Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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shame nobody helped us yet g
ok the first chick that I had called on sunday that didnt answer but sent me a text like 2 hours later, she sent me a text today while she was at work. she asked how I was doing and then said sorry that she hadnt been able to call me yet because she has been swamped at work, we exchanged a few more text after that.
Ive been thinking about if I should just skip the phone call crap, and take the risk of setting something up for this weekend tomorrow
and advice...should i try that or try to get atleast 1 phone call in, mind you she is 23
Ive been thinking about if I should just skip the phone call crap, and take the risk of setting something up for this weekend tomorrow
and advice...should i try that or try to get atleast 1 phone call in, mind you she is 23
relax, get your mind right, focus on other stuff to ground yourself, and just follow your gut feel (not your insecurities, not your "tactical" mind or "game" mind). You keep asking yourself what you should do. you're trying to control the outcome and manipulate her perception of you (two things you simply wont have the final say on). Let go, stop trying to control and just be at peace with yourself.
it's all within us and we unlearn is as we grow up. The Divine/God/The Truth is within us but we cloud it with doubt, false beliefs and ego...
what's the deal with girls
i'm good at meeting girls, having initial attraction, going out and stuff.. then like a couple months down the road it's just not the same, i feel i do all the same as the beginning when i first met but then they fade away from me and i'm just like to myself 'wtf happened, what went wrong'. so now i'm thinking it's something about me, maybe im not being mysterious enough, or giving them too much attention or something, i don't know, it's just sort of frustrating, cause truthfully i wouldn't mind having a girl right now.
i'm good at meeting girls, having initial attraction, going out and stuff.. then like a couple months down the road it's just not the same, i feel i do all the same as the beginning when i first met but then they fade away from me and i'm just like to myself 'wtf happened, what went wrong'. so now i'm thinking it's something about me, maybe im not being mysterious enough, or giving them too much attention or something, i don't know, it's just sort of frustrating, cause truthfully i wouldn't mind having a girl right now.
Always get a phone call in if you can and if she's receptive, obviously. If she texted you out of the blue like you stated than she's obviously thinking about you. Just let it play out, breh. Don't force anything.
Kenny West
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it's all within us and we unlearn is as we grow up. The Divine/God/The Truth is within us but we cloud it with doubt, false beliefs and ego...
So we're all born with our crown charka open but it closes as we grow.....due to the influences of society 
That's the thing. Nowadays those types of women don't want to be held down. They want to jump from guy to guy, experimenting here and there... and then when they hit 30, that's when they are ready to 'settle down' and start complaining about how they can't find a decent guy. Ain't too much you can do about it but let them women meet their own fate. All that playing around, trying to be more mysterious is for the birds. If the woman doesn't want to be around you for who you are, then she needs to go.
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<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
ok got a question for everyone.....if you have dated or been in relationships with a woman of a different race/culture ethnic group what have you at what point do you bring up how her family looks at her dating outside of her race etc. Do you ask early on, or do you wait until it gets serious. I ask because the first woman who text me yesterday out of the blue, is indian/muslim she says she is into blk guys, but dont know if she has ever dated a black man, and of heard that in her culture thats a huge no no. I want to bring it up earlier rather than later but i guess I need to wait and see which direction this goes
The prejudices of her family is a topic that can be saved for a lot later. If you are interested in her and the interest is mutual you should let things take their course.
If it gets serious, ask the question then. There is no need to throw a relationship with a good person in the bushes because of what others think. If you like her, talk to her, date, befriend her. Forget everyone else.
If you both feel each other on another level, that attraction will supersede her family's prejudices. You won't even care, and neither will she.
Life is too short.
If they try to disown her or cut her out of her inheritance, that's on them and she has to decide for her own happiness.
If it gets serious, ask the question then. There is no need to throw a relationship with a good person in the bushes because of what others think. If you like her, talk to her, date, befriend her. Forget everyone else.
If you both feel each other on another level, that attraction will supersede her family's prejudices. You won't even care, and neither will she.
Life is too short.
If they try to disown her or cut her out of her inheritance, that's on them and she has to decide for her own happiness.
Brehs, what the fukk is going on? One of my exes has been coming at me with that sweet talk. She's asked who I've been sleeping with, and said she wants me to visit her if she moves to the West side. This is part of that cycle, right? 
brehs is it true that if a chick calls or text you when she is drunk that she is really feeling you?
me and this girl been fukking around for almost a year now and a few weeks ago we agreed to fall back from each other for a minute but the very next night she calls me all drunk and shyt, we ended up talking for about a hour and she fell asleep on me but thats the last time we talked or texted, she is also sending hints on fb about missing me or whatever but idk if she is talking about me or not
she did use the first initial of my name though
me and this girl been fukking around for almost a year now and a few weeks ago we agreed to fall back from each other for a minute but the very next night she calls me all drunk and shyt, we ended up talking for about a hour and she fell asleep on me but thats the last time we talked or texted, she is also sending hints on fb about missing me or whatever but idk if she is talking about me or not
she did use the first initial of my name though