Should men be forced to pay child support if they let the woman know in advance that they don’t want the child?

[Houston911]

Be a man=Be stronger, be smarter, be more responsible.

It’s the quiet part that a lot of folks are scared to say out loud. But it’s the expectation society places on us from an early age.

The whole concept of “provide and protect” is placed on Black boys as the expectation of manhood. Even before a lot of them are ready.

So to answer @Houston911 the real answer to your opening post is that men are looked upon to be the adults in functional society.

If a plane or ship goes down the first instructions are “Women and children first”

How you doing my brotha

Glad to see you still keeping it logical and masculine unlike most of these sassy niccas on here

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Are you implying that women are so stupid and helpless that they wouldn’t go to cvs to get a morning after pill if a man nutted in her and she didn’t want him to?

I find this to be highly offensive and belittling to women

the amount of male chauvinist pigs in this thread is disgusting

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I think men who skeet irresponsibly and women who open up their legs irresponsibly should both be punished through an 18 yr inconvenience.

 

[Bumblebreh]

A woman decides “I was dumb to let this dude nut in me, I’m not ready for a kid, it would ruin my life. I’m gonna kill this fetus and move on with my life” - this is ok

A man decides “I was dumb to nut in this chick, I’m not ready for a kid, it would ruin my life. If she wants to have the kid I can’t stop her, but I want to completely remove myself from all forms of responsibility and move on with my life” - this is not ok

Well of course it is not okay, by default a single mother gets main custody of the child. Meaning, the man does not even have to be an active parent. She gets the option, and rightfully so. To put the father on child support if he refuses to financially provide for the child. Child support is supposed to financially support a child.

 

[skyrunner1]

Lets keep it real, majority of guys here seem to support scrambling babies brains or vacuuming them out of existence because....


women.. No other reason.. this is bizarro world type shyt

 

[George's Dilemma]

perhaps the GOP next step is to make pre-marital sex illegal

Wouldn't surprise me at this point. I was browsing a catholic subreddit yesterday and some of the things I read were disturbing.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Are you implying that women are so stupid and helpless that they wouldn’t go to cvs to get a morning after pill if a man nutted in her and she didn’t want him to?

I find this to be highly offensive and belittling to women

I don't know how you got to that conclusion

 

[Apprentice]

I said this shyt in class this year and nobody disagreed wit me, not even the woman

If a woman is sayin it’s her body her decision, that’s facts. But decisions have consequences, if the nikka is tellin u he don’t want involvement wit a child that should clearly be his choice

Look how America has responded to the Roe V Wade overturning, u take the ability to choose away from the woman now they ready to cry. With nikkas, it’s pay this money and shut the fukk up

If your only response to this is, “don’t nut in a woman if u don’t want a child” then u are pretty much siding with the Supreme Court who are on the time “don’t get pregnant if u don’t want a baby”

Ain’t it tough when women get treated like men?

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Wouldn't surprise me at this point. I was browsing a catholic subreddit yesterday and some of the things I read were disturbing.

It's pretty clear there is a growing intent to govern the country in a non secular manner

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

if a woman is nut in that doesnt want to be nut in and tells the man that then it should be a crime if it is not already

It is depending on the circumstance. slip-ups do happen like not pulling out fast enough to where a little bit gets shot in her

 

[Houston911]

I don't know how you got to that conclusion

Did you read what YOU wrote?

 

[Matt504]

again, if a woman doesnt want to be nut in but consents to unprotected sex then that should be a crime if it is implied that women cannot prevent a man to nut in them once sex is commenced

Maybe she does want to be inseminated and consents, we need to start teaching young men that this combination can lead to pregnancy.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I said this shyt in class this year and nobody disagreed wit me, not even the woman

If a woman is sayin it’s her body her decision, that’s facts. But decisions have consequences, if the nikka is tellin u he don’t want involvement wit a child that should clearly be his choice.

The reason this doesn’t work is that SOMEBODY has to support the child.

As a society we have decided against socialism. Therefore the people that make the baby are on the hook for its support.

 

[brandy]

Abortions stats are murky and skewed because we primarily have numbers for working-class / poor families that already have a disadvantage in access to reproductive planning and care. Not only that, some states don't even report their numbers, nor ask for anything.

I don't think folks acknowledge the history of child support, nor how the policy became a tool of incarceration for black men despite it being a punishment for white men who fled their households.

I'm on the fence, but more state resources should be given to children regardless of their parental situation.

 

[Armchair Militant]

Yes. We don’t need more poor kids in society.