It means act in a manner that would get them viewed in a sexual light, regardless if the intent is to attract someone or just to feel free and confident. IE dressing provocatively, being promiscuous, flirting or saying sexual things, sending nudes, risky texts, twerking, whatever.Okay, let's have this convo. And I'm open to taking it out of this thread to another thread if we need to. But let's break down what you said here.
What does it mean to "sexualize one's self"?
If you say that someone "sexualizes themselves", what do you mean? Is this a woman-only thing? If not, please provide examples of men "sexualizing themselves".
Well, LL Cool J is a perfect example. He's not just selling sex, he's also selling an image as a pretty boy cool guy who all the girls want to be with. He's not only showing off to women, it's also a status thing he's showing off to men. It makes him feel confident to be seen as a tough, muscular, dominant guy who gets girls. He finds confidence in the sexualizing himself to the point where he named himself Ladies Love Cool James. He even performs his tough guy masculine songs with his shirt off.You said it's not just a women thing, but when have men acted sexually without the intention of attracting someone for something?
When have men ever expressed sexuality to "feel free and confident"? I need examples of this and don't bring up LL Cool J who is obviously selling sex to attract women to buy his records and attend his shows.
And isn't Magic Mike about strippers? I don't watch gay @$$ content, so I've never seen it but ain't that what it's about?
Are you comparing folks stripping for money to someone acting in a sexual demeanor to "feel free" as you say?
Give me an example of the everyday man sexualizing himself, not a rap star selling sex, not a dude stripping to make money.
I'm making a point here, and I know you don't see it yet. But it will become clear in your answers to the above questions.
They do this shyt around other men, not women. That's all a form of sexualizing yourself.
My guy, I'm a heterosexual man in my 30s whose fukked around a lot in his 20s and been in several long term relationships. Nothing is off the rails and I've said nothing questonable. You're trying to find a way to twist what I'm saying to make it not make sense, but again, all I'm doing is stating the obvious. I think you're just naive and don't talk to much women, or you just flat out have a hard time seeing women as actual human beings worthy of respect. Do you have any women you're friends with that you respect as human beings and aren't just trying to fukk? You give off extreme incel vibes.Well honestly I don't think you are experienced... in what way, I'm not sure. But you're missing something. A man who tells me that men sexualize themselves to women just for the hell of it, sending nudes to women just cause, say sexual things just cause... I don't know what to tell you.
Any woman a man has done the aforementioned with is a woman whose panties we want to get into, trust me.
Are you a man or a woman?
Cause you've said several questionable things during this conversation that makes me believe you don't know how men think at all.
So either you're a woman, a gay man, or a man who has spent the majority of his life up under women. It's one of those. And I'm not saying that as an insult.
But some of the things you're saying make no sense. It was questionable already but you went completely off the rails with this last post.
I'm sending nudes to a woman I'm not trying to dixk down? I'm saying sexual things to a woman whose panties I'm not tryna get into?
Nah.
Women do that. Men don't. I'm going to coopt a saying from the late great Maya Angelou: when a man tells you who he is, you better believe him the first time.
If we say we tryna fxck, trust me, we're really trying to fxck. Aint no man playing about that
