a relationship where ever single thing was blamed on me. I’m actually glad I didn’t get her pregnant

I’m sure they do. But women are the ones faced with the decision to fukk up their bodies to reproduce with somebody who potentially thinks she’s a living breathing cooking/cleaning/sex machine.
A lotta chicks are saying no bueno. I mean not that men should have an issue with it. As much cash money shyt as men talk about women being tainted, evil, weak, inferior, irritating, hoes, bytches, sluts, and so on, they not missing much.


but frfr I’m low key trolling, however I think there are easy fixes to this stuff. People should just learn how to be more considerate in relationships and talk to each other like they got some sense. But that seems too hard these days.


Good news is I have seen dudes doing better these days tho. Now I just need to see women break of victim/silent sufferer mode and use their words….and not in a hyper aggressive or passive aggressive way.

I honestly believe a lotta shyt could be avoid with healthy communication.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

But women don’t stress husbands out


Just left a relationship where ever single thing was blamed on me. I’m actually glad I didn’t get her pregnant

Going through a divorce now because of this.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

People do the opposite and they're fine
My cousin both him and his wife have careers and contribute to the household

This is the majority of people. This stay at home wife thing being the norm is something YT has created.

 

[Samori Toure]

Average income is $48,000 for single mothers. This is with 2/3 of white women included.

What does that number look like for us and more importantly, what kind of circumstances are the children growing up under?

The mothers don't have the resources for better education (for the child) and scarcity mentality will definitely be bred into that child's mind.

So what are we really celebrating with this pump and dump or GMB lifestyle?

This is all that matters. They don't have a chance with the mothers and fathers that life has dealt them. Then we sit up and lament the happenings in our communities, but the problem occurred before their births.

 

[calixprynce]

Just playing Devils advocate...wouldn't you agree that women have the final say-so if a baby will be brought into a single parent household? I mean you can't have it both ways - you can't say you want the absolute right to decide what happens with your body, like giving birth, but then turn around and blame somebody else if you decide to have a baby and you are single?

Even if the man is fully involved in raising the child, it's still, by name, a single parent household.

great rebuttal