Signs she’s settling for you

[Gyasi85]

 

[Ryda52]

I had to bush this girl because she gave me vibes that she’s settling for me because I seem stable, rather than what she’d usually go for. I’m so used to girls being into me heavy, so my ego cant deal with girls that feel like they’re doing me a favor by being with me.

The main signs from my experience are:

- The guys she’s dated in the past have a certain look and you don’t match

- She doesn’t initiate physical touch


Y’all add on.

THIS. A lot of dudes sleep on this. This alone will tell you all you really need to know about her in general.

 

[EVILRICO]

If she doesn’t reach over to unlock your door, while she waits in the passenger seat.

 

[Blessings]

mhmmmm

 

[Shadow King]

THIS. A lot of dudes sleep on this. This alone will tell you all you really need to know about her in general.

You would have to dig through her past for that and the Coli doesn't care about bodies, so how could you learn what previous partners look like?

 

[cyndaquil]

When God tells her you are not her husband

@God Of Art here we go another woman making irrational choices under the guise of God.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

This thread might be triggering for my coli brehs.
- if the majority of your times seeing her have to include you spending money, particularly expensive outings. Her type can meet her in a dark alley.

 

[DA_LURKA]

When God tells her you are not her husband

god don't talk to women...

 

[Ryda52]

You would have to dig through her past for that and the Coli doesn't care about bodies, so how could you learn what previous partners look like?

You ain’t never seen your partner’s exes before?

 

[Shadow King]

You ain’t never seen your partner’s exes before?

You compiling all of them to deduce your fit into the lineup?

 

[Ryda52]

You compiling all of them to deduce your fit into the lineup?

If you don’t fit into what she prefers, I guarantee you that bytch ain’t with you out of sincerity and will ghost you when given the opportunity. You’re a means to an end.

 

[mag357]

As soon as I read doesn't initiate physical contact. I fell on the floor


Sign 3 she's settling. When u initiate physical contact... She throws up all in her mouth

 

[mag357]

None of those two are accurate....

The first one could be simply her changing herself and maturing. It's not settling, it's upgrading unless your really low on the scale.

The second ..all female are notorious for..

Even married they are scared of rejection....even if you hit it 10 000...they won't initiate because it could mean your no longer into them(in their mind) if you say no.

Man gtfoh

I should have found this thread earlier.
This sht is hilarious

 

[Shadow King]

If you don’t fit into what she prefers, I guarantee you that bytch ain’t with you out of sincerity and will ghost you when given the opportunity. You’re a means to an end.

We don't disagree, but that doesn't dispute my point. Going into 2025 women have dealt with too many niqqas to be building a montage on looks.

Learning sexual history/body count is more important than deducing if you're pretty enough or not.

 

[Ryda52]

We don't disagree, but that doesn't dispute my point. Going into 2025 women have dealt with too many niqqas to be building a montage on looks.

Learning sexual history/body count is more important than deducing if you're pretty enough or not.

But……..my point was referring to women with a preference. The bolded is clearly important when pursuing a relationship, but as far as women with a certain type that they go for, which not all women have anyways which is why OP singled it out as a sign, if you don’t fall under that, I can almost guarantee she’s not being honest about her true intentions.

And if that’s the case, then fine. Use her like she’s using you, just be aware of the individual that you’re getting into a relationship with, and never become too attached. Like a rebound, I’ve been a rebound before and knew it, no matter what game she would try to run. So I never treated her more than that knowing she would be going back to dude anyways.