Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Women Have Become Too Easy - AskMen

"I'm a 35-year-old woman, and met a very handsome 43-year-old man named Daniel. We've been dating for five months now and still haven't slept together.

My problem is that in the beginning, Daniel asked me how many men I've slept with. Being a little scared of his reaction, I lied and told him seven. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven't slept with him yet.

I told him I didn't want to make love because I was scared that he'd lose respect and eventually leave me like all the other men. At this point he asked me again, just how many men were there, to which I replied forty-three."
 

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Women Have Become Too Easy - AskMen

"I'm a 35-year-old woman, and met a very handsome 43-year-old man named Daniel. We've been dating for five months now and still haven't slept together.

My problem is that in the beginning, Daniel asked me how many men I've slept with. Being a little scared of his reaction, I lied and told him seven. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven't slept with him yet.

I told him I didn't want to make love because I was scared that he'd lose respect and eventually leave me like all the other men. At this point he asked me again, just how many men were there, to which I replied forty-three."

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That's why I always laugh when girls want to make you wait. Unless you a virgin its probably because you let w dude hit it on the first night and he don't commit

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Women Have Become Too Easy - AskMen

"I'm a 35-year-old woman, and met a very handsome 43-year-old man named Daniel. We've been dating for five months now and still haven't slept together.

My problem is that in the beginning, Daniel asked me how many men I've slept with. Being a little scared of his reaction, I lied and told him seven. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven't slept with him yet.

I told him I didn't want to make love because I was scared that he'd lose respect and eventually leave me like all the other men. At this point he asked me again, just how many men were there, to which I replied forty-three."

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Take the 43 she admitted to and add the others not included which "didnt count" because....

5 - it was spring break in Cancun
3 - it was the Vegas and she was emotional after he called off the engagement
1 - she fukked her boss to get that promotion
7 - they were "two minute men"
4 - they were just a rebound and she was vunerable
1 - she needed the money because they were gonna repo her car
1 - he played for the Yankees
2 - they were black and she was just "trying something new"
2 - they were women and she was just "trying something new"
10 - she was drunk
8 - oral sex isnt really sex, right?

She might be telling the truth because 43 is a "high" number for a woman to admit to.....but this is women we're dealing with here. lol 43 aint high to me (for a 35 year old woman), they out here throwin that thang - nikkas just dont want to admit it.
 

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i'm just sick of it all. And the fukked up thing is, both my "wins" and "losses" make me sick.

Pretty much man. You gain all this knowledge and you do all these different things and for what? You just come to a point and realize how backwards it all is. You have to play little games and make sure you don't take her to a restaurant, but you take her to some little cheap place so that she's not playing you out of too much money or you have to risk causing some kind of scene and make sure she's paying for herself... and you do this because you think she might play you and give you a kiss and sleep with another guy right after the date. The real question is, why should they even be taken out in the first place if that's the case? That's really despicable behavior--leeching off of someone that likes you and using them for a free meal and then lying to that person and sleeping with someone else right after the date.

Then if you manage to find a woman that appears to be decent and has a cool little personality, the 3 month rule comes into affect where you don't know if that's even her real personality or if she's just playing it cool until she can reel you in. Or you don't even know the number of men she really slept with, so she might be cool, but she was cool to 50 other guys before you. When it's said and done, it's really screwed up out there if you are trying to find a woman you can eventually build a family with.
 

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I listened to a patrice oneil stand up last night, and he said something thats very true "women can not be happy on a surface level." they always have to dig in deeper and overanalyze every little thing. make something bigger, or less true than it is. they steady look at shyt that isnt really there.

they look too closely at everything. they look for deeper meanings and possibilities when at times thats not even what men are trying to say or convey to them. they analyze, overanalyze, obsess easily, and pretty much doom anything through overanalyzation as: good for being "too good for me," or anything bad as being "its not that bad, I can fix it"

they dont take a lot of things for what they really are. its their perception thats slowing us down. we have to lie or make things greater than they are, in order to catch their attention. think about it though

if you want to know what the problem is, its that after all this time, even when a man understands a woman and gets to be close to her, she cant get close to her man and his needs. for many women, its all about her and her needs. for many women, they dont bond with their man, unless its with her p*ssy. she isnt able to get involved and do what makes him happy. they dont keep us with more than their p*ssy...

so as much as we're trying to figure them out, and deal with them, they arent on the same page. its "take me as I am" with them, and thats it. and they wonder why men wont settle down and find them worthy for marriage.
 

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I realized today that I had a case of one-itis. This one-itis is on fukking facebook, and became "in a relationship" today. I'd go on but it just gets more embarrassing. I sound like a misc'er or some shyt. :snoop:
 

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I'm different, i think first date do something like sit and talk By the waterfront. If its something that does cost money do something you enjoy whether it be golfing or bowling then if even if you even never Dee that broad again you enjoyed youeself .

Secondly on paying for dates nope.I'll pay for a date when we are in a relationship before hand nope.

That's why women have 3 dates a week and ish, knowing they don't have to spend a penny.

nikkas doing a movie and dinner spending like 60 bucks getting a hug at the end of the night and a your a great guy i just dont think we are compatible text the next morning



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I agree, if we go on a first date its nothing serious at all, sitting somewhere and having good conversation its about it. And i wouldn't pay for a broad on a first date, if we both equals we can equally pay for our own dinner or movie or whatever
 

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I realized today that I had a case of one-itis. This one-itis is on fukking facebook, and became "in a relationship" today. I'd go on but it just gets more embarrassing. I sound like a misc'er or some shyt. :snoop:

You're amongst friends breh share your demons...
 

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I "accidently" bagged two cougars from my play around okcupid account one's 36 the other 33... Don't have much experience with older women... Any tips on how older woman Game differs from the younger chicks brehs??? @Meet The Sniper @His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3
 
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You're amongst friends breh share your demons...
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1) I only know her thru fb
2) she has given me plenty of play so its not like I'm just some simpish creep or nothin.
3) physically, and from what I've seen of her personality, she is a goddamn prototype of my ideal woman.
4)she lives in fukkin brazil.

Now logically I knew the whole time it was a no go, I wasn't pursuing any shyt with her. But apparently the feels don't listen to logic. Can't really deny that I dig her :wow: I thought I was above this shyt.
 

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:wow: had a self reflecting moment today when I thought about my major flaws when it came to dealing with women. I tend to like a chick really really fast. I know that's some female shyt brehs, but after 1 date id be ready to wife and shiit. I had to learn to slow down. I was heading down a destructive path.
 

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:wow: had a self reflecting moment today when I thought about my major flaws when it came to dealing with women. I tend to like a chick really really fast. I know that's some female shyt brehs, but after 1 date id be ready to wife and shiit. I had to learn to slow down. I was heading down a destructive path.

That's not female shyt breh it's your loyalty as a male to wanna settle down if you think you've found a good girl... A woman on the other hand, she finds a great guy and starts to think "hey maybe I can find an even better guy!!!" her greed gets to her and she starts gambling and playing games never satisfied...
 
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