The Realist Perspective
Superstar
How about the mother…stop absolving them of their bad choices.
Should men be forced to pay child support if they let the woman know in advance that they don’t want the child?
- Thread starter Houston911
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How about the mother…stop absolving them of their bad choices.
The thread is based on a false premise.
Your finances have nothing to do with her healthcare.
The thread is stupid fukko.
so you're pro-choice, yet you want to absolve brehs of paying child support if they didn't want the baby? i'm telling you this: the breh has the right to be heard by the expectant mother, but it's ultimately the chick's choice to keep or abort because that fetus grows in her body. if she keeps the baby, you have a responsibility to help take care of that child whether it be thru child support or other means, period. trying to weasel out of that is bytchmade activity. the exception is when a chick doesn't your help (which IMO, you should still try but you're free to respect her wishes)
separately, you act like abortion is just done-done, chick can go about her life as if nothing is wrong. Do you personally know ANYONE that's had an abortion?
Do you think the mother should be barred from government financial support if the father absolves themselves of financial responsibility?
That's the only way the child will not become the responsibility of the tax payers if the mother requires assistance, unless they give it up for adoption.
Goddamn 
Ok I'm eleven pages in and pro-choice but so far no more than five people have answered this question correctly and most keep answering what should happen BEFORE the pregnancy not what Houston asked which is after in regards to men paying child support and keep using logic that can apply to women 
Ok I'm eleven pages in and pro-choice but so far no more than five people have answered this question correctly and most keep answering what should happen BEFORE the pregnancy not what Houston asked which is after in regards to men paying child support and keep using logic that can apply to women 
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
The man doesn't have a say. It's 100% the women's choice.
If you don't want the child? Too bad. If you want the child but she wants to abort? Too bad. If she stops taking the pill without you knowing? Too bad.
Deal with it. This is the life of men.
If you don't want the child? Too bad. If you want the child but she wants to abort? Too bad. If she stops taking the pill without you knowing? Too bad.
Deal with it. This is the life of men.
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
Goddamn
That's because a lot of these nikkas slow in the head. Crazy how I get the bulk of negative comments.
I know DOZENS of women who have had abortions and they all did it cuz they were recklessly having unprotected sex and weren’t ready for a kid yet
Literally every single one of them
Goddamn
Low iq gang, low reading comprehension game is in the building
CreepyMcCreeperson
Veteran
Yes. If the kid is born, then it needs to be provided for. Feelings don’t take away, or put food on the table.
Answering the OP. It’s always the woman since men don’t carry babies. Which is why the decision making in this particular issue can never be equal (assuming you’re not in a red state). Nothing deep or thought provoking, it’s really that simple.
I’m pro-choice because the maternal mortality in this country is atrocious, especially for black women.
I’m pro-choice because the maternal mortality in this country is atrocious, especially for black women.
mbewane
Knicks: 93 til infinity
When push comes to shove as a man your opinion doesn't matter once she gets pregnant. If you want to keep it and she doesn't she won't. If you don't want to keep it but she does she will. Regardless of anything you say, how you feel, what you want, your situation in life, etc.
That's why I tell young brehs to ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM. No sex is worth getting trapped in a lifelong situation you didn't wish for.
That's why I tell young brehs to ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM. No sex is worth getting trapped in a lifelong situation you didn't wish for.
and i know multiple women who had abortions and regretted it. still that doesn't have shyt to do with a father wanting to be absolved of all responsibility. you're conflating these arguments breh
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
There are no decisions, the mam has zero say on the matter. If the mother wants to take her kids to another city, guess what? You can't do shyt about it