Unfortunately, overweight womenz tend to have lower standards.(A lot of them, not all of them)
I believe this is because they don't get approached as often. They don't have as many options, so they tend to be easier to please. Men can be cheaper with them, and more inconsistent. (I have a relative in jail who keeps asking me to hook him up with a fat girl to use while he's incarcerated.)
Speaking as a former overweight woman myself... I struggled with this. Be Clear: I have never been easy or lose, but the couple of boyfriends/lovers I had before I lost weight didn't have to do much. I just wanted companionship, sex, and good food. (lol ) So I attracted men that could only offer that.
They Didn't do a lot for me. They Didn't feel like they should/or had to. Of course I never made them, because I didn't know any better. I didn't need them to, because I have always been fiercely independent. (still am) They probably targeted me for these reasons.
Fast Forward...
I lost weight. The type of men I attract now are totally different. They want to buy me things. Show me off. Go out more. Be more social. However, I have not changed. I am a homebody, and I don't like that. I resent it. I want men that like me for who I am. Not what I look like, or how I look on their arm. I don't like crowds. I don't like that superficial stuff, but when you are attractive you attract a lot of superficial men. You attract lots of them. It's hard to chose, so you kinda have to make them WORK to see who is real. Some womenz idea of "work"' is money and expensive dates. I tried this at first, but It wasn't me. My idea of work is companionship,honesty and quality TIME. (You would be surprised how many men are incapable of doing this correctly even if they like you)
I miss the companionship's I had with men when looks weren't a factor.
I'm still trying to find that balance.
