Men are the catch, the prize, etc. If that wasn’t the case women wouldn’t complain about men so much and talk about how men ruin their lives, make life intolerable, set unrealistic standards, etc.
However, being the catch does not mean that it doesn’t come with duty and responsibility. Heavy is the head that wears the crown.
Idk why this is even a big deal. Take the most beautiful, successful, amazing woman in the world and the man she locks down will still be the catch.
Men control commitment and they make a relationship exclusive or not. Don’t like it, be a lesbian.