Dude is a complete fool and played himself. I'll be damned if I come out of pocket & pay for a bunch of grown ass able bodied adults in this situation.
THIS!!!!!
And I could add in being extra nice to them. Majority of females (not all ) expect men to bend over backwards for them just because their a woman. F*ck out of here . If you're not a close family member or friend, you better pay/handle that sh*t on your own.
I treat women that I'm not dating like I treat men. Being a woman by itself doesn't motivate me to pay for things. The dating process is different because it's part of the ritual of showing that you can provide for a woman. Being friends with a someone for a while and showing your appreciation as a friend, also is a reason as well. But just off the strength off her being a woman, no bueno.
Regardless dude should have discussed the game plan ahead of time. Homie that spoke up was under the impression that everybody was paying for themselves. If I'm going out with a group of friends the thought of paying for another person's meal because of her gender is absurd.
THIS!!!!!
And I could add in being extra nice to them. Majority of females (not all ) expect men to bend over backwards for them just because their a woman. F*ck out of here . If you're not a close family member or friend, you better pay/handle that sh*t on your own.