Does it ever work in reverse?
Have you seen men after a woman for her car? Or her material possessions?
I mean, I never went after a girl because she rocked a Marc Jacobs bag.
Just saying. Not labeling anyone tho.
EVOLUTION nikka. We evolved to only be after women for their looks because the more attractive they are the more likely they are to be healthy and give birth to healthy offspring. Women on the other hand evolved to be attracted to men who can be providers more than looks.
Think about it this way. We men produce millions of sperm each day and can go around and fukk any woman impregnating her and not really having anything to worry about. Women on the other hand produce only one egg a month and if they get pregnant need a partner who will be by their side of nine months till they give birth. Remember our ancestors evolved in the Savannah with predators like Lions and Tigers ready to eat us at any moment. You think our pregnant female ancestors could've survived in the past if they didn't have a man who could provide for them and their unborn children?
This is why women go for dudes with money while men go for women with looks. We are prisoners of our own genes. We evolved to be what we are. Its really less of a choice as it is destiny.