Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Let me reiterate this to you young cats. Keep your head on straight. don't go on a spending spree buying all kinds of elaborate clothes or some expensive car to pull these women. Have a budget. I will guarantee you having little or no-debt and financial freedom is way more fun than having so many clothes you can't wear them all and some $50,000 ride that you are only in a couple of hours a day.

Dressing well DOES help, but you don't have to buy all these super expensive clothes. As I said before, work within a budget and never let the pursuit of women get bigger than what you're doing. You don't want to be one of those bum type dudes who spent all their money fronting and trying to shine on cats and then end up broke as a joke. If you are pulling women with flashy rides and all of that, they're going to disappear when your material wealth goes.

 

[kevm3]

I love seeing all my brethren in this thread constantly improve themselves and learn the knowledge to get a decent woman and live a righteous life. We're going to keep the knowledge flowing.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Too much knowledge to be obtained out here I swear

 

[wishbone]

Imagine this scenario for a second. You walk into a jewelry store, and start looking at the rings, and one particular ring catches your attention. You look up at the salesman and ask for him to pull it out for you so you can try it on. You put it on your finger, admiring it quietly, but your look tells it all. You tell the salesman that you want that ring... In return, the salesman gives you a puzzled look and says, "I wouldn't get that if I was you. It's vastly overpriced for what you are getting and that's not a high quality diamond. In fact, you can go to the jewelry store right across the street and get a better diamond ring for cheaper." What would you do in that situation? You would be quite puzzled at that salesman and then proceed to take your business across the street.

Now, imagine this scenario. You walk into the jewelry store and the jeweler sees you eyeing that same ring, but before you say anything, he pulls that diamond ring out of the case and motions you to hold out your hand. You hold out your hand and he slides that ring right onto your pinky finger. You see it twinkling on your hand and he looks you in the eye and says, "That's you. That ring is you... but only if you believe in yourself and you believe you are worth it. That is a gorgeous ring and it fits you to the tee, but it's not cheap. Lucky for you, we have it on sale today, so if you really want this ring, today is the day to get it. I can't guarantee how long we'll have this ring in stock either... Rings like this sell out quick." You would be much more likely to pull out your wallet and get this ring in the second scenario.

In both instances, you have a diamond ring, which is essentially a shiny rock... but who really made the difference in you getting the ring was how the salesman responded to you. Now I'm saying this to say, what you think about yourself is very important because it starts to project outward. If you believe yourself of low worth and believe a woman is out of your league and all kinds of other nonsense, that's exactly the perception a woman will have of you. If you believe yourself to be high worth, it will project outwards and that will start to be many womens' perception of you. Do you want to be the guy that is telling women you are a low worth fraud and that she should shop elsewhere for a much better value or do you want to tell her that you are a once-in-a-lifetime deal for her that she better hurry and wrap up unless someone else gets you? You actually control much of peoples' perception of you by what you think of yourself because it eventually manifests outward.

DAMMIT KEV, your advice cuts straight to the bone. Your words really give me a new and improved perspective; every single time. Thankyou breh, thankyou.

 

[kevm3]

Let me paint to you a picture of the point I was talking about earlier about not spending all of your money trying to 'impress women.' You can be one of these guys who sit around talking about how you are all poloed out and draped in gucci sneakers with a several thousand dollar chain on and pushing these 'fly whips.' That's cool if that's what you really want to do, but lets take a look at the long perspective. What are all of those materials going to be worth when it's said and done? More than likely, you are not going to recoup most of that money. You are going to be stuck in debt trying to put on a show for others, and the type of women you attract being flashy isn't the type you build with.

If you stack your money and make the right moves with it, you still get to get your shine on with some nice clothes and a decent ride, but what is more beautiful is that financial freedom. You aren't constantly worrying about the debt man on your back, you can take trips when you want to and you will generally be at ease. Financial independence is really a beautiful goal to attempt to achieve. Getting that debt monkey off your back is a lovely thing. Like I've said before, you need to have a much bigger perspective than catching women. They are a part of your life. Men that build their life around chasing women is headed for disaster.

Also, focus on catching women first and foremost with what you represent and who you are as a person... Jewels and fancy clothes can only aid you in that pursuit. They don't do the catching for you... so keep that in context and don't waste all your money thinking you need fancy materials to deal with quality women.

 

[Liquid]

Haven't participated in this thread in a while, but a few things have developed over the past couple of months that have brought things to light once again.

Now a lot of you cats in here are in your late teens to early 20's and there are a couple of things you need to realize before you end up like many people my age. @kevm3 already pointed out financial freedom and I won't touch up on that too much. I think something that is important to realize is that you don't NEED expensive nice looking clothes to leave a good impression, but dressing nice does help. Think about the difference and understand that nice looking threads don't necessarily have to be expensive. Another thing about financial freedom is to set a goal for yourself. Start out by calculating how much your monthly expenses are and dump it into a savings account...build that up to at least a year's worth and then start to look into letting that money work for you whether it be interest gained or financial ventures. I would say 20K in savings is a good number to start at.

