you just not old enough to know about this part of the black female male dialectic.
As you get older, you maybe the only one still wishing to go on a date.
While all your homegirls are more worried about how they will get along socially with a man in a closed setting.
it may sound far fetched but you just have to live a little and you will soon experience it in due time.
All that going out shyt just allows the representative to be on display.
As you get older,....
You will want to see more of the actual person.
Not the representative scheduled for a night on the town.
Plus women are all about the closing of the deal now.
So, black women if they do go out.
Want to know they gon get the shyt smashed out of them for a happy ending.
So, they are not going to risk a nice night out.
Then go to the bedroom if it makes it that far and deal with a nikka who fumbles.
black women are not into that white sitcom Kathy cartoon strip shyt with guys.
As a matter of fact, a lot of black women do not even give a fukk about getting to know a man via any social convo now, either.
Believe me,...i been in strictly sexual relationships.
Where I know I was just some dikk for more than a year's time every day to more than one female.
Where they never gave a fukk to ask or investigate who I was at all.
i do not even think they knew how old I was.
Let alone a nikka birthday.
Black females do not give a fukk about black men like that.
In general, we are merely sperm donors in a matriarchal society to them.
Art Barr