Shoutout to this black Sista for being honest and direct.

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What kills me is how it be these basic CNA's (making no more than around 40k a year) & strip hoes (who knows how they make) or some other basic ass job talking the most about "providers" and shyt :mjlol: has anybody ever noticed that? Now I see why :bryan:.

It's never women who're making real bank (money) stressing and pressing about "providers" :coffee:.
 

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I'll be damned if bust my ass working 60 hours a week and marry a woman who has nothing but some p*ssy.

House and cooking is easy, don't need no woman for that. 2019 and they still not trying to bring nothing else to the table. On top of the that, the possibility to lose it all :camby: I'm not saying you have to match what I make, but you gotta contribute something.
 

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You lost if you wifed any grown woman who constantly refers to black men as nikkas:mjlol:
Any woman who constantly refers to other women as "b!tches" or uses the word "n!gga" is :camby:material for me.
You might still get some d!ck but even that's unlikely. know for some black american women it's the norm to speak this way but the minute i detect it i tend to distance myself from them. We could still be cool but your active presence in my circle will be limited :whoa:
 
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Don't yall grown men call other grown men "nikkas"
I use the word but I don’t call my bros by it like all the time like it’s their name
Either way this is just another false equivalency
I would never call someone who is supposed to be my wife/ mother of my children any variation of the word “bytch”
 

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:mjcry: Finally a sista who gets it.
I listened to the first vid and honestly, she told no lies, really. :manny:
In other societies it's very common for a family to reject or condemn a marriage between their children and someone else because they dont feel the other person and/or their family is up to par in terms of social ranks and financial status. Americans however tend to believe in LOVE as a basis for a union and anything else is frowned upon or condemned with labels like "gold digger" etc.
Truth is men run the world and based on their positions, get their pick of the litter among the women. If a woman doesnt wanna be stuck with some bum cat who's content making minimum wage at 25 y/o, playing video games, and smoking weed then that's her right.
I wouldnt want my daughter, nieces or little cousins passing on the opportunity to marry a doctor only to marry some burger flipping mofo either. :manny:
Burger flipper might be a cool cat and love her but marriages arent just about that. You want to bring people into your family that will place future generations in a better position. As a man my own father always told me "never ever marry a woman of lower social class than you. Either same or higher. Never lower!" :ufdup:
 
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