Shedding light on the ugly domestic violence epidemic in the black community

agnosticlady

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No, I read what yall wrote. You're playing the semantics game here. Although I do wish that more women would leave at the first sign of an abusive relationship, as previously stated unfortunately these signs come WELL AFTER the relationship has started. It hardly correlates to "picking the wrong man. "

And I wouldn't exactly cite a multimillionaire as an example either.


Who gives a shyt how long you've been in the relationship. If someone slams your head against a car door and you choose to stay you are an idiot. Point blank period. I don't have any sympathy for women who can leave but choose to stay in those relationships. Oh please the fact that women of all economic backgrounds are still willing to be with a man who is an alleged abuser shows that women put themselves in stupid situations. A lot of women choose to stay in abusive relationships because they think the man will change. Those women are stupid. Yeah yeah I know they fear dying if they leave. Yet they feel staying with the man abusing them doesn't mean the next day they can die.
 

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Not reading ignorant comments in here. RIP to the victim,Very sad case.Another thing so called "Restraining Orders" DONT work in these type of cases, and whats more ridiciolous is courts saying "Stay 30 yards away".....lets not ignore the courts when it comes to this too.These victims are never truly 100% protected by the courts unless they are given security 24-7. Im not gonna touch the topic if she should have chose better doesn't matter she cant defend herself.Sad situation....
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i'm not sure about this woman's situation in particular..but i'm sure is case by case matter and alot of women whom end up domestic violence victims wasn't expecting it to come to that cause their partners dead a good job of hiding their habit of putting hands on women until it was too late.

No a lot of women know the type of man they are dealing with yet stay. I was not speaking about this woman's relationship.
 

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What did dude do for a living????

Then I notice her 18 year old son wasn't his, so was the other his...

This nikka probably didn't have a job and since he couldn't continue to use his ex wife for money and bullshyt and jumpoffs and was left out living from friend to friend house he went nuts..

This nikka look ,tells me he was probably doing odd jobs....

These successful sisters really need to cut these losers out especially if u have a child from a prior relationship...

R.I.P....
 
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Blacks are poorer than whites as a proportion and peoples with higher poverty rates have higher

You must be a cac. Again, the issue is that a higher proportion of blacks live in poverty, and poorer people have higher DV rates than richer people. That's the cause, not "nikkas". Shut the fukk up.


domestic violence rates. That accounts for the disparity. It's not race. Next. @Juicy
so speaking out against domestic violence in the black community makes me white now:russell:..show me something which states domestic violence is tied to poverty:shaq2:..the college educated and middle class former couple in the OP were exactly struggling financially..like the Dr. Umar explained in the black community similar to street violence basically weak blackmen taking their frustration out on their own people cause they are to scared to confront white supremacy.. but to play devil's advocate even if poverty was a factor it's still no excuse for a blackman to be beating his own women and children to a pulp with a baseball..poverty in the black community is totally exaggerated even most the poorest of AAs(outside of he homeless) aren't going hungry,missing many meals, and have a roof over the head.. and since when does being poor an excuse for being a cold blooded killer...you sound as stupid as those fake black intellectuals whom act as apologist for gangs and drug dealers destroying the black community cause they are a product of their environment and whitey want hire them:childplease:
 
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No a lot of women know the type of man they are dealing with yet stay. I was not speaking about this woman's relationship.
i'm sure you are right but sure there are just as many if not more women whom didn't find out the man they were with was an abuser until he showed his true colors well into the relationship.
 

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Who gives a shyt how long you've been in the relationship. If someone slams your head against a car door and you choose to stay you are an idiot. Point blank period. I don't have any sympathy for women who can leave but choose to stay in those relationships. Oh please the fact that women of all economic backgrounds are still willing to be with a man who is an alleged abuser shows that women put themselves in stupid situations. A lot of women choose to stay in abusive relationships because they think the man will change. Those women are stupid. Yeah yeah I know they fear dying if they leave. Yet they feel staying with the man abusing them doesn't mean the next day they can die.

Completely ignore the fact that while I agree that they should get out ASAP, your ORIGINAL STATEMENT OF PICKING "THE WRONG MEN" DOES NOT CORRELATE.

And this woman left...and was still killed (which isn't uncommon).

:camby:
 

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I'm not supporting his actions. He is wrong for domestic violence and should be punished.

I'm wondering what could if been done to prevent it from getting that bad.
 

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Who gives a shyt how long you've been in the relationship. If someone slams your head against a car door and you choose to stay you are an idiot. Point blank period. I don't have any sympathy for women who can leave but choose to stay in those relationships. Oh please the fact that women of all economic backgrounds are still willing to be with a man who is an alleged abuser shows that women put themselves in stupid situations. A lot of women choose to stay in abusive relationships because they think the man will change. Those women are stupid. Yeah yeah I know they fear dying if they leave. Yet they feel staying with the man abusing them doesn't mean the next day they can die.

Do you think Black people should continue to live in America or in close proximity to other Black people?
 

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Completely ignore the fact that while I agree that they should get out ASAP, your ORIGINAL STATEMENT OF PICKING "THE WRONG MEN" DOES NOT CORRELATE.

And this woman left...and was still killed (which isn't uncommon).

:camby:


I am not talking about this woman. Keep reading what YOU want to read and see how far that gets you. Also yes a lot if women pick wrong men or stay in relationships with wrong men.
 
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