Blame everyone but yourself huh??? So you just gonna ignore your faults and deflect responsibility for the problems that you brought on yourself and the responses that you got? It’s called accountability - be responsible for your own actions .
there was 12( I counted) nikkas at the funeral not including myself .
in the real world all races sort of fukk with each other and kick it with minimal violence
i got out safe too
you are being disingenuous though, you yourself felt the need to count how many brehs were around, so clearly its more complex than "in the real world all races sort of fukk with each other", but regardless, and that point aside, the premise of this thread is...odd. i mean, she's not your girl but she doesn't know she's not your girl, you don't care but you care enough to drag this farce. is it all for sexual access? why not explicitly state it? you have stated that you like/enjoy her presence and displayed concern over her well being, yet you are extremely manipulative. you're looking for insight on what seems a pretty juvenile situation that has clear way outs. its only so much nikkas can tell you
you are being disingenuous though, you yourself felt the need to count how many brehs were around, so clearly its more complex than "in the real world all races sort of fukk with each other", but regardless, and that point aside, the premise of this thread is...odd. i mean, she's not your girl but she doesn't know she's not your girl, you don't care but you care enough to drag this farce. is it all for sexual access? why not explicitly state it? you're looking for insight on what seems a pretty juvenile situation that has clear way outs. its only so much nikkas can tell you
my life is good. Really good. For the first time in my Life im actually content
This site is jus dry af now and I tried to bring something of my personal life to lighten the mood and start an actual conversation and seek good posts
You received very good advice from the posters but the problem is - it’s not what YOU wanted to hear specifically. I was actually impressed by the men’s responses on here and what they had to say to you. You’re the one that took it to a level that it didn’t have to be.
My bad I took so long to answer . shyt went all bad then went all good then bad again, then good.
She pulled up in a north face and leggings with a crop top underneath showing her stomach , pretending she just came from the gym but was smelling fresh out the fukking shower and wore that to appear busy like she stopped what she was doing for me and more importantly to show off
She asked me why I’m being difficult and i explained to her that I wasn’t being difficult but that I’m not ina good place to be with her right now and if she ABSOLUTELY needss to stop fukkin with me to soul search and/or show her worth then I support her 100%
We in the room going thru the motions and I’m tryna convince her to keep her fire ass sex in my life THEN I hear my buzzer go off but that’s normal in my building because sometimes people just try to get in or have the wrong door, then I hear a knock at my door and it opens and I can hear a voice and im like no fukkin way no fukkIN WAY.
shorty i bagged at Five Guys
is in my fukkinggggg house I forgot I was going out to lunch with her and that I gave her my address to pull up YESTERDAY and considering the fukking weather I thought she’d dub it but NOOOOO My homie smoking in the living room and buzzes her in like a fukking dikkhead no who is it no nothin
Now I got five guys shorty and Farrah in da crib at the same time and I told her to stay in the room while I go see who’s out there even tho I know who the fukk it is
I come out and this young bytch is looking like seven snacks and then Farrah comes out and my homie is so fukking high and now realizing what he did on some
Five guys shorty is like are you ready to go ? And Farrah is like who the hell is this and I’m like ... my friend and five guys shorty goes who are you? And she like “im his girlfriend ” and i see the play and im like “EX”. And she goes “we broke up like 4 hours ago ” and I’m like damn I gotta just keep it 100 now or push the lie deeper
So I do what every real nikka would do
push the fukkING LIE DEEPER
I told her that I knew she was gonna break up with me (I never even knew we were dating ) and that i just wanted to feel better about it and get ahead of the curve
And she goes how did u know ? And I told her She was being distant and ignoring me after that discussion we had and as it turns out U DID BREAK UP WITH ME
Five guys shorty is like so are you two together or not? im like nahhh she broke up with me
shes like “so can we go? ”
and I’m like yeah we out
I grabbed my jacket and dipped. And my nikka just Sittin there tryna process the monumental fukk up he just did and this high ass nikka like ‘bro bring me back sumthin’
Then this While I’m out
and I went out with shorty for A couple of hours ate at five guys for free talked and pretty much told me that it was fukked up what i did but technically not cheating . told me that I shud go check on her and that if we still aint together after then me and her cud kick it but she dont respect a nikka that cheats on his girl and she wont be a part of that . Which is respectable
and when i got back sure enuff she was still there
ended up havin this long ass conversation about her age and her future and what she needs and lots of fukkin crying and tbh I understood it .
ended up tossing shots of johnnie back while talkin like civilized adults and she said she neva wanted to break up with me and got convinced to by her friend and then said that if i needed time to think Then I cud have some but not too much
ended up fukkin all night off and on all night and shes coming over after she gets off from work .
so after a fake breakup and fake makeup sex i got her where she was really was n the first place I guess?
my homie been sending me soundbytes of ‘still not a player’ and he dont kno yet but we gotta have a serious convo abt him being on point .
He's the real life Lawrence, he says he wants one thing but his actions say otherwise. This was always what I thought of when the term fukk boy was used in the 2000s. Today, hoes basically killed the term and it's now, any nikka, I don't like cause...
But that Lawrence shyt, that fukk boy shyt. nikka need to get him an Issa Rae and charge it to the game.
No problem. No apology necessary. I mean, it’s a discussion - gotta take the good with the bad- constructive criticism. Real talk- most of the comments are based on our experiences , life experience , we all made mistakes but it’s how you come up from those mistakes in order to position yourself for better. Just my opinion but I think you deserve much better than the situations that you expose yourself to. Your above the mental manipulation and how she chose to move with that. But at the end of the day - you need to work out what’s best for you; and what you stand to benefit from. Thing is whatever decision that you make- you gotta stick to it and let that be final. all that back and forth accomplishes nothing , more confusion and unnecessary attention.
If you keep surrounding yourself with negative energy - it becomes consuming. Then it negates all the good things that you want to do.
I read through most of this. I suspect she's not going anywhere and neither are you. you can keep doing you, but realize you will have to keep going through this manipulative, barrage of texts, crying episodes every so often to keep this situationship going the way you'd like. You have to decide if its worth the aggravation.
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good one
I forgot I was going out to lunch with her and that I gave her my address to pull up YESTERDAY and considering the fukking weather I thought she’d dub it but NOOOOO My homie smoking in the living room and buzzes her in like a fukking dikkhead no who is it no nothin
” and i see the play and im like
“EX”. And she goes “we broke up like 4 hours ago
) and that i just wanted to feel better about it and get ahead of the curve
how this bytch just post up in yo spot talking bout she not leaving and will be there when you get back from chilling with another bytch?
