Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The more attention you give them... The more options they seek.

Story of my life. Bird was on me tough when I was paying her no mind. I caught feelings and recriprocate and this Bish wanna fall back. What part of the game is that.

thats why always be a mystery,
 

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attention seeking, it takes nothing to block a number from receiving texts. 2. its obvious that she is deleting some text msgs, tuesday at 737 he asks how was you day so for, then 2 hours later it look good on you kym

Exactly.. This is the 34 year old single mom of 4 that I've posted before..
 

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Brehs, I need guidance...

It's been months and I am still stuck on this same girl. It's the typical beta story... I didn't even get the bang... We were just friends for a very long time and I caught feelings and you know the rest...

It's been nearly 6-months since I've seen her... Don't have her on FB anymore but saw through some tagging she's with some new dude and straight away caught that :wow:. Thing is... using advice from this thread, RooshV and the manosphere in general... I've been going out and doing me... Having a great time, too... I'm in the best shape of my life and have dramatically improved my game... But I've yet to meet anyone who makes me feel the same way she did.

What messes me up the most is looking at her objectively... She's a disaster. Cheated on her long term BF, got caught, made up, then left him years later and started f'cking the same dude again. She's turning 28 and before this new dude she was getting knocked down by a dude fresh out of high school and had a pregnancy scare, too. She's fine... but she's immature, lazy and a huge attention seeker. I should be thanking the almighty that this girl is out of my life but I'm still stuck on her.

This girl represents every mistake I ever made with women in the past. She represents the old me that I'm trying to leave behind. So why can't I just leave her in the past and move on? Why is the urge to :cape: still so strong? :damn:
 

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Brehs, I need guidance...

It's been months and I am still stuck on this same girl. It's the typical beta story... I didn't even get the bang... We were just friends for a very long time and I caught feelings and you know the rest...

It's been nearly 6-months since I've seen her... Don't have her on FB anymore but saw through some tagging she's with some new dude and straight away caught that :wow:. Thing is... using advice from this thread, RooshV and the manosphere in general... I've been going out and doing me... Having a great time, too... I'm in the best shape of my life and have dramatically improved my game... But I've yet to meet anyone who makes me feel the same way she did.

What messes me up the most is looking at her objectively... She's a disaster. Cheated on her long term BF, got caught, made up, then left him years later and started f'cking the same dude again. She's turning 28 and before this new dude she was getting knocked down by a dude fresh out of high school and had a pregnancy scare, too. She's fine... but she's immature, lazy and a huge attention seeker. I should be thanking the almighty that this girl is out of my life but I'm still stuck on her.

This girl represents every mistake I ever made with women in the past. She represents the old me that I'm trying to leave behind. So why can't I just leave her in the past and move on? Why is the urge to :cape: still so strong? :damn:


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at the end of the day abide by one simple rule and you should be aight :

don't be simpin more than you pimpin
 

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That's the thing about it all. You end up wondering if these women actually like you or do they like you not paying them attention to them, aka running a kind of game on them. You don't pay them any attention, and they love you, but then you start feeling them and they ain't feeling you anymore. So what about YOU really factors into that equation?
 

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Brehs, I need guidance...

It's been months and I am still stuck on this same girl. It's the typical beta story... I didn't even get the bang... We were just friends for a very long time and I caught feelings and you know the rest...

It's been nearly 6-months since I've seen her... Don't have her on FB anymore but saw through some tagging she's with some new dude and straight away caught that :wow:. Thing is... using advice from this thread, RooshV and the manosphere in general... I've been going out and doing me... Having a great time, too... I'm in the best shape of my life and have dramatically improved my game... But I've yet to meet anyone who makes me feel the same way she did.

What messes me up the most is looking at her objectively... She's a disaster. Cheated on her long term BF, got caught, made up, then left him years later and started f'cking the same dude again. She's turning 28 and before this new dude she was getting knocked down by a dude fresh out of high school and had a pregnancy scare, too. She's fine... but she's immature, lazy and a huge attention seeker. I should be thanking the almighty that this girl is out of my life but I'm still stuck on her.

This girl represents every mistake I ever made with women in the past. She represents the old me that I'm trying to leave behind. So why can't I just leave her in the past and move on? Why is the urge to :cape: still so strong? :damn:
it's our ego man. you know she's bad news. But as Patrice Oneal once said, it's kind of like losing your favorite pen while at work and you just KNOW someone else took it and you obsess over it. deep down you know it's just a pen and its not that serious but it was yours (meaning you owned it).

maybe it's the same thing with that girl. she's a mess but you felt like you "had" her and then "lost" her. You don't really miss the chick. You miss "the feeling of having that chick". You miss the feeling of this being yours. and it's cool cause i think we all feel it. I think the best thing is to acknowledge the feeling, try to see where it truly comes from and then let it pass (all this is easier said than done but very doable.)
 

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That's the thing about it all. You end up wondering if these women actually like you or do they like you not paying them attention to them, aka running a kind of game on them. You don't pay them any attention, and they love you, but then you start feeling them and they ain't feeling you anymore. So what about YOU really factors into that equation?

Agree, I've been ignoring chicks who used to give me the run around when I would constantly hit them up, now that they see no contact from me, they want to link up :beli:

This shyt is definitely a game, when it shouldn't be in the first place :snoop:
 

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there is this girl I want to talk to break the ice, how I do that?

is she in your class? at work? how often do you see her

the one thing all of us men do is overthink, how to break the ice what to say. I've noticed in my life when i overthink things with women it goes horrible, just freestyle.

example you see her at the bus stop every day, look at her and spit "thankfully the weather is finally getting better" from her reply you can grasp whether to continue the convo or not.

whenever i break the ice with chicks, its usually with chicks i keep on seeing over and over, so i watch, analyze then ill just bring up something like hey nice shoes, oh wow sorry I haven't seen one of those in years, or the weather, because its much better, you tell a chick nice shoes she says thanks with a leave me alone tone you know to end it, you didnt get rejected but you sort of know shes not interested in talking to you, if shes like thanks with a smile on her face and i got them at macys or something then you know :shaq:
 

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People hate on this thread, but I've learned a lot, switched up some things, and I'm seeing EXACTLY what's been preached in this thread in real life. That shyt is just :damn:
 
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