As far as women are concerned? I don't have much new to add, but one of my friends is about to get a break into the industry and the old birds are starting to chirp at him now. It's kinda hilarious how the cycle works, but I was on the phone with him for 2 hours the other day and reminded him to stay focused. He has been busting his ass for 6+ years and the old birds never chirped, a little buzz and now the text messages and ringtones are popping off. It's so depressing in fact that a model/actress requested me on Facebook just because of our close friendship...the agenda is clear and evident.

You guys are going to have a whole lot of temptations in your mid 20's, make sure you think wisely about what you are getting yourself into. I recently had to cut someone off completely because I just noticed that the direction of both our lives since the high school days has spread way far apart. Can it change in the future? Possibly, but highly unlikely.

These are tough decisions to make for everyone, but don't fall into the trap that many fall into thinking that you can help change someone change their life around. People generally change when they are ready to do so. You can push a little and try to see how you can help, but there comes a time in where you and the partner must realize that you are not seeing eye to eye and might be best to cut it off. Don't look at it from the point of not being loyal or sticking it out, rather setting each other free to avoid the aggravation down the line. They might not realize it at that time, but you are probably doing them a favor.

 

[Wild self]

Stop Caring

The biggest problem modern men have today is they care too much about women. Here is a list of women you should care about:

-Family members
-Your wife (Provided she is a good one)
-The woman carrying your child (while she is carrying it)

That’s it. If a woman is not on that list, she is fair game. Get rid of that “protective instinct” you have for all women that makes you seek their approval and always want to help them with their problems and protect their feelings. Being protective of women is a useless practice as a Player and will only lead you into traps.

Modern culture has trained men to live and die by female approval:

-Am I good in bed?
-Is my penis too small?
-Am I too short?
-Do I have enough experience?
-Do I make enough money?
-Do I have enough friends?
-Is my car nice enough?
-Are my clothes cool enough?

When it comes to dating, women are like children. They give into every emotional whim they feel and lose all concept of logic, morality and justice. Women simply cannot keep a clear head in this area of life. They use the same tactics to get their way as children: crying, pouting, whining, complaining, running away, passive-aggressive shyt, etc.

So why would any grown man listen to these people as equals and worry about their approval? Why? To get laid obviously. But enlightened men understand that the path to a woman’s golden vagina is not paved with ass-kissing and agreeable behavior.

Whenever you go hunting for women you should view a woman you want to approach as a mental child (because when it comes to dating and sex.. SHE IS). Don’t let the ball-busting, educated, well-dressed and ambitious FRONT on a woman fool you. She is a confused child inside and you will see this with any woman who develops feelings for you no matter what walk of life she comes from.

The fact that women are so childish and emotional is one of the reasons a lot of men want to protect them and place them on a pedestal. But that is an ignorant mistake since being childish should not be mistaken for being INNOCENT. It’s not the same thing. The childish nature of women is more related to their emotionalism, selfishness, and weak sense of justice. All qualities of children.

This is why approach anxiety is technically a stupid thing. No man should feel approach anxiety because no woman is spiritually above a man. No man should fear rejection because all female dating decisions are based on feelings and selfish motives. If a woman rejects you, it has nothing to do with the person you are inside. It has to do with your failure to stimulate her emotions and offer something she wants.

When a woman meets a new man she asks herself:* What can he give me? Can I get amazing sex? Can I get power? Can I get money? Can I get connections? Can I get status? Can I show him off to my friends? Can I get kids?

All her feelings will be based on those questions. Its just like how, as a man, you will be sexually aroused by a woman FIRST.. then develop feelings after. With women, its about “what can I get?” FIRST. The feelings come later.

See Modern Dating For What It Is

To get back your mojo you need to get your head out of the clouds and see dating for what it really is = Prostitution. Enlightened men know this. Nice guys and social conservatives still don’t get it. They still fall for the sappy lovey-dovey crap the feminized media promotes.

This culture of male responsibility and accountability is designed to “keep men in line” so they can continue to behave in a way that benefits women, even if it hurts themselves. After all, men are the “disposable gender”. We are the ones expected to sacrifice ourselves. Leave that to the white knight suckers and nice guys. Players are not that stupid.

Players understand that women keep the domain of lying, manipulation, and exploitation to themselves. When men start learning to utilize these tools in the same fashion, women get nervous. This is why the modern media glorifies the nice guy and works to destroy “the player”.

Don’t believe me? Look at all the movies that come out where a male character is a “player”. Usually by the end of the movie he turns into a p*ssy-whipped nice guy. Some good examples are:

Hitch
Crazy Stupid Love
Love and Other Drugs
The Ladies Man
What Happens in Vegas
Something’s Gotta Give

Society does not want you to be a player. I’ll repeat that:

SOCIETY DOES NOT WANT YOU TO BE A PLAYER.

