Shorty Just broke up with me (update)

[MaxPain]

Let Coli brehettes tell u that “women just want sex & nothing else like men too” and actually beleive it brehs.

All sex with women is transactional. Time money committment or affection etc.

Especially since shes 27 near 30, and time is running out to the point where she becomes that ran thru older female. Shes tryna lock somethin down ASAP and since shes giving u p*ssy u owe her committment (in her mind).

Shes being manipulative, obsessive and crazy. She tried to manipulate u into chasing her with the fake breakup. I know u think this is cute cuz u got a girl going crazy over u but this bytch is lowkey trying to punk u into a relationship. This is how alotta dudes end up in relationships or marriages & the girl just wanted the title she didnt really want you.

If I were you, id string her along for a while with selling a dream for more sex then ghost ; or if ur not that demonic just ghost/block her all together. Keep the text thread and other reciepts just incase her crazy ass tries something legally.

None of this is ur fault cuz u let her know upfront what it was, which I personally wouldnt have (I woulda ran all typa mind games on this broad), but it will be ur fault if u keep entertaining her. Sooner or later shes gotta go.

 

[MaxPain]

This is what happens when u fukk em to sleep too good

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I had my life changed by thecoli once breh which is why I appreciate it

This new shyt though, it’s aggressive, chaotic and at Times just violent

Not as much black knowledge and camaraderie but a lot of black anger and vitriol.

I used to joke about not using the site anymore but I might actually make that a priority soon come

Don’t need this level of negativity in my life going forward. Even if it’s by way of a site that I voluntarily use .

That's a very unfair and dramatic statement, you shouldn't project that onto this forum. You do know who you sound like right??? Think you need to reflect and think about what you say and your own actions. Don't put that label onto this board just because the responses are not always supportive. Realize that you came at me on some disrespect when I kept it one hundo with you.This is not a therapy session - you put out info. on social media, not everyone will agree; you should be prepared for any responses and opinions that may not always be supportive but no one came at you off some grimy type of shyt. I'm new to this site; there's a lot of diversity of thought - but aggressive, chaotic, violent???? Nahhhhh.. you're reaching. that's a cac mentality by characterizing a primarily black site as angry and aggressive, chaotic. Did you really expect sunshine and rainbows... ??? you switched your whole end game many times throughout, very defensive and took things way too personal. If the majority of people are giving you the same advice, regardless of how they word it, then you need to check yourself. You received a collective set of suggestions and advice- if you took it as hate or aggressive, that's because of your own inner conflict.

The best advice that I ever got was direct and to the point.. I may have felt some type of way about it at the time because I was already in my feelings, but I appreciate that more than someone trying to gas me.

 

[MrBillCollecta]

I didn’t even know we were dating

You should have led with this and shut that whole shyt down.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I went the funeral because she was fukked up and wasn’t goin to make it on her own

She don't have no other support besides you?

From reading this post, seems like you trying to play both sides of the field..

 

[O.T.I.S.]

@Robbi

Spoiler

Yo that shyt sounds stressful af


If she's cute and cool af, and you like being around her then wife her.

If not, let her kick rocks breh because you gonna be doing this like once a month probably

 

[Deus]

Out of all my personal classics

this might be the last one

really not feeling the jokes about the funeral

might be no more personal / relationship shyt after this

if I posted this in 2014-15 coli thread would have been infinitely better with actual insight

on this new coli its all race bait and jokes

there was a time where actually discussion was a thing here

Shyt is tridash now

You keep stringing it along. WE gave you the right advice but you want it to be one way but it's the other way. Cut her off, guys like us ain't built for that life, you aren't a sociopath who can just use people. Call "Farrah", apologize and find yourself a Wakandan. You sound ready to settle down with a Nubian.


/THREAD

 

[Mr. Glass]

Send this thread to The Rafters.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Why are you calling a certified black woman "precious" to defend some cac-broad you supposedly would never even marry because you love black women more?
You could have just put @Nicole0416 on ignore, but nah. You chose to call her precious, which is more than just a micro-aggression really. I'm trynna figure out why that is?

What you said about marrying a black woman... if that's how it's gonna be maybe Farrah – or as you call her "Rah" – is really the one you ought to be with fam. Would hate for you to call your black wife precious just because you're mad she's clowning you a little.


