Shorty Just broke up with me (update)

[Uno Venova]

Would you be upset if you found out another dude was smashing?

Of course

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

bytch hurt cause she wanted to get wifed

 

[UWasntThere]

she came to my house after he died was broken and sad as shyt and spent the next 2 days at my crib crying and sleeping. Day of the funeral came . she said she cudnt handle it and asked me to go with her.
we drove to her crib got her clothes and i went with her.

thats called bein a good person

All I know is I'm not lettin no fukk buddy stay at my house for two days, especially in an emotional state like that. Shyt...I dont even let them stay the night. You're fake HOH

That other poster was spot on about you sellin this girl a dream. Every fukk buddy I've ever had has known that it wasn't going anywhere from the jump (that's why they last and no dramas involved). You're scared she would leave if you told her your intentions - thats a simp move.

Guys like you are the reason why these women walk around with a "Men aint shyt attitude."

Edit: I just read that post about the two of them at your crib. When she said "I'm not leaving" I realized this bytch is crazy. No self respecting woman is going to do that.

 

[BornStar]

1. She met someone new and isn't feeling you anymore 2. It's a pre-emptive, I broke up with you (even though yall weren't official) to give her back control and to boost her self esteem, she was more than likely feeling bad about herself for having sex with you w/o the commitment bc if yall were just strictly smashing, the topic of children wouldn't have come up in the first place 3. hate to say it.. she probably wasn't feeling the sex anymore either (some women need intimacy, she felt that she wasn't getting that from you) 4) she also felt that she wasn't getting any benefits from being with you 5) you're feeling some type of way about it b/c you were starting to develop feelings for her as well - you cant fake angry.. you are angry about it, you feel rejected... it happens. (just my opinion from experience).

number 4.

 

[Payroll]

number 4.

She's doing a whole lot of juelzing....

Its simple she gave him an ultimatum in the form of a shyt test.....

1) She wanted to see how invested he was.

2) She wants to get wifed.

 

[BornStar]

She's doing a whole lot of juelzing....

Its simple she gave him an ultimatum in the form of a shyt test.....

1) She wanted to see how invested he was.

2) She wants to get wifed.

It's a cold game. She was definitely 2 plays ahead, left op befuddled.

 

[ski]

Not to be

but all this means is you have weak pipe game. When a fukk buddy you have no relationship says, i aint really trying to smash no more.
that means she made another friend who can dikk her down correctly and she can't even bothered to keep you on reserve because your pipe game is .

What happens when you have a mean pipe game is girl is like, i'm in a relationship so we can't fukk around anymore but keep in touch
AKA keep in touch just in case he doesn't hold it down. I'll be coming back for that D on occasion.

Hilarious. Maybe, the light bulb came on for her.

At some point reality kicks in.

 

[TillWeDie]

My bad I took so long to answer . shyt went all bad then went all good then bad again, then good.

She pulled up in a north face and leggings with a crop top underneath showing her stomach , pretending she just came from the gym but was smelling fresh out the fukking shower and wore that to appear busy like she stopped what she was doing for me and more importantly to show off

She asked me why I’m being difficult and i explained to her that I wasn’t being difficult but that I’m not ina good place to be with her right now and if she ABSOLUTELY needss to stop fukkin with me to soul search and/or show her worth then I support her 100%

We in the room going thru the motions and I’m tryna convince her to keep her fire ass sex in my life THEN I hear my buzzer go off but that’s normal in my building because sometimes people just try to get in or have the wrong door, then I hear a knock at my door and it opens and I can hear a voice and im like no fukkin way no fukkIN WAY.
shorty i bagged at Five Guys

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/being-young-black-tall-and-paid-is-a-cheat-code-smh.614960

is in my fukkinggggg house I forgot I was going out to lunch with her and that I gave her my address to pull up YESTERDAY and considering the fukking weather I thought she’d dub it but NOOOOO My homie smoking in the living room and buzzes her in like a fukking dikkhead no who is it no nothin

Now I got five guys shorty and Farrah in da crib at the same time and I told her to stay in the room while I go see who’s out there even tho I know who the fukk it is

I come out and this young bytch is looking like seven snacks and then Farrah comes out and my homie is so fukking high and now realizing what he did on some

Five guys shorty is like are you ready to go ? And Farrah is like who the hell is this and I’m like ... my friend and five guys shorty goes who are you? And she like “im his girlfriend ” and i see the play and im like “EX”. And she goes “we broke up like 4 hours ago ” and I’m like damn I gotta just keep it 100 now or push the lie deeper

So I do what every real nikka would do

Spoiler

push the fukkING LIE DEEPER

I told her that I knew she was gonna break up with me (I never even knew we were dating ) and that i just wanted to feel better about it and get ahead of the curve

And she goes how did u know ? And I told her She was being distant and ignoring me after that discussion we had and as it turns out U DID BREAK UP WITH ME

Five guys shorty is like so are you two together or not? im like nahhh she broke up with me

shes like “so can we go? ”

and I’m like yeah we out

I grabbed my jacket and dipped. And my nikka just Sittin there tryna process the monumental fukk up he just did and this high ass nikka like ‘bro bring me back sumthin’

Then this While I’m out

Spoiler

and I went out with shorty for A couple of hours ate at five guys for free talked and pretty much told me that it was fukked up what i did but technically not cheating . told me that I shud go check on her and that if we still aint together after then me and her cud kick it but she dont respect a nikka that cheats on his girl and she wont be a part of that . Which is respectable

and when i got back sure enuff she was still there

ended up havin this long ass conversation about her age and her future and what she needs and lots of fukkin crying and tbh I understood it .
ended up tossing shots of johnnie back while talkin like civilized adults and she said she neva wanted to break up with me and got convinced to by her friend and then said that if i needed time to think Then I cud have some but not too much

ended up fukkin all night off and on all night and shes coming over after she gets off from work .

so after a fake breakup and fake makeup sex i got her where she was really was n the first place I guess?

my homie been sending me soundbytes of ‘still not a player’ and he dont kno yet but we gotta have a serious convo abt him being on point .

