I really hate playing games, and into turning into this new persona who is every bit as mysterious, metro, bad, quiet, uncaring, funny, wealthy, and desirable to all other women just to the right degree in order to catch an average girls attention. many men just give up on that even, and become the simp who is in to buying their way into a womans life. when it comes down to it, its all about playing on a womans perception. the problem is, when youre stooping to all kinds of trickery its not about dealing with the actual. sure, the pua stuff works on a certain level, but only because its designed as a game to counter another person who is playing games. first things first, women invented game. its men who have to conquer it.
and the way youre gonna do it is going to determine what youre really about. if youre about more game, or if you can fish out the real from the fake.
to me, I think pua works but its just a temporary mind trick. you have to look at all those games and ask yourself, is she even worth all that effort?
the thing about it is, Im at the point where if I see a girl playing games on me, Im not looking to take her serious anymore. shes not real to me anymore.
its a problem when its expected of you to be a pua man just to get women interested. like you cant just get to know someone and share hobbies and interests with each other, you have to be performing mental voodoo and you have to be entertaining them like we're some kind of sideshow performance act. all on our dollar and their time.
most of the time from my own experience - I learned that even after I spent so much time in it where I had to counter her, block her little tests, or reverse her bullshyt to be with her, I find that shes actually pretty empty and boring. her whole character is not real, and thats why shes spending so much time fronting, playing games, and looking for this mythical man who doesnt exist. she cant be happy because shes not happy with herself, and cant even begin to find a way to qualify herself for what she wants. deep down they know the truth. their insecurity is mostly why theyre playing games and using everyone they can, while in the meantime doing very little thats open and real. its generally her thats lacking in character and realness, and many times the games she puts up are there to test you and make you dance for a person who is not even half as interesting or real about shyt as she'd like you to believe.
we're here doing stunts and putting up with their phone games like its normal to do so. men online simp just to get a pat on the head. guys are donating money like theyre supposed to do that. we follow her lead in order to win now. women dont even try to get to know you these days, they only see what they see and decide if thats worth her time to put stand by 1 and stand by 2 on hold for you. on top of all that, we always have to be overqualified for this position. think about that for a minute.
when you get down to it, a woman or a man who is "mysterious about their ways," is ego driven, and somewhat "uncaring" and aloof about you, is not really the right person to take seriously. however, it works in building up a perception for the other person that there needs to be a chase involved to get with you. perception starts to take over reason and what is actually happening. who knows if the chase is even worth it, but at least theres the mystery about you that pulls them in. pua capitalizes in taking game and making it a big magic act to wow her.
men are out here doing pua trying to outdo a womans bullshyt by giving her even bigger bullshyt, to blind her. she only knows games and deception... then as a pua you have to counter it with a better level of game and deception. oh, she likes aloof and myserious? Ill be that but even more! she wants a man who is better than her? Ill just put her down a lot! she likes to dress and wear expensive clothes? Ill wear the craziest, most flamboyant wild shyt out there! she likes to play phone games? Ill do that too, only better! in turn, you are becoming this phony answer to her stupid games and insecurities. youll become this guy who is everything she ever wanted, the only thing is that many women dont even know what they want. so how real can a man and woman relationship be if its built on lies?
they dont even hide the fact that youre going to have to lie to women, or at least learn to play those games with her to keep her interested. its all a rehashing and remixing of the games that women play. I think catering to their whims is a recipe for disaster, especially if you take it too far.
it all leads to dishonesty and a high level of bullshyt. theres puas who feel like they failed even though they bagged plenty of women, because they end up failing in their personal life and with the women they chose. its the same story, because the REAL problem is consistent. when you go shot for shot, game after game, counter after counter after a while you have to look at what youre really doing, and is it worth it just to get this womans attention? is it worth changing who you are in order to fake it for someone who is fake themselves?
if you only want to smash, Id say just be real about that. do away with the games. dont waste time faking it to make it. thats the worst thing to do with life because you can get caught up.
if youre real and looking to get serious, then you need to learn to recognize the same realness in another. thats the main thing to worry about. not if you can bag so and so, or if she looks good and has a mouthpiece so you want her, or youre ready to settle down because she says she wants a serious relationship in her life now and whatnot. talk is just talk, and games are still just games. theres way too much to life than concerning yourself with things that are on the surface level only.
real shyt, if men stopped gassing up these women doing the non stop thirst thing, and being pua robots, then women would get it through their heads that they need to bring something WORTHY about themselves to the table. we wont change who we are and we wont play game after game from you. we're not going to jump through a hoop just because you have an ass. we need to show them that they cant get away with any old shyt just because shes a woman. they need to get checked and called out on their hypocrisy above all else. men need to be men and stay in control of the game. dont follow her lead. she doesnt even want that, deep down. be a man and be in charge.
when a woman plays games with you, understand its her attempt to gain control.
dont let that happen brehs.
I've had 3 girls I was talking with do this to me recently.
plenty of bytches out here that'll hit you back up without the bullshyt