And lastly that's all it is really. It's not like anybody here actually feels a way about your predicament. We're just clowning you because it's funny...and it's only funny because the simple solution is the one you're so dead set in avoiding: dropping "Rah" like a sack of cement you've carried for a quarter of a mile.

Assuming you're a fellow black man...don't be calling brehettes "precious" on some ad hominem shyt. That's c00n behavior breh.

Thank you!!! appreciate that-good looking out, you already know. that's why I'm kinda off this at this point. He revealed a lot of things about himself in here that are not cool. at all. Calling a black women he's never met, never seen before, only interaction is based on this post and then describing her as "precious" is more aggressive AND demeaning than ANY of the comments from the posters. But yet he put his white asian sex concubine on a pedestal - referring to her as gorgeous, exotic.. typical c00n behavior and mentality. No need to help him out.. he needs to be saved from himself. Not going to continue to be a witness to the ignorance. I thought he was in legit need of advice so I'm all for supporting our own, but now.. fukk it. Shytz too stressful just reading about it and it's not even my relationship.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

My nygga started the day single and got dumped but ended up in a relationship

Basically

 

[Black Nate Grey]

fakkit ass posters shytting on OP. Taking this shyt as if it was personal, like they have a stake in it.

STFU, I'm trying to be entertained

OP doesn't want your advice, he knows what he wants to do.

Salute OP for a fire thread Been a while.


On the real though, drop some of her pics or nudes with face blurred out. You keep saying she's 'gorgeous', don't leave shyt like that to the imagination. At the very least who does she look like?

 

[onelastdeath]

BREhs in here talmbout I’m stringing her on

She said she wanted a future and a rela she cud Be proud of and certainty and all that and i told her that i cudnt supply it

then told her that I straight up cudnt handle a rela
and she said that “ i cud but didn’t but want to”

How much more straightforward could I be?

 

[CBSwagga]

What happened here?

 

[onelastdeath]

fakkit ass posters shytting on OP. Taking this shyt as if it was personal, like they have a stake in it.

STFU, I'm trying to be entertained

OP doesn't want your advice, he knows what he wants to do.

Salute OP for a fire thread Been a while.


On the real though, drop some of her pics or nudes with face blurred out. You keep saying she's 'gorgeous', don't leave shyt like that to the imagination. At the very least who does she look like?

If this were SOHH I would

But this isn’t 2018 and thecoli

one of these no buns gettin lames wud definitely track her down, link her to the thread and then all hell wud break loose in my real life

But for reference I guess, think Kyoto from Ex machina but thick on the bottom with a bubble and she’s sort of tall (5’9). That’s probably the best comparison I could give. I think she’s prettier than that. But she has that pretty typical “Eurasian” look with a fire ass body which I guess comes from her Italian side

Spoiler

Sorry of like this just better lips and better body. Ass fat and p*ssy FUEGOOOOOOOOOOO

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Alright... Finally read the entire thing.


First of all, some of you nikkas took this way too personal. Like seriously, some of yall sounded bitter af about this for some reason.

OP had a rookie mistake by not letting old girl know in the beginning what it was... Letting her know he was "hanging out" with other females as well.

Basically, she wanted to be exclusive and let her friend talk her into doing some stupid shyt she wasn't prepared to do.. Which was to give him an ultimatum or leave. Women give the worse advice to each other I swear...

OP seems like he's a nice person, but doesnt want a specific type of relationship (which is based off race... Which is stupid to me but aight). It sounds similar to me sometimes. I dont want to be pressured into a relationship that I don't want to be in.. which in my case it's long distance.

I was actually in his situation when I was younger too.. But I let the girl know I was talking to other females and she tripped about it. I ended up in a relationship with her but I did like/love her. shyt went south eventually though. Shouldve picked the other chick in hindsight.

But basically, what I said earlier still stands to me. Either wife her up or let her ride because if you doing this FWB shyt with her you gonna have this argument every month with her.

And just know, if its not gonna be with her its gonna be with the next chick.. Shorty from 5 guys might be next in 3 months after you volunteer to take her to her sisters wedding or some shyt ().

Or karma might hit your ass and the roles might be reversed next time. Time to make a decision pleighboi