Crazy day .

What did you order at Five Guys? I haven't been there in years

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I met breh outside the court ,he was leavin shaking his head and he was young and black. told him to keep his head up and that turned into a convo and he was broke as shyt so i took him to Burger King and talked to him about his future and how the past doesnt define everyone . ended up going back to court instead of skippin it. and now 2 years Lata he still the lil homie and is in community college

dude made this story up on the fly

He was "young and black"

 

[Contrefaire]

Why would you string along a perfectly wifeable woman?

I gotta say, what OP is doing is exactly the type of shyt females complain about that a lot of y'all nikkas dismiss and claim she should've chose better. And I don't wanna hear shyt about how she knew what time it was or whatever because the bytch called herself his girlfriend and all he had to say about it was "EX" because she "broke up with him".

Never not once did OP say straight up, we were NEVER together! Or, "I'm sorry you were confused". Nah, instead he calls himself "playing along" when the truth is, he knows damn well she thought they were together and he did nothing to dissuade her of that. In fact, he ran his ass down to her people's funeral like any good boyfriend would do.



Some of y'all really be trying to paint all these bitter, jaded ass women as "delusional" but I want you to take note. It really is a lot of wannabe player type dudes out here double-talking and playing games like this. And OP actually considers himself a "good guy" - a humanitarian even - who helps all creatures big and small and shyt.

This is the type of fukkboy a lot of chicks are talking about, and surprise, surprise, no they're not all obvious players or "thugs".

 

[Contrefaire]

Also,OP you call yourself caring about this girl and doing all that extra shyt cause you're just "not a scumbag", meanwhile you're dealing with a woman at the tail end of her PEAK fertility years (who has made her desires very clear to you) yet still stringing her along with zero intentions of a future.

You continue to play with this woman's emotions as well as her finite fertility window, all for easy access to p*ssy - which you claim you're already getting from a couple other sources anyway... What the fukk part of the game is that!?

Hate to break it to ya but yeah, you're a scumbag.


And before you try to rationalize this fukkshyt with "well, she CHOSE to stick around", remember, you've never been honest with her and still aren't. She's sticking around because you're lying to her. She clearly had no clue you were fukking with other girls and in fact you acted like you were ONLY fukking with someone else because she broke up with you first.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

OP, is reliving my SOHH dating days. Dating multiple chicks with no desire for a relationship but blurring the lines in your interactions. At least they aren't fellow posters.

Stop being nice to these women cuz you stringing them on whether you know it or not. The average dude they come across treats them like crap, so if you fukking them AND treating them with respect and courtesy, they will take it to heart and bring fukkery to your door. Either change how you move or deal with this on a regular basis.

 

[onelastdeath]

Also,OP you call yourself caring about this girl and doing all that extra shyt cause you're just "not a scumbag", meanwhile you're dealing with a woman at the tail end of her PEAK fertility years (who has made her desires very clear to you) yet still stringing her along with zero intentions of a future.

You continue to play with this woman's emotions as well as her finite fertility window, all for easy access to p*ssy - which you claim you're already getting from a couple other sources anyway... What the fukk part of the game is that!?

Hate to break it to ya but yeah, you're a scumbag.


And before you try to rationalize this fukkshyt with "well, she CHOSE to stick around", remember, you've never been honest with her and still aren't. She's sticking around because you're lying to her. She clearly had no clue you were fukking with other girls and in fact you acted like you were ONLY fukking with someone else because she broke up with you first.

Who is stringing her along? I told her in person and thru text that a relationship is not in the cards for me right now. Multiple times. That goes for any woman of any race, ethnicity, financial background, don’t matter. Oprah could come holla at me right now and she’d Get a hell no.

I made myself 100% clear.

im entitled to privacy and the right to withhold any information I consider confidential. all i gotta tell her until the day shes my shorty is that im not tryna be in a relationship at the moment. the reason for why i don’t want to be in a relationship is my business

 

[onelastdeath]

You eating the p*ssy too


Please don't say youre fukking her raw either..


You doing all kinds of relationship shyt with a chick you supposedly not in a relationship with

Nah we don’t have unprotected sex. ever. and eatin p*ssy isnt on my premium package.

So I guess it probably don't matter to her that she's sucking leftover p*ssy particles from the dikk...

Yeah you seem like a pretty good guy to me. Looks like you're winning!

Hope you guys are at least using condoms. Get it how you live.

This thread has been entertaining and a little insightful into the psyche of how folks move and their logic behind what they do to maintain their happiness.

But nah for real whatever u do stay strapped with a Jimmie, u don't want any "accidental" babies right now, especially not a daughter...

I’d be mad because who wants to share p*ssy? But i Wudnt tell her to cut him off, id just stop fukking with herx

 

[StarGirl]

any guy who dates me is sharing p*ssy from now on



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