then you will get the bs retort
i was busy, i was at work, ive just been busy these past few weeks
women hate to feel bad or called out on their ish
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then you will get the bs retort
i was busy, i was at work, ive just been busy these past few weeks
women hate to feel bad or called out on their ish
That's the key. Stop playing into these womens' games and just cut em off and keep it pushing. When you start learning what those unspoken signals mean, you just know it for what it is and keep it pushing. You get ghost with it or you take forever to reply back = I'm not really trying to mess with you. That means instead of trying to do monkey tricks trying to raise her interest level, take your cuisine to another customer who might naturally like what you are offering a lot more.
you cant make this up
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they'll try to mask their cowardice by saying "I don't want to be mean, i don't want to hurt his feelings 
) but the real reason is that she wants to avoid direct rejection/confrontation in case a rainy day comes for her.
) but the real reason is that she wants to avoid direct rejection/confrontation in case a rainy day comes for her.Yep, they don't want to completely get rid of a guy they are not interested in. He's always there to serve as fall back man or someone to boost her self-esteem when she needs it. When she can't get with the guys she really wants, she will pop up like hey, long time no see.
Somebody correct me if i'm not understanding this correctly.
A promiscuous man: CAN commit, but doesn't want to.
A promiscuous woman: wants to commit, but CAN'T.
Yes?
This is the perplexing part for me, the latter half...
A willing/able man who doesn't have options; will commit.
A woman who can't but wants to... won't.
(but what if the above was reversed?)...
Is that the break down?
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The shyt is a joke.
Brehs, I remember back in April, this girl took me home from the bar after initially meeting her. I wrote about it a little in this thread. Anyways, next morning, while she's dropping me off, she's talking all this "we should hang out during the day" shyt & all that jazz, kissing me before I exit the whip and shyt (
) I'm like, aight, cool. I text her phone that night asking if she's working this on-campus event.No response.
Okay. True. Didn't pursue it anymore. Saw her at a party two weekends later, we didn't interact. Few days later she hits me up, asking how I'm doing with smiley faces & all that shyt. I was short with her. She took it as me "hating" her. Saw her in person the next night and it was a laughable experience. She kept asking one of my homies if I hated her, which is an asinine thought.
The excuses were bountiful. "Sorry I didn't respond to your text that night, I was still kinda tipsy from the night before" "I had to study" "I had work" "I just don't know how..." "I'm sorry" "You don't hate me do you?"
The whole time I'm like
it's not even that serious. I damn near expect this type of behavior out of you. No need for the fluff ma, you had a more favorable situation lined up in which you were more comfortable, more than likely, and you continued venturing down that path. No sweat. All the unnecessary, manufactured sense of regret definitely wasn't/isn't appreciated, though.I then got hit with a "you're hard to read" after laughing a lot.
bytches is idiots brehThe shyt is a joke.
Brehs, I remember back in April, this girl took me home from the bar after initially meeting her. I wrote about it a little in this thread. Anyways, next morning, while she's dropping me off, she's talking all this "we should hang out during the day" shyt & all that jazz, kissing me before I exit the whip and shyt (
No response.
Okay. True. Didn't pursue it anymore. Saw her at a party two weekends later, we didn't interact. Few days later she hits me up, asking how I'm doing with smiley faces & all that shyt. I was short with her. She took it as me "hating" her. Saw her in person the next night and it was a laughable experience. She kept asking one of my homies if I hated her, which is an asinine thought.
The excuses were bountiful. "Sorry I didn't respond to your text that night, I was still kinda tipsy from the night before" "I had to study" "I had work" "I just don't know how..." "I'm sorry" "You don't hate me do you?"
The whole time I'm like
I then got hit with a "you're hard to read" after laughing a lot.
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I think i'm finally through with the Game breh... Before I was just playing for fun and sport but now I see how fruitless and pointless it is...
Yep..And Recognizing if you are that fall back guy is key..I caught on to a couple of chicks who were trying to use me as a fall back guy...Cut them off early, and now they won't stop blowing me up.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
One fundamental way to keep improving and growing in life is to apply the idea that people you interact with are teachers. No more enemies or the need for an adversarial mindset rather you apply the idea that each person, interaction, action is meant to teach you and can guide you to betterment.What this does is keep your mind open to organic growth because at all times whatever happens you are ensured to learn something and in time you begin to quickly recognize patterns e.g if this is a new lesson, a familiar lesson, a lesson that was mentioned to you, a lesson you don't need etc By doing this you effortlessly avoid wasting energy with past lessons and approach new lessons with the intent to aid you growth into your supreme self.
