Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
We know the genders are not equal - but we play along to be polite.
Its like an unspoken thing.
Should men be forced to pay child support if they let the woman know in advance that they don’t want the child?
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We know the genders are not equal - but we play along to be polite.
Its like an unspoken thing.
I'm saying that custody rights are more equal than financial support rights
Thats the mothers job my guy.
Men and women are different.
#imdifferent #newrules
So should dumb ass women be allowed to abort if they’re willingly sleeping unprotected with a man that they couldn’t envision themselves raising a kid with? Should there be a law to protect her from her poor decision making if she does not face any medical risks by carrying to term?
filial_piety
Banned
No lie I had this argument with a male coworker in 2007....and one in 2015....The part that's truly wild to me is that these are supposedly heterosexual dudes making these arguments.
I expect women to make the pretzel twists because this is all about control and having something over men with them, but these dudes...Are they trolling?
It went like this...
Me: If a man, legally and verbally says that he does not want a child, should he be allowed to abort his financial responsibility?
Coworker:
I don't think so, that's not what's best for the childMe: And abortion is?
Coworker: It's her body, she should be able to do what she wants with it
Me: Ok, but it's his money, shouldn't he have a right of what he wants to do with it and how it'll effect him?
Coworker: That's not the kind of society I want to live in....men should take responsibility for their children
Me:Ok, I agree...but couldn't that same logic be applied to women who are Pro-choice?
Coworker: It's not the same....women should have the choice, men should take responsibility
Me: Ok....
Mind you...i'm not AGAINST abortion...morally I don't support it though...i just see it as one of those necessary evils though...but I also believe that men should be able to legally and fincially absolve themselves from a child similar to a sperm donor...contrary to popular belief, abortion is not a right that only effects women...men have to be involved in the choice (at some point) as well
Live in maga states
"Brehs"
You fukkd now you fukkd!
"Brehs"
You fukkd now you fukkd!
NoNope.
You and her created the kid. It's both of your jobs.
Her body her choice
My pocket my choice
#newrules
I don't know. I go back and forth on this. Chappelle put it best, if she can legally kill it (in some states after yesterday's news), then men should legally be able to recuse themselves from all financial obligations related to that child if she chooses to keep it. There's a level of hyporisy that comes with "my body my choice" when the man has no say-so in the matter before birth, and no say-so financially afterwards.
At the same time though, lets say hypothetically the law changed tomorrow and men were no longer mandated to pay child support. A whole lot of mothers if not most are going to need assistance. Who is that gonna fall onto? The government. Principally speaking I have an issue with tax dollars being substituted because some men are too irresponsible with who they lay with, and so moralliy deficient that they wont take care of their seed.
At the same time though, lets say hypothetically the law changed tomorrow and men were no longer mandated to pay child support. A whole lot of mothers if not most are going to need assistance. Who is that gonna fall onto? The government. Principally speaking I have an issue with tax dollars being substituted because some men are too irresponsible with who they lay with, and so moralliy deficient that they wont take care of their seed.
And I agree with it
I think we should offer public assistance, but the biological father should help out if he's living
Without child support, we'd probably have even more men running up in women raw and beingjme
Does thecoli care about broken Black homes and thr community or not?
I definitely think women should be discerning with their p*ssy, but I think the current system is the best one
that's all the way backwards. child support never stopped nikkas from going in raw
but if it didn't exist, women just might have to be halfway decent to the dude they laid down with and respect the concept of fatherhood and family
Yes you need to be forced.
Because otherwise you're forcing me, the taxpayer to pay for the child you wanted to murder and that's your responsibility not mine.
Time for men to grow up
Ok, you're trolling.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
fukk all that polite shyt .. recess is over.
I wholeheartedly agree about personal accountability for men. Condoms, choose better, vetting.. cool
but the Matrix dodging people are doing when it comes to women isIf we collectively agree women should be treated like 2nd tier children.. again.. cool
.. but when you teach young boys and men they shouldn’t uphold and principles of leadership and the burden that’ll rest on their shoulders, you end up with this abomination of men we have now.#BanBlackBoyJoy
Most men don't care about custody rights so they end up paying for it financially.
The counter argument that you want to use is for men to NOT have personal responsibility though lol.So the general consensus in this thread, online, and irl is that a woman can make a serious decision for both parties w/o you having a say, but her + the government will impede any say you have..
this ruling further emphasizes that:
which is fine.. but society just needs to stop teaching both sexes otherwise.
What I don’t understand is how so many of you dudes want to be men but want to complain about having responsibilities. That’s part of the game. If you wanna be a bytch, just say that proudly.