I said before on here. I’m not and wasn’t a fan of dude. But I’ve definitely seen him shyt on them same men u saying are his audience. I think the core of his message isn’t really bad. His delivery and some of his viewpoints is what I disagree with sometimes. He used to be buggin sometimes. But go watch any black woman who is matchmaking online. A lot of them start off shytting on Keven Samuels and then by the end start agreeing with him. Or having a mental breakdown because of how delusional their women audience and customers are. Kendra G literally just exploded on her fanbase cause of this and she’s had arguments with Kevin in the past herself. There’s a reason marriage is at its lowest in the black community but divorce is at its highest. There’s definitely something going on. There’s a lot of toxicity and resentment going on in our community and it’s very alarming. For instance cats was in here posting and shytting on Melanie King for posting her RIP’s to him and she agreed with a lot of his points. People in here(his fans) still called her all kinda clout chasers and shytted on this woman. Turns out she actually knew him personally and he helped her out in her life when she was going through a dark time and he didn’t want her to reveal their friendship because he didn’t want her to go through the negativity associated with it. I don’t know what people want at this point.
I feel like the online discourse is bad between black men and women, but it's better in real life. To me the divorce rate is less of a problem, since divorce rates are high for everyone. The big problem I see is the MARRIAGE rate. We may have a slightly higher divorce rate than everyone, but we've got a significantly lower marriage rate. So the real life problem is that we have two groups of black people who do not value relationships or marriage. You have a lot of black women who view independence as making 35k a year and struggling to raise children. That's what they aspire to be/do, while simultaneously complaining that men aren't doing xyz. Then you have a lot of black men who want to fukk all the chicks raw, risk having children, but have zero interest in building a life with a woman. They didn't have fathers in the home and think being a man means running the street, having no commitments, etc.
Marriage has a lot of financial value and I'm blown away we don't see it. When you look at working class white people, they're getting married. The mechanic dude is marrying a waitress. The roof installer is marrying the receptionist. There's a clear path being followed and yea a lot of white privilege plays a role but often at the end of the day it boils down to who you know. Somebody in the mechanic's family knows a guy who manages at Ford, and suddenly mechanic dude becomes union job car factory guy and is on the path to the middle class. But black people have connections too, via church...and often family. And getting married doubles your connections.
There's a path for the black family but a lot of shyt has to be sacrificed to get there.