Kornball The Conqueror
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these women don't care about marriage just money freedom and attention, listen to what they talk about everyday its never about being better wives or mothers.
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Treblemaka
President, BYNKRadio.com (Retired)
We (primarily black men) absolutely support violent hedonistic mysogynistic irresponsible music by creating it and making it "cool" for wider society. Many of our children don't have a father in the home to combat these destructive images so they adopt them as role models. Why weren't the men in the home? Most of the time because they chose not to be. We are the reason that music exists and continues to exist. So yes we absolutely celebrate irresponsible behavior that is directly contributing to the uplifting of men who help create broken homes.
BM directly are the reason that NBA Youngboy and Future exist on the level they do in the culture. A culture we created and continue to foster.
Women are choosing to let men have unprotected men have sex with them but they didn't put a gun to that man's head and force him to nut inside, he did that stupid shxt to a woman he wasn't committed to on his own, and he should be held accountable for that.
Some of yall dodge accountability the same way these Baby mommas do then turn around and accuse them of the same shxt and its sad.
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They are just as guilty but lets not continue to let women not hold any accountability for their actions
So unless it was by force, 9/10 times they knew the type of man they laid down for.
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I’ve actually heard women say they rather just have a baby and not be in a relationshipKS had a show asking why a woman would rather be a single mother than a wife
I was dying to see what was woman's answers
Even they couldn't explain it
I was like
It seems hard as fukk dalily
But they kept saying they will find a man that will still marry them
KS said that's gonna be hard and they was bucking hard at that realization
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Some of them were the toxic ones though
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I’m almost certain they wouldn’tIma be honest, after matching with 3 joints on hinge and then revealing they have a kid, I’m a bit
on the subject. Like would you really pick me if you were childless?
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But women don’t stress husbands outThis is actually a worldwide trend. Women will
always want children. Some are just increasingly becoming fed up with relationship bullshyt. The result? As women become more self-sufficient they exploring different child-rearing models…if they have em at all.
There are studies on women revealing that dealing with men romantically was more stressful than just raising their kids on their own.
I guess it’s the result of all that HOH shyt.
Husbands, more than children, stress women out, study finds
The era of co-parenting is in full bloom for better or for worse.
But eventually more women are gonna start forgoing having babies altogether. I see the writing on the wall.
Personally I dunno if I could handle raising a child by myself, but some have better support systems than others so they make it work I guess.
Just left a relationship where ever single thing was blamed on me. I’m actually glad I didn’t get her pregnant
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
I’ve had so many close calls in the past. I wake up everyday grateful I didn’t mess my life up and knock up some skeezer. I was mad reckless with the Johnson.
I’ve seen it from both sides with old school buddies: women struggling everyday just taking their children to school. Brehs depressed because their child support eats away at most of their check.
I’m telling you brehs, I may be in a relationship but being single and child free is the goat. Don’t let anyone try and shame you for being “selfish”. It’s hard enough raising a child with two parents, imagine knocking up a woman you can’t stand who then spends YOUR money any way she wants?
It’s not worth it. Strap up and be careful.
I’ve seen it from both sides with old school buddies: women struggling everyday just taking their children to school. Brehs depressed because their child support eats away at most of their check.
I’m telling you brehs, I may be in a relationship but being single and child free is the goat. Don’t let anyone try and shame you for being “selfish”. It’s hard enough raising a child with two parents, imagine knocking up a woman you can’t stand who then spends YOUR money any way she wants?
It’s not worth it. Strap up and be careful.
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ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
I don’t doubt for one minute that’s true because there are more white/white hispanic women in this country. However, if we were to break this down per capita, I’m sure it would tell an unfortunate story.Why are most of y’all only shytting on Black women?
There’s actually way more single White mothers in the country but yet barely anyone is bringing that up.
I used to think this was a lie but the older I’ve gotten, the sadder this statement is closer to reality. A lot of them have this laissez faire attitude to having children: “well, the baby daddy either will or won’t play a part in my child’s life. It’s up to him.”
The selfishness a lot of these birds have. Never thinking of the child first, only their own selfish interests. Most of them just want an accessory. A mini me to show off. Be damned whether or not that child is raised in a healthy environment.
I used to feel bad for most single mothers but the majority of them are selfish losers.
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I thought single meant unmarried. I'm sure a lot of the "single" women in this study are with the father of their kids or just shacking up.
And most of y'all are GMB and don't see the benefits of marriage so why are you guys always shocked or have negative responses when you see these studies? A lot of people (men and women) in real life don't believe in marriage or think it's important. That's not going to stop them from being in relationships or having kids.
And most of y'all are GMB and don't see the benefits of marriage so why are you guys always shocked or have negative responses when you see these studies? A lot of people (men and women) in real life don't believe in marriage or think it's important. That's not going to stop them from being in relationships or having kids.
False. It is not that men do not see the benefits in marriage, it is that the negatives outweigh the positives. You can be a "good" father and still get railroaded in family court. Wife given full or large portion of the custody of the children off top. Because the majority of the time the woman does not agree to 50/50, then the man has to spend tens of thousands of dollars and sometimes years to fight for the chance(the CHANCE!) to get more visitation. Not to mention the fukkery that child support, alimony and division of property brings. Add to the mix the games some of these women play with the visitation you have AND the badmouthing of the child's father over the issue you two have, not them.
To put it simply, more and more men see that the way marriage is legally constructed is not worth the positives, while women know that through the family court and/or Govt assistance they do not need to have a man in the home, especially the child's father.
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Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
This is not sustainable for a society in the long run. The family is the backbone of a society. Single parenthood is not good for the long term health of a nation. This is just another stat to add to the other that America is on a slow decline.
Real rap
This is actually a worldwide trend. Women will
always want children. Some are just increasingly becoming fed up with relationship bullshyt. The result? As women become more self-sufficient they exploring different child-rearing models…if they have em at all.
I guess it’s the result of all that HOH shyt.
Husbands, more than children, stress women out, study finds
The era of co-parenting is in full bloom for better or for worse.
But eventually more women are gonna start forgoing having babies altogether. I see the writing on the wall.
Personally I dunno if I could handle raising a child by myself, but some have better support systems than others so they make it work I guess.
You post all that bout husbands stressing women out while still wanting to get married
Claiming it’s because women are self sufficient like majority of single mothers don’t have the father on child support
