Life is really just a big learning experience really.
You need both the positive and "negative" experiences to grow. A lot of times ppl ask why certain bad things happen to them but now I see these events as tools for folk to get stronger. Personally I went through a lot of fukkshyt growing up, however I don't think I'd be where I am now if I hadn't experienced and conquered them.
Creator just want you battle tested, thats why you see hella cacs offing themselves from the smallest inconveniences as they ain't been through shyt. As much as everyone wants complete 100% good positive experiences, life wouldn't be life without the negative. Ying and yang shyt I guess.