Shoutout to this black Sista for being honest and direct.

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If a man was completely providing for your every financial need and you had nothing to possibly ask for, would you be willing to fully submit to him and his every need? :patrice:

Depends on what his terms of submission are.

I personally have no desire to depend solely on another person to keep me fed. People have a tendency use that sorta dynamic as a means of control and get a superiority complex.
 

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Could it be the homosexual in your avi:snoop:

Far as this thread,she is only right depending on her definition of provide. How much does she think it cost to "provide" is the question. And many women of today have a distorted view of what that is,and what a alpha is. If you consider a man making 6 figures with no long term plan for you an "alpha" and a "provider" thats your deathwish sweety pie:respect:

A man who can afford a crib with enough bedrooms for you and however many kids yall have,pay bills every month,has a life long plan and goals for you and your kids is someone I woud actually consider a provider. You can be a millionaire,down to somebody making less than 50K a year and be this. But I'm guessing she and most women speaking her rhetoric who have to defend being "gold diggers" aren't thinking tha way. But the devil is in the details,and she isn't giving the full story on her idea of "providing" which is what most of these ho's try to spin gold digging into,like they only want the basic neccesseties lol.

You're pulling assumptions out of the air

You shouldn't be getting this emotional over what she has to say

If you feel insecure in your stock as a man, boss up, dont go on these tirades in an attempt to rationale why she's wrong for wanting a boss
 

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OP couldn't even stop his bytch from cheating on him :dead:

You pathetic postin this lost thot

What brehs didnt pick up from this is that shes looking for a Plan C provider nikka that she isnt attracted to but tolerates.

Thats how you end up with Skeets fukking your bytch whilst you’re working 60 hours.
 

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I’m not even going to press play on this ho babble. You are the biggest fakkit and biggest simp on this site.
:umad: Didn’t say I like the bytch. Just agreed with the mentality.


:scusthov: But then I forget most of you men grew up in a single mother home so you don’t know what a real black marriage or real black family looks like.

:yeshrug: Don’t get mad at me because ya mothers picked wrong.
 
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:umad: Didn’t say I like the bytch. Just agreed with the mentality.


:scusthov: But then I forget most of you men grew up in a single mother home so you don’t know what a real black marriage or real black family looks like.

:yeshrug: Don’t get mad at me because ya mothers picked wrong.

I grew up in a two parent household with both my biological mother and father, a father I’ve known all my life and talk to on a weekly basis. Get this shyt out of my face you nerd. :mjlol:
 
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if this girl didn’t grow up with a father who was an alpha provider in the house she just talking to get views because the alpha provider male makes ALL of the decisions and most of these City Girl / Cardi B influenced chicks will not go along with his program

Before End Game came out some of these broads already had time travel mastered

They attempt to live in 2019 & 1914 simultaneously
 

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Duh. I tell these girls all the time, wtf are you out here chasing after and loving a broke grown man when you could just as easily love a provider.

You're only a golddigger if you pretend to love that provider to stay fed. It is absolutely possible to genuinely love and be loved by a man who adores taking care of you and has structured his life in a way that allows him to do so. In a different ways, you'll love taking care of him. It balances out- except to a broke man who desperately needs his pennies or to a man who doesn't love you. Weed them out.

Also, ladies dont take advice on this topic from a man talking from his own empty pockets. Listen to an actual provider with means to do so comfortably. I know a few. They are actively seeking wives, educated, and close to their own ages.

This board gets it wrong alot on this topic. People need to speak within their tax bracket.
 
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