If a woman is in an abusive relationship and chooses to leave, yet depends on her abuser for financial support and housing, what could she do to thrive economically immediately without any problems?
This is why I keep using race as a comparison because as soon as I made the comparison you're magically able to discuss the issue with nuance when it was completely absent when discussing women in abusive relationships.
Women do not choose to be victims of domestic violence any more than a Black person who has a white employer chooses to be a victim of economic violence in the workplace.
If "she" should choose better men then the same logic should extend to Black people who work in abusive workplaces, they should choose better jobs.