trying to read this gave me a headache. regardless, All I'm saying is Just because someone LOOKS like an everyday fat boy at a particular point in time doesn't necessarily mean they don't know their shyt.
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What was so difficult
I'm sorry if you think a dude t*ts and back fat will change your life
I can honestly, say this doesn't apply to meInteresting social dynamics of men gym goers here
I didn't realize all that alpha male and rank assessment was frequently going on.
My female-lifter friends and I just avoid eye contact with the dudes, get it in, look haggard, and then bounce. I may be gazing at a particular direction intensely while lifting cause I'm deep in thought, but some ego-maniac always thinks I'm checking them out and starts smiling or approaching. Just best to avoid eye contact and keep visible headphones on.
The basketball courts and fitness classes downstairs, I believe that is where the rich social activity occurs among the youngsters, and I avoid all that completely.
Well your bf sounds like he should be a regular guy @ the gym and not a trainer. No disrespect but when I think of a trainer I think of someone very fit. Think about it your body is a walking advertisement. How you gonna try to tell me about ab work outs when you got a gut?
That's the problem everyone who works @ a gym can be qualified to be a trainer.
Then you got the folks who put work into this been doing it for years having their clientele depleted by fat guys who life heavy.
Just like you wouldn't take a half ass meal from a chef I wouldn't truly listen to a fat guy/girl tryna tell me how to get in shape.
Yes folks can give pretty good advice but that's gym talk like this forum. I expect my trainer to not only talk the part but look it as well.
you're completely missing essential words.
Anyway, I don't really need my life changed, or have need of a trainer, so really you can go to whatever trainer you want, IDGAF.
let's all just calm down here friends and get focused. 
What is your problem
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My problem
I ignore the first insults she threw but not the second. I respond but I'm the bad person
All this started because folks acknowledge that their are fat male trainers
decided to go into rant ) A significant portion of male Personal Trainers do seem to be out shape. On the surface, this serves a bad representation of health; a complete paradox / oxymoron at best. It doesn't help, when there's a rampant influx of unproductive "bro-science" afloat amongst the fitness community. Research is also unstable, as evidenced by the constant debunking of insurmountable claims, regimes,methodologies, etc..., via peer review, especially in the realm of nutrition and dieting.
Almost anybody can become a personal trainer, with minimal effort and $100.
The whole fitness industry is rather flawed, and most people don't recognize it, for it is, a business...
Ultimately the definition of fit comes down to perception or individual preference. But most people tend to associate, the most visibly massive individuals, as inheriting the most dominating / attractive traits(being more fit)
This kind coincides with physics
The gravitational pull of from massive objects, lures in less massive objects into their orbit...
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They don't realize its a life style they think telling folks to do this and that then eat veggies is all thats needed
Some folks have deep issues i know a dude who lost 100 fukking lbs.
Dude looks great but had a ton of loose skin and he is still very insecure and see's himself as that fat boy.
What is a chubby trainer gonna say to this dude to not only help him physically but mentally.
This is why i say everyone cant be a trainer.
stupid ass cac 
