What happened was she got bored and probably wanted to go test the waters, so best thing to do is accept she's gone as hard as it may be. Once a woman gets on that leaving for no reason tip, it ain't ever going to be the same afterwards.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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So how old are you and what's your status like right now? You got a job? Education? Do you stay looking good or are you?
Im 24 (I know im young plenty of girls out there), i finished university a year ago and trying to get into med school within the next year. I have a job at a medical company. And Ive lost 40 pounds over the past year also after school, probably the best i have looked in a few years.
yea thats what ive accepted, just easier said than done. I know after some time ill be good, but right now its hard. trying to just chill with my boys, hit the gym, pick up new hobbies
Then I take back what I said. Stay looking good and push for your career. Your career should come first. If she doesn't want to stick around then she's not worth it and will eventually cheat or do some foul shyt. Keep your head on tight and stick to the script. Don't let that shyt bring you down.
women get bored easily, that's why they like a$$holed, thugs etc. They never know what they are glmna get , a fight, drama, confrontation, will they get a Valentine's dinner or will he forger the unpredictability.
bottomline, she's not loyal. you had a tough time and instead of supporting you she felt you were bringing her down and wanted to leave. why would you want to have someone like that as a friend? if she would respect your feelings, she would know that remaining friends and hanging out is not an option and leave you alone even if it was hard on her.
i'm not buying that whole confused shyt with woman, that's just their token excuse for playing with peoples emotions. yes, she wants to go test the waters but keep you around as a back up. i'd say make her see the error of her ways and go no contact at all. she will most likely come crawling back, but if i was you, i wouldn't take her.
in all my years on thsi earth, in all my years of reading relationship forums, seeing relationship interactions with my friends etc.
ONLY ONCE have a ever seen a couple break up and get back together and they got married and it worked out, you are not special 99.9% of the time who cares what the excuse she dropped on you, orwhy you broke up stop thinking about it, chalk it up and move along with your life
take it from a guy who pinned for a ex longer than the actual relationship was
ONLY ONCE have a ever seen a couple break up and get back together and they got married and it worked out, you are not special 99.9% of the time who cares what the excuse she dropped on you, orwhy you broke up stop thinking about it, chalk it up and move along with your life
take it from a guy who pinned for a ex longer than the actual relationship was
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ok brehs Im about to go after this chick at work(yeah I know but imma have to call Yolo on this one homegirl is Romanian got her shyt together ) what are the do's and dont?
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h0es never dump they man unless they have another n!gga comin off da bench. They need that void to be filled up right away, even if its temporary and they end up regretting leavin the n!gga they was originally with. So chances are, she fukin wid a new n!gga (probably was durin the relationship, but kept it on the hush). But hey, it ain't your issue now.
As far as the breakup, you handled it well imo and now its IMPERATIVE that you keep AND maintain no contact. Remember, SHE don't care about you no more. SHE decided to end the relationship. SHE probably takin a new d!ck in and around em lips, in da puzzy and prolly up the poop chute too.
What you also gotta do is, preoccupy yourself. A breakup is usually the best time to hit the gym and go absolutely ham on the weights, kick it wid your n!ggaz and just have fun. I wouldn't recommend bangin women or rush into anything of that sort yet, because the wounds will still be fresh. However, if you feel that you can and you won't be thinkin about her, then hey, play on playa.
Weeks, months and even years down the road, you will realize that the break up was for the best. Whether it is in the form of her constantly textin/callin/stalkin you and realizing you dodged a psychotic azz trick OR through self-improvement and development that you became a much better man post break-up.
You single, can save up more $$, deal wid NO female BS and do whatever and whomever the fuk you want.
Dis ain't no ordinary W my n!gga, this a blowout.
