Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

You can't live a complete life if you have wired or allowed women to condition your brain to believe that No woman can be faithful, or that all women are lying hoes.

This isn't true. Don't miss out on the few good ones because you're fukked up. I've been w women that I've done sooo wrong that they wished they had lied or wished they had cheated just to have something to come back at me with.

Some women are good women... and when we speak about the perils of dealing with women we should still keep this in mind.

let me add to this again, its like a job breh, your not thinking of getting fired or laid off, you show up on time, even do more than you should work hard, but then called in to the office and told things are changing in the workplace and to save costs we have to let you go.


you've done nothing wrong you've been a great employee, but things change. just like in relationships even if you got such a great women.

i was at my company for 6 years last year when i got pulled into a meeting and they told me my position would be gone in 3 months, luckily i was redeployed, some other oflks were not so lucky and took a package.

just like in relationships, you can date someone for 3 years, 6 years, everything is going great then suddenly one day we need to talk and your relationship is terminated. Of course there are women out there who can be faithful, of course there are grat women out there, key is most are gone out of the game at a good age, its just like what i said about say pof etc. the only good women there sign up and delte their account in a week.

most of the good women i know are married, and have been married for years, snatched up at a young age.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is what bothers me the most when dealing with females. It's incredible. And it's usually the ones who never had an honest male relationship growing up. Not necessarily a father, more like a slightly older brother or a close cousin. I find that women who had guys like that in there lives have more awareness of themselves then women who didn't.

women without a father in thier life for the most part to me are way way to promiscuous sleeping with guyts on the first night,c ant maintain a stable relationship, were probably molested by a uncle or mommys bf, and keep on playing the victim game all their life.

no one told you to ride that thugs dikk without a condom and pop out a kid out of wedlock,

no one told you to date a known player or abuser.

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

if you can keep your emotions in check hell continue talking just realize not to expect anything and realize you are probably just being used because she has nothing at the moment.

you right breh

 

[International Playa]

For the first time in my life,Im about to start dating a woman with one kid brehs, I will keep you updated on how things pan out

 

[MikelArteta]

For the first time in my life,Im about to start dating a woman with one kid brehs, I will keep you updated on how things pan out

Sometimes you have to touch the hot stove yourself to learn your lesson .




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[Blackking]

let me add to this again, its like a job breh, your not thinking of getting fired or laid off, you show up on time, even do more than you should work hard, but then called in to the office and told things are changing in the workplace and to save costs we have to let you go.


you've done nothing wrong you've been a great employee, but things change. just like in relationships even if you got such a great women.

i was at my company for 6 years last year when i got pulled into a meeting and they told me my position would be gone in 3 months, luckily i was redeployed, some other oflks were not so lucky and took a package.

just like in relationships, you can date someone for 3 years, 6 years, everything is going great then suddenly one day we need to talk and your relationship is terminated. Of course there are women out there who can be faithful, of course there are grat women out there, key is most are gone out of the game at a good age, its just like what i said about say pof etc. the only good women there sign up and delte their account in a week.

most of the good women i know are married, and have been married for years, snatched up at a young age.

Sadly U are right... but... the bold is the key... and right timing of not picking her too young to were she needs to explore.. but not too old to were she has baggage, mental relationship beatdowns that u have to pay for, etc. A down ass young bytch is frankly a magical experience.

 

[MikelArteta]

Sadly U are right... but... the bold is the key... and right timing of not picking her too young to were she needs to explore.. but not too old to were she has baggage, mental relationship beatdowns that u have to pay for, etc. A down ass young bytch is frankly a magical experience.

I'm 28 and most women my age that are single have kids, after whoring around for years are ready to settle down in a long term relationship etc.

years of baggage, etc. Not interested


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[Jahmal]

For the first time in my life,Im about to start dating a woman with one kid brehs, I will keep you updated on how things pan out

You read my post about the single mother I dealt with. dont do it breh!!!

 

[Blackking]

I'm 28 and most women my age that are single have kids, after whoring around for years are ready to settle down in a long term relationship etc.

years of baggage, etc. Not interested


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To the choir is how ur preaching. I'm 28 as well...

I pref chicks around my around my age.. but I just met a 19 year old. She would be perfect: nice, no kids, in college, not a saint, but not a slore and honest. Slim. Lives with her father(they are close). Basically, ripe for the wifing up.

But realistically she's 19, wtf imma do with that? Conversations aren't the same as w a chick born after 1987. And I could never take her to a lounge or anything.

 

[MikelArteta]

You read my post about the single mother I dealt with. dont do it breh!!!

Sometimes folks have to learn on their own

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[sixsixtwo]

Sometimes folks have to learn on their own

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*LMFAO* He's in for a "treat".. Over or under 2 months, he'll be back lamenting his decision?

 

[MikelArteta]

*LMFAO* He's in for a "treat".. Over or under 2 months, he'll be back lamenting his decision?

It'll be great for awhile thuats how single moms draw men in, cooking, sex whenever they want and your thinking damn I got a good one, hey her kid isn't so bad.



Then they find out what every other guy does

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[kevm3]

We've spent a ton talking about women and pretty much have it all covered. One more point. If she won't deal with you without you having to take her to dinner or spend some kind of money on her, don't do it. You don't owe anyone anything for their time. It's all about mutual interest and if she really likes you like that, then ya'll can kick it wherever. One more thing. Beware of women 'dropping hints' and always asking for something. If she hasn't shown loyalty to you, no freebies.

Anyways, be thankful to God for another day breathing, learn something new everyday and never leave your learning within the domain of 'the school system'. Sit back, relax, enjoy your newfound peace of mind and stack that money up. That's what you are trying to maintain -- "peace of mind."

Continue to get out of debt by living a minimalist lifestyle and build yourself a very nice 'rainy day fund' especially if you ever end up getting canned from work. Something real important to learn is entrepreneurship because you never know what reason you will be terminated. We're moving to an age where if you aren't able to get it for yourself, you won't be having it.

 

[Jason B]

Here is a very great read about men who have adopted the player mentality and the reason for it:

Flip The Game: Why Are So Many Black Men Players?

 

[MikelArteta]

Here is a very great read about men who have adopted the player mentality and the reason for it:

Flip The Game: Why Are So Many Black Men Players?

I agree

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