It's fun until some girl comes out the woodwork saying the kid is yours or you catch an STD. That's how a lot of guys end up hating their present situation in life. Definitely best to bow out while you are still ahead.
Like Reincar brought up earlier about soul ties... you go through sleeping with all of these women, but you will end up realizing that there was nothing there. You have nothing after the fact but some memories, but you will realize that there is nothing but emptiness there.
Even worse is if you end up impregnating one of these women that you can't really stand, but slept with 'just cuz'... and she tangles you up with child support while not letting you see your kid. You'll end up sending payments out every month while having no real idea of how your kid is being raised... and we know in these wicked times, kids NEED proper masculine guidance.
So many risks out there for such little reward. Better to fill your time with other things until a decent woman actually comes along.
they'll try to mask their cowardice by saying "I don't want to be mean, i don't want to hurt his feelings
love that i've figured this shyt out over the past year.....my life now is so stress free
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This is wild to some but I was just telling this chick the other day I met while in Miami for the NBA Finals that I'm pretty much not even in the game anymore. I don't date, I don't even actively pursue or make any kind of effort to bag women anymore but when an easy opportunity is there I take it and if I don't see a future in it I throw her in the bushes. I explained to her how I basically just slip and fall into p*ssy (helps that I'm a DJ) and that I basically deal with women the same way Floyd Mayweather Jr. approaches boxing these days. For the past 6 years he has really just sat back, let the chips fall and takes out the easiest opponent once or twice a year for a big check. Sometimes that opponent is an irrelevant win on his resume (Guerrero) sometimes it's a win that changes his life/looks good on his resume (Oscar De La Hoya...[Canelo if he wins], Pacquiao would have fit there). I love Floyd but there hasn't been much effort in maintaining an active career as he did pre welterweight and he gets paid and benefits lot more.
I'm working on myself and don't have the time or the patience to chase chicks around who don't know what they want. You really can waste a great deal of time chasing women, going on dates, spending money & getting nothing in return. At the end of the day I've realized what Floyd Mayweather Jr realizes in the boxing game, he's a superstar & a highly sort after opponent. People want to fight him because win or lose it increases their status. As a man who's educated and well on my way towards success, that's the way I see myself when it comes to women. If the easy opportunity is presented to smash/to get to know you/to become a friend, I'm taking it.....but I'm not jumping through hoops. I've realized women are luxuries, not necessities....I want them but I don't NEED them and I could stay single if I had to. (Floyd wanted the Pacquiao fight, but his resume didn't NEED it whether people want to believe it or not....He's still going eat viciously off this Canelo fight)
I ended up getting my dikk sucked from shorty I told this to a few hours after this discussion.....Only reason I didn't fukk was because our friends were passed out in the same hotel room & several hours later I was on a plane back to Philly. It's a shame I was only in miami for game 6 because I definitely would have took her down if I stayed for game 7.
I'm working on myself and don't have the time or the patience to chase chicks around who don't know what they want. You really can waste a great deal of time chasing women, going on dates, spending money & getting nothing in return. At the end of the day I've realized what Floyd Mayweather Jr realizes in the boxing game, he's a superstar & a highly sort after opponent. People want to fight him because win or lose it increases their status. As a man who's educated and well on my way towards success, that's the way I see myself when it comes to women. If the easy opportunity is presented to smash/to get to know you/to become a friend, I'm taking it.....but I'm not jumping through hoops. I've realized women are luxuries, not necessities....I want them but I don't NEED them and I could stay single if I had to. (Floyd wanted the Pacquiao fight, but his resume didn't NEED it whether people want to believe it or not....He's still going eat viciously off this Canelo fight)
I ended up getting my dikk sucked from shorty I told this to a few hours after this discussion.....Only reason I didn't fukk was because our friends were passed out in the same hotel room & several hours later I was on a plane back to Philly. It's a shame I was only in miami for game 6 because I definitely would have took her down if I stayed for game 7.
With this chick the majority of times I hit her up she'll reply back quickly, like w/in 5 minutes, sometimes instantly, with long responses and interest and shyt. Then she goes cold like this. I gotta move on.
