The way I see it....Our sojourn through Amerikkka got us crazy.
Collectively, black people suffer from a form of post traumatic syndrome.
It's generational, inherited.
No matter what class....poor, rich, or middle class.
We're all binded together by the color of our skin.
Even somebody with the stature of Muhammad Ali will tell ya "I'm still a nikka".
That being said, there's a lot of undiagnosed mental illness in the world--Especially in the black community.As a body of people, our "immune system" is weak.
I can't just blame one gender.Black men nor black women value one another.Black women abuse black men on some psychological/emotional shyt.Once a man can't "win" on that level, he'll cheat the game, and use his god given physical dominance to regain a sense of power.
We're valueless to each other.Black men aren't building shyt to pass down to their children, so the black woman has nothing to mantain.Her womb is used strictly to get a nutt.We only come together when in heat.The only place we seem to really get along with each other is in the bedroom.Sex is a drug.Some people escape in it.Blacks have been feeling restricted for 400 years....fukk a condom..let's fukk raw, free.
Children are being born out of that psychosis.Fukk buddy/jump offs.....then they wanna get "serious" when the baby is on the way.Crazy.Women complain louder because they actually get stuck carrying the baby for 9 months.They have more to lose in this "fukk buddy/jump off" culture, so they should move extra careful.
I'm going off on a tangent, but yeah, we all abuse each other in different ways.I've been involved with women who were emotional bullies.It's way more subtle than physical abuse, so people don't really make a big deal about it.On top of that, you're a man..."suck it up".I believe that's true.As a man, you shouldn't let it phase you...But not every man has that type of self control.
Society doesn't see that.They only see a man beating a woman.All I'm saying, if you're going to empower women to start blasting nikkaz, at least look at the whole picture.In a lot of cases, men snap because of the emotional/psychological abuse carried out by women.
I understand that some nikkaz are just crazy.I'm not talking about them.The kind of guy who'll beat his girl because she accidentally put tomatoes on his bologna sandwich.Again, I'm not talking about that dude.He deserves to be shot.
Both genders have their sociopath/psychopaths.It's a lot of em out here.Undiagnosed