Should the black community adopt arranged marriages (patriarchy)?

[skylove4]

So you’re encouraging the rape of our womenyou’re a goddamn demon. If you, your family or anyone in your dusty ass culture still believes in archaic shyt like arranged marriages, you aren’t worthy of respect.Water seeks its own level. If youre a subpar man in every way you deserve a subpar woman and y’all will find each other. Better yourself as a man and you will get quality women, without having to steal their autonomy as human beings.

 

[skylove4]

That's order breh.

Oh so you believe in order, and folks having a right to control others peoples lives, especially of those physically weaker than them like your bytch ass
ok I got a order for your lame ass, drink up

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

You like being ruled by blondies.

That may be one of the DUMBEST things ever posted on this board.

Congratulations!!!​

 

[RareHunter]

That may be one of the DUMBEST things ever posted on this board.

Congratulations!!!​

You love it blondie.

 

[number21]

Oh so you believe in order, and folks having a right to control others peoples lives, especially of those physically weaker than them like your bytch ass
ok I got a order for your lame ass, drink up

Low-level nikka babble.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

You love it blondie.

This is where you keep responding/badgering in order to 'win'......further proving you to be retarded.

Incoming response in 5.....4.....3.....

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[skylove4]

Low-level nikka babble.

Still not lower than the prices your lot lizard of a mama charges to use her four holes, that’s right, I said four, for a dollar extra she lets nikkas run up in that neck hole

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Only a sith talks like that

Nazis, Communists, and Fascists would like a mention.​

 

[CarmelBarbie]

So marriage doesn’t benefit men, yet its men who are advocating for forced arranged marriages? lol. Obviously y’all see benefits for men. A lot of men on here seem to love the idea of having a good traditional woman who would support him and the home and the kids. So of course these marriages would have benefit to men, especially those struggling with woman. It’s a guaranteed wife and p*ssy lol.

Anyway, I think arranged marriage is fine if that’s what that particular family wants to do. There is nothing stopping black fathers from making this a requirement for their daughters and sons. Just let the kids know when they’re young and keep reinforcing it so that by the time they’re older they already know that it’s how marriage is done for the family.

But this is obviously not realistic for the overall/entire black community. There are too many black fathers not in the homes to support this—so who would arrange the marriages for all the single parent homes? Our marriage rate is also 30%, so how are fathers who are not even married themselves, and obviously don’t value marriage, going to arrange marriages for their children?

You also have to consider that not everyone wants to get married. Some don’t even want children or families. Y’all can’t force them to marry lol.

Considering that women initiate most divorces already and that’s to the men they actually chose to marry, how long we given these marriages before the woman runs to court and files because she’s miserable with him?

I think if y’all want to make this a priority for your own kids that’s cool—and y’all can do it. But as far as wanting others to do it, for all the reasons I listed above and more, its not realistic and won’t ever happen.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ever notice that cats advocating for this type of thing AREN'T married?

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If they could attain and retain a marriage they wouldn't talk like that. It's sour grapes.

 

[Throne.]

Question to detractors: Do you not trust your parents judgement for what’s best for you?

Question for supporters: Can you really learn to love someone who was chosen for you?

 

[EMY]

nikkas so down bad that they want bytches to be forced to marry them. This site gonna produce a black Elliot Rodger

Why do y’all think arranged marriages automatically equal non consensual?

 

[number21]

Question to detractors: Do you not trust your parents judgement for what’s best for you?

Question for supporters: Can you really learn to love someone who was chosen for you?

People can grow to love someone. Especially when everything is straight forward and clear for what needs to be done.

 

[EMY]

It's not that hard, nikka. Say you want to force women to stay in dysfunctional and abusive marriages. Be a man and stand on your square.

Why is it that women are treated as the victim in every scenario? Aren’t wives more likely to hit/abuse their husbands than vice versa statistically?

And I’ll ask y’all again, WHY DO YALL THINK ARRANGED MARRIAGES CANT BE CONSENSUAL?

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

nikkas in here that advocate for infideluty also talking bout arranged marriages because its better for society and the family structure

If yall dont get out of here with this fake righreous bullshyt

You just reminded me that @number21 called me a "degenerate simp" because I was against married men having side pieces. Now he's extolling the virtues of arranged marriage. Dude just hates women

Being faithful to your woman an honoring your commitment is degenerate now? .