Best do is to not do it because if it blows up, that's a whole lot of drama in your face every day and it could get you canned and it can also cause a whole lot of gossip to fly around... but if you are going to take that chance, I've seen workplace 'romances' work out. You just have to be really sure she's feeling you and if you do do it don't be doing stupid things like having women on the side or anything that can get her real angry. If you're going to deal with a woman at your job, you always have to position yourself to where if things go bad, you can end it on positive terms with her. Also, make sure your resume is on point if things take a turn for the worst. If you are planning on being the company you are at long-term, I'd advise against it, but if you are open to jumping ship, then if you feel she's cool enough, that'd be a risk on your terms.
h0es never dump they man unless they have another n!gga comin off da bench. They need that void to be filled up right away, even if its temporary and they end up regretting leavin the n!gga they was originally with. So chances are, she fukin wid a new n!gga (probably was durin the relationship, but kept it on the hush). But hey, it ain't your issue now.
As far as the breakup, you handled it well imo and now its IMPERATIVE that you keep AND maintain no contact. Remember, SHE don't care about you no more. SHE decided to end the relationship. SHE probably takin a new d!ck in and around em lips, in da puzzy and prolly up the poop chute too.
What you also gotta do is, preoccupy yourself. A breakup is usually the best time to hit the gym and go absolutely ham on the weights, kick it wid your n!ggaz and just have fun. I wouldn't recommend bangin women or rush into anything of that sort yet, because the wounds will still be fresh. However, if you feel that you can and you won't be thinkin about her, then hey, play on playa.
Weeks, months and even years down the road, you will realize that the break up was for the best. Whether it is in the form of her constantly textin/callin/stalkin you and realizing you dodged a psychotic azz trick OR through self-improvement and development that you became a much better man post break-up.
You single, can save up more $$, deal wid NO female BS and do whatever and whomever the fuk you want.
Dis ain't no ordinary W my n!gga, this a blowout.
this is true, women tree branch, ive been told that bs before " i need space", "i just dont want to date anyone at this moment" then a week later in a relationship with someone else on fb, or a new "friend".
As well women check out of relationships, months in advance, thats when they drop the bomb on you, the emotions for you is just like a friend, they keep you around because of guilt and just incase.
Also agree with you about the gym, releasing endorphins makes you feel better, as well I would recommend travel, I got over my biggest breakup ever with my ex fiance by going away to a all inclusive resort, i enver thought about her once. As well download forgetting sarah marshall and swingers.
ANd I agree never look back towards exes, or never take them back. like you mentioned whenever a girl breaks up with you, within 24-48 hrs shes getting new dikk.
I let it be knwo to every chick once were done were done, ive had chicks dump me, then like a month later hit me up like really, you left me for some otehr dude more than likely and it didnt wokr it, and now you expect me to come back?
I';m that dude that all my exes will think back when they are old and single, old and a single mom, old in a horrible marriage, old in a content marriage while they google my name and see a big smile on my face knowing deep down they fd up.
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LIfe is stupid.
I'm appreciative when people appreciate me and want to do things with me, but there's currently a feminist with a fukking buzz cut that wants to hang with me, and that's a strange adjustment for me. On top of that, whenever I have some plans set up, more plans arise. This girl who has been kinda distant, on some on & off shyt, just hit me up, asking if I want to grab a drink and play pool. Why is the universe organized like this?
Oh yeah, that "Outta sight, outta mind" post in this thread might be one of my favorites. Resonates with me so much.
I'm drunkems right now, brehs. I'm sorry for the sloppiness.
I'm appreciative when people appreciate me and want to do things with me, but there's currently a feminist with a fukking buzz cut that wants to hang with me, and that's a strange adjustment for me. On top of that, whenever I have some plans set up, more plans arise. This girl who has been kinda distant, on some on & off shyt, just hit me up, asking if I want to grab a drink and play pool. Why is the universe organized like this?
Oh yeah, that "Outta sight, outta mind" post in this thread might be one of my favorites. Resonates with me so much.
I'm drunkems right now, brehs. I'm sorry for the sloppiness.
And one of my homeboys hit me up tonight, too. That doesn't really have anything to do with women, but my luck is really fukking strange. When I have nothing going on, there's absolutely nothing. But once one plan comes about, the opportunities pile up.