Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I love seeing all my brethren in this thread constantly improve themselves and learn the knowledge to get a decent woman and live a righteous life. We're going to keep the knowledge flowing.

Despite the recent invasion we had where certain individuals thought they would come through and crush the buildings, I'm glad the flow of this thread has gone back to normal.
 

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so i got a date tmw night with an older asian girl in her late 20's (a lawyer). she approached me so i know shes interested but i usually date college girls. any tips from my coli brehs?
it always depends what your intent with the chick is.

general advice is to not be nervous, keep it real with yourself and with her, be sincere in your intentions, don't be ashamed of wanting whatever you want and don't settle for anything that wouldn't make you happy.

but what are you trying to do with this chick exactly?
 

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it always depends what your intent with the chick is.

general advice is to not be nervous, keep it real with yourself and with her, be sincere in your intentions, don't be ashamed of wanting whatever you want and don't settle for anything that wouldn't make you happy.

but what are you trying to do with this chick exactly?

right now i just want to smash :yeshrug: but that could change

and yeah i got the general advice, she seems real status obsessed with lawyers/bankers so i wasnt sure how i should converse with her since im not really on that level of success at this point
 

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Wow, apparently you asked me this about a month ago... i just got this notification today.

:leostare:


But i'm from Seattle.


LOL.

One recalls in the early 2000’s, I would always log on to the internet to complain about how the women in the Emerald City were the worst in the nation (apparently, making excuses cuz I wasn’t getting mines).

Turns out, the problem always lies within; If there’s something not right about your approach/success with women, the simple way out would be to point the finger at something other than yourself (Askmen.com boards or during :hamster:, some may remember my horror stories; the first time I got dumped, I almost committed that. Smh. But you live and learn). The truth was that I was aiming very high and trying to date the 8’s, 9’s and dimes, setting standards that weren’t realistic for somebody who had very destitute/limited dating points.

Ultimately, with life comes experience.

When I learned that my odds with all these chicks wasn’t because of “the water” or the geographic setting or because women felt entitled to whatever they felt they deserved – it was cuz the way I was going about datehood and romance… was all WRONG!

Played the field a bit and fine-tuned what I was doing; all I had to do was adjust my personality a bit (cuz I like to wild out and be different, but not too much at first; tho women like eccentric guys, it can rub off the wrong way if you employ too much early on. Never ever give the full plunge whether its love, personality or game; increments are crucial to success with the opposite. Some call it tact. Some refer to it as assertiveness. I call it, "Reservation Method" (hold back key elements to yourself and naturally unveil them through the course of your time with the babe... that is, if she even deserves it. She'll be mystified by your enigmatic nature and she'll always be on her toes and snatch - thinking about why you're so unique and such a great catch and you're nothing like the last batch).


Any who...

Pardon the digression.


YoYo... where you from and what are the females like in your creek of the streets?


Personally, i prefer eastcoast women (maybe just the few i dealt with left great impressions on the kid). Don't know if i can keep up with that jet-setter lifestyle/mindset that is prevalent of the damsels from Delaware to Decatur... all the way down to Dayton...


but i'll date 'em.


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right now i just want to smash :yeshrug: but that could change

and yeah i got the general advice, she seems real status obsessed with lawyers/bankers so i wasnt sure how i should converse with her since im not really on that level of success at this point

As a man never ever sell yourself short, the and never be intimidated. I

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Cotto: It is often said that "Nice guys finish last". Generally speaking, what are your views about this idea?

Roosh: That phrase presupposes that nice guys are even in the game, but these days they are resigned to being spectators. If you are a nice guy, the best hope you have is marrying a spinster in her 30s who already had more than a couple dozen sexual partners when she was "discovering" her sexuality during her 20's, and she'll still put you below her office career.*

You get the used car with high maintenance costs while the jerks who treat her poorly get to drive the new car off the lot, enjoying the new car smell



I'd rather take the bus brehs
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Thread throwback:



Sista with the dime face and afro is just :lawd: status. Also, something about a woman wearing a long flowery dress gracefully like the one at 1:23 does something for me. :yes:

Speaking of travel, I just picked up Travel magazine today and they have a 23 page special on Brazil and that is now definitely on my list to hit. It's not even about the women (OK, I'm not gonna lie, that has a little bit to do with it who am I kidding lol) but something in my spirit is just telling me it's time to travel now and just see the world for a couple of years. Sometimes, I'm not gonna lie, I do feel somewhat down for not having a family by now, but if it was meant to be it would have occurred already. I just have to remind myself that everything happens in Divine Time, so for now I need to start making plans to get out there and expand my horizons rather than just talk about.
 
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Weird thing I noticed today. I was at school today sitting near the little shop/eating area that sales coffee and such. Every table was somewhat full or at least had 1 person at it. I sat alone, and there were several women who'd come by and instead of sitting by me they'd sit by another girl who was less attractive than her, and then even worse I seen 2 girls (1 pretty, 1 not so attractive) join a random girl at a table that was made for 2. So weird knowing that I was at a table by myself. Women<<. fukking low self esteem creatures
 

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Fuuuuuuuck, I hit this chick to kick it today and her response was "Yeah they're pretty hard.. Today's been a long day maybe we can hangout this weekend ill prob need a beak from studying :smile:"

Not gonna lie I kinda just don't even want to respond to her ass after seeing the word "maybe"
 

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How do you guys feel about women proposing to men?

Woman-proposes-to-man-for-leap-day.jpg
 

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Basically, that's what it comes down too. You never hear a guy say "damn she won't propose to me!"
 
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