relationships are a pain man....like am i wrong here?!!

[1thouwow]

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You're welcome.

So get a Brazilian ho?

 

[The ADD]

So how do you guys nurture your relationships, intimate or otherwise? Just Being around people is cool, but at some point planned activities become necessary. I have a daughter so I try to plan activities for us to break up the monotony of daily life.

We’re doing a polar express train ride soon, try a new restaurant, shop at a new grocery story, the museum, sporting events, etc. Y’all don’t get bored doing the same shyt everyday?

Fam, come on now. This is not a consideration………..

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

So how do you guys nurture your relationships, intimate or otherwise? Just Being around people is cool, but at some point planned activities become necessary. I have a daughter so I try to plan activities for us to break up the monotony of daily life.

We’re doing a polar express train ride soon, try a new restaurant, shop at a new grocery story, the museum, sporting events, etc. Y’all don’t get bored doing the same shyt everyday?

I don't think most men would mind doing things with their woman and going places. But going out every weekend, holidays every month etc is way too excessive.

 

[The ADD]

I don't think most men would mind doing things with their woman and going places. But going out every weekend, holidays every month etc is way too excessive.

Serious question and maybe I’m being too literal but saying most men “wouldn’t mind” is such an odd outlook. If you have to look at it that way why are you with the person?

 

[Rawtid]

I don't think most men would mind doing things with their woman and going places. But going out every weekend, holidays every month etc is way too excessive. Having to constantly cater to an irrational woman's needs guarantees a miserable existence for a man.

So you legit don’t have/make plans for most weekends? I don’t think it’s excessive. I try to have at least 2-3 new things planned per month. Nothing elaborate either, a new coffee spot, happy hour, trivia night, etc.

It’s always something new to do, but my days are boring, so I look forward to doing something new.

 

[1thouwow]

A date one month ago, sounds wild. I make sure to “date” my close friends at least weekly, even if it’s just lunch or literally one hour at happy hour.

It’s 52 weeks in a year, you say you spent 1 week, which is less than 2%, and that was earlier this year and it’s December.

Y’all don’t appear to be on the same page.

nikka spent mad bread on his “one” date. nikka ain’t tryna go to happy hour just bc you ain’t got no hobbies

 

[1thouwow]

So you legit don’t have/make plans for most weekends? I don’t think it’s excessive. I try to have at least 2-3 new things planned per month. Nothing elaborate either, a new coffee spot, happy hour, trivia night, etc.

It’s always something new to do, but my days are boring, so I look forward to doing something new.

2-3 weekends a month? So when the fukk does he have time to recoup, do nothing, and save money?

 

[Rawtid]

nikka spent mad bread on his “one” date. nikka ain’t tryna go to happy hour just bc you ain’t got no hobbies

Do you plan activities other than vacations for yourself?

 

[1thouwow]

Do you plan activities other than vacations for yourself?

I ain’t going nowhere I don’t wanna go and if I do go I ain’t paying for it

 

[Rawtid]

2-3 weekends a month? So when the fukk does he have time to recoup, do nothing, and save money?

It’s not that much money. I’m not talking about staying in a hotel, just doing different things.

 

[Cat piss martini]

sometimes you need to spice it up.
Make sure you suprise her sometime.
get a lots of rose petals and make trails
from the front door and lead them to
where ever that trifflin bytch need to clean.



KnowImTalmBout?

 

[Rawtid]

I ain’t going nowhere I don’t wanna go and if I do go I ain’t paying for it

Lol If you don’t answer my question… do you as a person plan activities (that you want to do) for yourself? Not vacations, just regular things.

 

[1thouwow]

It’s not that much money. I’m not talking about staying in a hotel, just doing different things.

Lol If you don’t answer my question… do you as a person plan activities (that you want to do) for yourself? Not vacations, just regular things.

Barely. Bc my wife tries to plan everything anyway

 

[Rawtid]

Barely. Bc my wife tries to plan everything anyway

You should plan something.

 

[ORDER_66]

OP you need to man up before it gets worse... relationships are a lot of time consuming energy consuming emotionally draining things in this world to maintain. I feel sorry for you. As a single bachelor myself I don't have these problem'sgood luck