Nah, You aren't giving me a "reality check". I know there are bad people in the world, but I just think it's sad.
You are not wrong for having standards.You are not wrong for not liking overweight women. If you "do not like fat women"... Leave them alone. Don't approach them. Go for what you like.
But to think it's okay to use someone sexually, or treat someone bad because they aren't your type, and their self esteem is too low to know to demand better is grimey. Period.
As far as short men... I am not attracted to them. I lovez me some tall menz w/ broad shoulders. Always have. Therefore, I do not entertain short guys I am not attracted to. I could use short men for money, dates with free food, and an ego boost when I need one. (like a lot of women do) However, I am not grimey enough to do that.That is a character issue.
It's not really using them if you let them know what's up from the get go right? Propose a one night stand to a chubby chick to get of the drought and then both parties KIM afterwards. Shouldn't be impossible.