Should men be forced to pay child support if they let the woman know in advance that they don’t want the child?

[Neuromancer]

Tbh he should be forced to live with the woman and child. Though ideally of that ain't gonna happen then yes.

 

[The ADD]

Am I not a citizen of the United States that is affected by the same laws as everyone else? I’m suppose to just be out here at the mercy of the law? My calendar says 2022 but I guess y’all still in the 50s.

Mann, y’all got it I hear y’all.. there are seldom situations that a Man can get a 2nd chance or way out, and that’s what comes with being one.. but I don’t have this “take it to the chin” approach you guys are pushing.

You skip over the part where you control being subject to those laws

 

[broller]

It is a medical condition period.

Decisions on getting preganant, staying pregnant, giving birth, and having an abortion all have great implications on the mothers health.

That's like saying your paycheck is a medical issue because we know that socioeconomic status has a great impact on one's health.

 

[Neuromancer]

Abortions stats are murky and skewed because we primarily have numbers for working-class / poor families that already have a disadvantage in access to reproductive planning and care. Not only that, some states don't even report their numbers, nor ask for anything.

I don't think folks acknowledge the history of child support, nor how the policy became a tool of incarceration for black men despite it being a punishment for white men who fled their households.

I'm on the fence, but more state resources should be given to children regardless of their parental situation.

That's socialism , dear and we can't have that in murica. Shoots gun in air.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

It is depending on the circumstance. slip-ups do happen like not pulling out fast enough to where a little bit gets shot in her

Then the woman can press charges if they want or the man should not be able to opt out of financial support if it was clear to not nut inside

 

[Neuromancer]

Yes. We don’t need more poor kids in society.

If the father and mother are poor chances are the child will be as well.

 

[Henri Christophe]

All I’m getting from this is men are held to a higher standard & women should be treated as less than?

Yes.

It seems like alot of you guys bought into the equality rhetoric and now youre upset that it was all a lie.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Maybe she does want to be inseminated and consents, we need to start teaching young men that this combination can lead to pregnancy.

We need to start teaching young men that their pockets are going to be raped whether they like it or not

 

[brandy]

That's socialism , dear and we can't have that in murica. Shoots gun in air.

You right, eff dem kids.

 

[Apprentice]

The reason this doesn’t work is that SOMEBODY has to support the child.

As a society we have decided against socialism. Therefore the people that make the baby are on the hook for its support.

The mother who decided to have the child is right there to do that

It can’t be 1 person has a choice to keep the child and the other party is forced to do watever they do

The more y’all argue against that the more it makes me feel SCOTUS got it right. Y’all tryna say woman have no responsibility fr, are they kids themselves?

 

[Armchair Militant]

If the father and mother are poor chances are the child will be as well.

I’d rather a kid have two poor parents than one

 

[RaspberryFitted]

You skip over the part where you control being subject to those laws

I get it breh condoms + choosing better.

my thing is if a collective of men wanted to advocate for a law to bypass financial responsibility to the child.. it would be an issue. Just like mandatory paternity test would be an issue.

Like I keep saying over and over, y’all keep alluding to women being one thing and men the other. That’s completely fine, I just want society as a whole to stop promoting we are the same.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Regardless of the majority of this argument

Women should be forced to report all child support spending to make sure that child support is going directly and solely to support the child and not themselves

 

[Henri Christophe]

Be a man=Be stronger, be smarter, be more responsible.

It’s the quiet part that a lot of folks are scared to say out loud.

correct

 

[spliz]

Yeah, there's definitely some wack ass double standards in this world. People just need to admit it.

Women got theirs, we got ours.

But comeon yall, yeah you gotta pay cause you chose to shoot up the club.



But I have always wondered something....

let's say you get some head from a bustdown broad, she keeps the nut, gets pregnant with it. I guess you still have to pay child support technically, but can't you sue her for something?

Nope. U can’t sue her. Lol. U can also be married to a woman and she cheat on u and has a kid. U divorce her u still can be hooked into child support. I don’t like double standards on a government level. There’s always gonna be double standards in life. But on a government level men get the shytty end of the stick FAR too often.