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The likes of NBA Young boy, Future, and even DMX (RIP) are what the average clout chasing hoe likes. The 9 to 5 hetero black male is at the bottom of the totem pole, and even worse, the black intellectual is mocked as a socially awkward nerd with no real drip or swag. Superficial desires taken over and the family unit now shattered

:umad: Get in where you fit in or go pawg crybaby nikka
 

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This is the majority of people. This stay at home wife thing being the norm is something YT has created.
High value man lifestyle rhetoric got people thinking that's the standard. :mjlol:

This isn't the 1960's where you could work a factory job for 40 hours a week. and afford a decent house, in a decent neighborhood. and support a stay at home wife, with multiple kids. You're talking about upwards to $200K to do that in this economy, and people need to go look up the percentage of men making $200k+ a year. It's not realistic for 80%+ percent for men.

Your wife is gonna have to make some type of income if you make even above average money.
 
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Real rap :wow:



You post all that bout husbands stressing women out while still wanting to get married :mjlol:

Claiming it’s because women are self sufficient like majority of single mothers don’t have the father on child support :mjlol:
Women don’t get as much child support as many claim. When I looked at child support stats I was shocked at just how little it can be for some. And actually GETTING it is a whole nother ball game. I don’t even wanna get into some single moms I know who just give up because their ex husbands skips states, jobs, anything to avoid paying. I mean these stats show over half of these women are divorcees. Not just chicks letting randoms hit.
So it ain’t just on them.

Regardless of all the brouhaha, I still think a healthy monogamous relationship between two equally yoked people is the way to go. Personally I think it yields the best results for men, women AND children. But that doesn’t mean a lot of the bullshyt in traditional practices shouldn’t be addressed just because some egos are gonna get bruised. Nah.
 

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Stats don't even make sense, 2/3rd of single mothers are white. 1/3rd is black. Where do Asians, Hispanics, Arabs and native American women fit into? So if your a single mother you're either black or white?
They said "about". So each of those groups are probably 1% of the pie or some shyt. Those groups have closer ties to non-Western culture and aren't playing the single mother shyt.
 

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Just playing Devils advocate...wouldn't you agree that women have the final say-so if a baby will be brought into a single parent household? I mean you can't have it both ways - you can't say you want the absolute right to decide what happens with your body, like giving birth, but then turn around and blame somebody else if you decide to have a baby and you are single?

Even if the man is fully involved in raising the child, it's still, by name, a single parent household.

THIS.

If men had the choice / law to deny, it would change everything. But there’s too much money in this dysfunctional realm
 

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You neggas really blaming the women ? What about the deadbeat neggas that refuse to step up and just walk out on them ? Do y’all neggas really wanna say it’s the women faults they are single parents ?

you neggas insane man
Women do play a part in this. Don't procreate with a dude that hasn't married you or hasn't shown that he wants to be with you in a exclusive monogamous relationship. No excuse for a man not to take care of his children but let's stop excusing a segment of women who procreate with losers. :francis:
 

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Women do play a part in this. Don't procreate with a dude that hasn't married you or hasn't shown that he wants to be with you in a exclusive monogamous relationship. No excuse for a man not to take care of his children but let's stop excusing a segment of women who procreate with losers. :francis:


What kills me alot of woman call this a "phase"

but that phase could leave you with a kid or a few

but then it hits them its hard to be single with a kid

then it becomes "I was young"


breh if I do something that could effect my life when I was young ....it does not go away


and no one gonna have pity on me


i think the word getting out of men telling other men dont date single mothers is driving alot of woman crazy


I heard a woman say all these youtubers saying this making them lose hope



if you remember the term "Me and my kids are a package deal"

that term is being laughed at now


it used to be a thing now not so much ...



maybe I'm wrong but I'm seeing that alot now :yeshrug:









even by the regular dudes ....you know the ones that they scoop up at the end of the line
 

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This is the majority of people. This stay at home wife thing being the norm is something YT has created.
This is true. Only for a small period in the history of humanity (the 50s-80s), and localised to America, and again to middle class whites, has it ever been possible for a woman not to work unless they were wealthy lol.

TV has fukked people up. Women have always worked in some capacity (unless they were rich). They toiled the fields, worked in factories, were servants, etc.
 

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I feel for you bruh

I guess I got out before the wife and kids part of our relationship

Fortunately for me Texas is very fair as far as child custody is concerned. We are a defined joint custody state, meaning as long as the father wants to be in the childs life bare minimum a parent will get a 55/45 split on time and minimal child support. My child custody case is tricky because she wants to leave the state and go to California with my son(which judging by how our temporary order hearing went isn't happening). Right now she is technically the primary custodial parent since I left the marital residence(she initiated the separation though) but I have the 55 in the 55/45 as far as possession time goes so technically I should be the custodial parent, but until the final order is passed they won't change the designation.
 

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Fortunately for me Texas is very fair as far as child custody is concerned. We are a defined joint custody state, meaning as long as the father wants to be in the childs life bare minimum a parent will get a 55/45 split on time and minimal child support. My child custody case is tricky because she wants to leave the state and go to California with my son(which judging by how our temporary order hearing went isn't happening). Right now she is technically the primary custodial parent since I left the marital residence(she initiated the separation though) but I have the 55 in the 55/45 as far as possession time goes so technically I should be the custodial parent, but until the final order is passed they won't change the designation.
I’ve been REALLY considering moving to Texas next year. This is just another example as why

She probably trying to go to Cali probably because of its custodial and divorce laws
 
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