Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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there it is.
keep it real with yourself and with her. make your intentions clear. give her the option of doing whatever it is you want to do with no game-playing or pretense. let her choose.
Babygirl in your past sounds like that one woman you just really like or even love, but has that fatal flaw. It's real tough, but you have to move on from that. If ya'll get into arguments now, it will only escalate when you move in. And secondly, never move in with a woman unless you are doing the marriage type thing. It will cause all kinds of issues. A man always needs his own castle to come home to and to escape the nonsense a woman or anyone else brings to the table. Also, this is subtle, but real. Never make a big move and go to where a female is at, aka following or coming to her, unless you had something other than her causing you to move like a better job. The woman should come to you. I've heard nothing but bad things about men that up and moved and went to be with a woman. Might be cool for a little while, but it will degenerate into disrespect.
Honestly, it sounds like a dangerous situation to me. More than anything, it's just that you are going through that emotional rollercoaster and got it in your mind that you can rekindle an old flame and 'make things different' this time. I know the feeling... and it never happens like you picture in your mind. What you're already getting from that woman is exactly what you're going to get when you go down there, if not more of it. Ya'll already argue all the time, so when ya'll move in together and the feelings start to escalate even more, the arguments will get even worse. When you're in her household, she will have the authority over you, to get you out or whatever she feels like doing. If you can't handle the arguments now, you better realize they will only get worse when she gets back comfortable with you in her life.
A lot of my boys come to me for personal advice on life, love and liberty
One of them just moved out of his parents nest and wants to live the independent, bachelor lifestyle and the perks that come along with it. Hes had a relationship for about 2 years back in his early 20s, now in his late 20s, he finds that single-dom is taking a toll on his psyche with swag levels not where they should be.
Has a full time job for a fortune 500 company and is an amateur boxer with a decent record but cant seem to retain new love interests for more than a date or so.
This is how it started off:
Basically, errthing I express on this here site, i mentioned to him; attitude will get you every where. You can be focused on your finances, your socio-economical status and work out like crazy, but your strongest asset is your brain. Always improve your cerebrum by exercising it and ensure that you soul is aligned with your spirit, it helps you keep a peace of mind. And that's how i gave him a piece of mine (n/h).
And this is how it ended (Dont mind the gifs and images, they just for emphasis. Imo, when sharing advice, your messages/dictions are more effectively relayed when you incorporate imagery).
I'm always out here to offer advice. Whether sound or applicable, depends on the recipient. A guy like me is just trying to share his experiences and methods and i hope it turns out for the gooder...
And between all the magazines, talk shows and movies, it may seem like in the dating sphere, women have a leg up...
But in the "Gems" society, it is ultimately our job, to help you get both her legs up.
Feel the Pope Pimpology. Cuz logically? Some of these hoes may knock our democracy when we spit philosophy. But irregardless, we still do it obviously well...
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One of them just moved out of his parents nest and wants to live the independent, bachelor lifestyle and the perks that come along with it. Hes had a relationship for about 2 years back in his early 20s, now in his late 20s, he finds that single-dom is taking a toll on his psyche with swag levels not where they should be.
Has a full time job for a fortune 500 company and is an amateur boxer with a decent record but cant seem to retain new love interests for more than a date or so.
This is how it started off:
Basically, errthing I express on this here site, i mentioned to him; attitude will get you every where. You can be focused on your finances, your socio-economical status and work out like crazy, but your strongest asset is your brain. Always improve your cerebrum by exercising it and ensure that you soul is aligned with your spirit, it helps you keep a peace of mind. And that's how i gave him a piece of mine (n/h).
And this is how it ended (Dont mind the gifs and images, they just for emphasis. Imo, when sharing advice, your messages/dictions are more effectively relayed when you incorporate imagery).
I'm always out here to offer advice. Whether sound or applicable, depends on the recipient. A guy like me is just trying to share his experiences and methods and i hope it turns out for the gooder...
And between all the magazines, talk shows and movies, it may seem like in the dating sphere, women have a leg up...
But in the "Gems" society, it is ultimately our job, to help you get both her legs up.
Feel the Pope Pimpology. Cuz logically? Some of these hoes may knock our democracy when we spit philosophy. But irregardless, we still do it obviously well...
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Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Just came in here to say, ever since I told my ex to delete my number, I feel so free. Feel a sense of indepence and big having to worry about anyone or what the gfs doing, and I can just focus on me. I don't have to worry about "when is she gonna text back" or nothing like that. I feel free as fukk.
But back to what I was gonna say, why is it in America they encourage women to be beautiful and shyt, but for men we're just expected to know our value and if not then we end up just being a doormat. What's funny is how they make indepency for women the most important thing, but for men they make everything about women, we buy cars for women, we dress nice for women, we're basically incomplete without women according to American society.
But back to what I was gonna say, why is it in America they encourage women to be beautiful and shyt, but for men we're just expected to know our value and if not then we end up just being a doormat. What's funny is how they make indepency for women the most important thing, but for men they make everything about women, we buy cars for women, we dress nice for women, we're basically incomplete without women according to American society.
They are trying to create a matriarchy. It destabilizes society. Plus, they want to create a 'trick culture' where men give up their money and authority to women. It helps keep men spending their money in order to impress women... and it keeps women spending not only their own money, but the money they get from men. How many men would really be spending all this money if not for attempting to impress women in some form or fashion?
I'm very glad I have to know my own worth. It makes me much more sharper and makes me confident in myself without requiring someone else to validate me. That's very powerful to do.
I'm very glad I have to know my own worth. It makes me much more sharper and makes me confident in myself without requiring someone else to validate me. That's very powerful to do.
No offense, breh, but how old are you? How much more obvious does she have to make it? Relationships/dating not my strongpoint.. asking for advice when I feel I need it from those that appear to know more/better then I do, but, point taken. That's pretty much the answer I wanted though, that I'm over thinking something simple. Not all the details are in that post, which could bring another perspective for some, but I think enough is there to get the general picture.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Oh for f*ck sake......
I really wish they would listen to themselves. It would just be too easy to rip this shyt apart.
Breh the door is open go in before you blow your chance.
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Let me reiterate this to you young cats. Keep your head on straight. don't go on a spending spree buying all kinds of elaborate clothes or some expensive car to pull these women. Have a budget. I will guarantee you having little or no-debt and financial freedom is way more fun than having so many clothes you can't wear them all and some $50,000 ride that you are only in a couple of hours a day.
Dressing well DOES help, but you don't have to buy all these super expensive clothes. As I said before, work within a budget and never let the pursuit of women get bigger than what you're doing. You don't want to be one of those bum type dudes who spent all their money fronting and trying to shine on cats and then end up broke as a joke. If you are pulling women with flashy rides and all of that, they're going to disappear when your material wealth goes.
Dressing well DOES help, but you don't have to buy all these super expensive clothes. As I said before, work within a budget and never let the pursuit of women get bigger than what you're doing. You don't want to be one of those bum type dudes who spent all their money fronting and trying to shine on cats and then end up broke as a joke. If you are pulling women with flashy rides and all of that, they're going to disappear when your material wealth goes.