Because being a player gives a man too much power. Being a player allows a man to date like a woman. He can stick his finger in many pies to assess their quality without having to buy any of them. This does not benefit women, therefore it is not encouraged.

Continuing with media and movie examples, you’ll find that nice guy p*ssy-whipped behavior is encouraged in the media. In the movies, the guy only gets the girl to love him when he becomes a desperate p*ssy-whipped faq. Examples are endless, but here are some notable ones:

Friends With Benefits
Wedding Crashers
40 Year-Old-Virgin

The only consistent exceptions to this rule are action movies and crime movies. In those movies the man gets the girl by being a “tough guy” or “protector” who is willing to risk his safety to save or honor a woman. Examples:

Speed
Most comic book movies: Spider-Man, The Dark Knight, Hulk, Superman, etc.
Indiana Jones
The Transporter
Transformers
Titanic

In most movies where the man is not a protector, provider, or nice guy ass-kisser, the woman is portrayed as a victim in a bad relationship. Examples:

The Break-Up
Old School
Heat
Wall Street: Money Never Sleeps
Knocked Up

The media seems to believe that every man, deep down, wants to be a woman’s slave in some way. Men only exist to serve women and men who are not serving women are in some way either “bad people” or confused and misguided people. Runny isn’t it?

So men grow up watching this crap and then they go out and act like these morons they see in movies with the belief that such behavior will lead them to the elusive soul-mate with the golden vagina. Then they find themselves in the friend zone over and over and over. They cry and whine and start saying stuff like this:

Why Are You Running Away???

You need to snap out of it gentlemen! Its bullshyt.

STOP Paying Upfront

Men who end up in the friend zone are men who pay women upfront without making sure the GOODS are actually for sale! This is an idiotic chump move, but a common one.

In the dating world, a player is just a bargain shopper who refuses to overpay for sex or pay upfront for sex. He is out for the best deal possible and he wins by making the woman pay upfront before delivering the goods she is after. Most men are SUCKERS and they OVERPAY upfront for low quality women and get the shaft. They spend money, give support, risk their safety and waste valuable time only to get nothing out of it. Classic nice guy beta male mistake.

All smart people know that only a fool pays upfront. A smart man utilizes the “I.O.U” in order to keep women waiting for “the goods” while she continues to pay for them. This allows him more time to sit in judgment and decide if what is being offered to him is even WORTH payment (the mindset behind hump and dump behavior). The exact opposite of what nice guys do.

As long as you understand that the dating world is very similar to the business world, you’ll thrive. You’ll avoid traps, bad deals, and scams. If you want to believe the sentimental fairy tale crap the media promotes constantly, all I can tell you is have a nice life in the friend zone or being dominated by a bytchy woman. That’s where you’ll end up more often than not.

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I been saying this shyt all the damn time. Society hates the heterosexual player that has no kids and is well off. Imagine that? A man that has everything together, his game on point, fukking numerous girls, driving luxury cars, traveling the world, but women shame him for doing so. They don't want the man to prosper in any way.

 

[Wild self]

Woman Admits To “Alpha Fux, Beta Bux” Dating Strategy | Chateau Heartiste

Like Kevm3 said, they trying to make a trick culture so that men spend their money more to stimulate businesses and not to build/ innovate on anything new. Basically to stagnate this society.

 

[MikelArteta]

I been saying this shyt all the damn time. Society hates the heterosexual player that has no kids and is well off. Imagine that? A man that has everything together, his game on point, fukking numerous girls, driving luxury cars, traveling the world, but women shame him for doing so. They don't want the man to prosper in any way.

Not stimulating the economy, being married and having women spending on useless crap puts money in their pockets.

You think a single man is buying a big ol house, a suv, dining room set, leather couch set, stainless steel appliances?

Everything is marketed for the married man, what do you think banks want?

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[MikelArteta]

Like Kevm3 said, they trying to make a trick culture so that men spend their money more to stimulate businesses and not to build/ innovate on anything new. Basically to stagnate this society.

Get married brehs

Anytime a chick tells you how much of a$$holes her previous bfs were, run to the hills

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[MikelArteta]

Why women love money

http://romancecheater.com/why-women-love-money/

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[MikelArteta]

If you allow them [women] to pull away restraints and put themselves on an equality with their husbands, do you imagine that you will be able to tolerate them? From the moment that they become your fellows, they will become your masters." --Marcus Porcius Cato (the Elder, a.k.a. the Censor), 234-149 BCE

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[George Gooney]

I truly thank god that we have brothers like @His_Excellence_Reincar and @kevm3 in this world...I truly do

 

[sixsixtwo]

How I Banged A Beast and Lived To Tell About It - Maverick Traveler

The Main Reason Women Don't Want to Have Sex | Fox News Magazine

 

[Czerka]

so i got a date tmw night with an older asian girl in her late 20's (a lawyer). she approached me so i know shes interested but i usually date college girls. any tips from my coli brehs?