Conversely if men could opt out of parenting they’d have a “get out of jail free” card that only benefits them, then lays the responsibility of the child on society. That’s not “fair” either.Never said it only benefits women and I agree that if women were confident that the man would be a good partner we would see significantly less abortions
A woman always has access to a get out of jail free card. The man only gets out of jail if the woman is on board.