Shorty Just broke up with me (update)

[O.T.I.S.]

I have dealt with this before, but not with someone like her. If I was looking for a rela right now, she’d Be ideal. Literally. But i been practicin self love and practicin being content with being alone

i really dont neeed her in my life as a gf and thats real . I don’t need no woman right now . I’m good on my lonesome . I’m Gud wakin up alone in my own bed . I’m gud with dinner for 1 watching Da game. IM comfortable As fukk.

and i get my intimacy needs taken care of my casually Datin and fukkin

she even said the first time we fukked that I fukk with passion and that’s on purpose to emulate the real thing. that’s jus where i am I want the best of both worlds . fukk settling down rn

Well the thing about dating someone is that it's just dating.. Just figuring a person out.

But you can only date for so long. You fukking, going out to movies, probably going out to other social events, etc... Thats seriously dating pleighboi, not fukking with benefits.

Not only that, she wasn't aware you were not exclusively dating her. Its why she caught feelings.. You were probably the ONLY nikka she was talking to or liked talking to at least.

You can't always have the best of both worlds, and eventually all that dating has to end up somewhere. Either shyt or get off the pot

Casually dating her has run it's course

 

[onelastdeath]

But you can only date for so long. You fukking, going out to movies, probably going out in other social events, etc... Thats dating pleighboi, not fukking with benefits.

Im doin this with like 3 other girls and none have made the mistake of callin me their BF, is my point

 

[TL15]

anyone?? anyone care to respond?? and the jokes keep writing themselves... (this shyt keeps pulling me back in..i'm trying to dead it, for real). Isn't that the movie about...ummm... nvm... just nvm. yeah....he's gone.. they got him.

I've "just fycked never dated" a lot of women and we never left my place or hers.

I appreciate OP for sharing this story, but if you have a girl that you been seeing since December... funerals and romantic movies...she's coming over crying etc....it's clear they were more than just fyck buddies.

 

[onelastdeath]

I've "just fycked never dated" a lot of women and we never left my place or hers.

I appreciate OP for sharing this story, but if you have a girl that you been seeing since December... funerals and romantic movies...she's coming over crying etc....it's clear they were more than just fyck buddies.

We can be more than fukk buddies without me being her Mann breh

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Im doin this with like 3 other girls and none have made the mistake of callin me their BF, is my point

Yet



So you been dating them for over 3 months as well?


Maybe they don't gaf about being with you like that

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I've "just fycked never dated" a lot of women and we never left my place or hers.

I appreciate OP for sharing this story, but if you have a girl that you been seeing since December... funerals and romantic movies...she's coming over crying etc....it's clear they were more than just fyck buddies.

At least she thought.


Same here, I never went anywhere with a chick I wasn't willing to seriously date. Everything was strictly in house and if we did meet somewhere we went seperately

 

[TL15]

We can be more than fukk buddies without me being her Mann breh

that's true...but when you say "I didn't know we were dating"... come on son

you were dating this chick...and maybe others. And now she's about to sink her teeth in. The text message conversation is telling

But like I said earlier...I wish you both well. I mean if she looks good, got her shyt going for her, and is down for you...maybe she's worth it

 

[T'krm]

Perfectly stated...(dap and rep) that's exactly where I'm at with this. Glad my situation is NOTHING like this and I know to avoid all signs of dysfunction. I can't deal- shyts fukking up my whole disposition, that when I know it's time for me to log off for the entirety of the rest of this day. (Like I don't have a job and other responsibilities but still messing around with this).

Best when avoided by being straight up from jump, but shyt happens..
Tho' it's another to live in dysfunction, which tbh can be a thrill at first. But those usually older, and wiser, and more intelligent knw better. Dysfunction left to it's own devices gets.. A cluster fukk of a problem, later on.
'Hard head make a', what..?

 

[onelastdeath]

Yet



So you been dating them for over 3 months as well?


Maybe they don't gaf about being with you like that

Me my trini thing been kickin it since like Nov and i ran into her and her girls at chipotle and she introduced me as her homeboy

im tellin u its not me in this situation

I kept it 100

 

[Black Nate Grey]

It’s a movie, and fantasy, does going to see the shape of water make me a c00n?

I have to agree with her there "Shape of Water" is prime cac shyt, do you though.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Me my trini thing been kickin it since like Nov and i ran into her and her girls at chipotle and she introduced me as her homeboy

im tellin u its not me in this situation

I kept it 100

You going out on dates, meeting the fam, and going to funerals with Trini chick too?

Not every chick is the same either..

But breh if it's not you then you need to cut homegirl lose so she can pursue another nikka that actually wants to fukk with her seriously

 

[onelastdeath]

I have to agree with her there "Shape of Water" is prime cac shyt, do you though.

I thought it was a great film

 

[onelastdeath]

You going out on dates, meeting the fam, and going to funerals with Trini chick too?

Not every chick is the same either..

But breh if it's not you then you need to cut homegirl lose so she can pursue another nikka that actually wants to fukk with her seriously

we goin to see red sparrow this weekend .

The funeral thing was just me knowin regardless of whether or not I was in her life years from now she wud definitely regret not goin to her cuz’ funeral and she needed someone to be there for her so i stepped up

Plus I don’t HATE her or nothin like that

She’s a really good person. Just not good FOr me right now

 

[O.T.I.S.]

we goin to see red sparrow this weekend .

The funeral thing was just me knowin regardless of whether or not I was in her life years from now she wud definitely regret not goin to her cuz’ funeral and she needed someone to be there for her so i stepped up

Plus I don’t HATE her or nothin like that

She’s a really good person. Just not good FOr me right now

Then cut her loose breh


It needs to happen if she wants a commitment and you don't

 

[Diyhai]

Troll was believable ruined it with the 5 guys part