Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:beli: this chick wanted to set up a lunch, and on the day of the lunch she doesn't show up and doesn't respond to text, a couple weeks later she sends another text talking about "we should link up" as if she has no memory of standing me up. I saved the text messages, screen shot the text and sent it to her.

It's just a lack of basic courtesy that is present in a lot of women. That's why I'm cool on putting in all this effort. You do this work for what, a woman that will disappear at the drop of a hat and won't tell you she's leaving?
 
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:beli: this chick wanted to set up a lunch, and on the day of the lunch she doesn't show up and doesn't respond to text, a couple weeks later she sends another text talking about "we should link up" as if she has no memory of standing me up. I saved the text messages, screen shot the text and sent it to her.

It's silly, broski. It's mind boggling. I try not to devote any thought to it, but having this type of stuff happen more than once, and to the degree that this shyt happens, I can't help but get confused by that shyt.
 

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:beli: this chick wanted to set up a lunch, and on the day of the lunch she doesn't show up and doesn't respond to text, a couple weeks later she sends another text talking about "we should link up" as if she has no memory of standing me up. I saved the text messages, screen shot the text and sent it to her.

:leon:what was her reaction
 

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It's silly, broski. It's mind boggling. I try not to devote any thought to it, but having this type of stuff happen more than once, and to the degree that this shyt happens, I can't help but get confused by that shyt.

Yeah, that's the problem. I can understand if it was only one or two women doing it. Then you could write it off to that being a crazy woman, but this kind of behavior is common. Something I am finding difficult to comprehend.. I can't wrap my mind around it is that 'getting attention' is all some of these women want. They have no intention of really getting not know you, build with you, etc. They just want your attention because you haven't been paying them any attention. I've had a woman tell me what made me attractive to her was I wasn't paying her attention like the other men. I mean what kind of reason is that to like me for?

I sit back and think what in the world is the purpose of that? Ok, you got me to talk to you and maybe give you a little compliment and oyu feel like you won something? After they get that little attention from you, their whole attitude can shift around and you just don't see them anymore.

The dating scene has gotten so backwards it doesn't make sense. You literally have to gameplan around not taking a woman out to anywhere decent or else you will be punished for it when she eats a free meal on you, leaves and then calls another guy over. Cats talk about taking women on walks in the park or to a coffeehouse in order to avoid dinner and a movie. I mean man, this woman is getting something for free and she can't appreciate that? In fact, she punishes the guy for taking her there?

Then this is the same woman talking about how she can't find any decent men. In other words, women reward men that treat them like jump-offs and punish men that take them seriously, but then complain they can only find guys that use them. It's like you go to the pet store and bring a dog home and you find out that the dog bites you whenever you pet him or give him a treat, but whenever you roll up a newspaper and start hitting the dog, the dog wags its tail and licks your hand. What will you say about that dog? Man, something is wrong here. It's exactly like that in the dating scene though. You treat a woman like a jump-off and she can't get enough, but you try to treat her like a decent civilized human being and she thinks you're weak or some utter nonsense. We can talk about 'game' all day and what men need to do, but there just comes a point where you realize everything is backwards and it ain't necessarily what you are or aren't doing, but rather the problem lies with her.

When you have other women able to point out a lot of the same things we've been saying here, then you know it's a problem

 
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'I Went Undercover on Ashley Madison' - 2 - Lifestyle - MSN CA

^^Some woman went undercover on that site.




Got damn some dudes are pitiful. nikkas writing passionate essays to strange women online because of their failure of a marriage.

Get married brehs.

now its time to read it from a man's perspective who went undercover.

Most people get bored after a while in relationships just that the weak cheat or hop to someone new

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Done ran into this girl for the second time now. This time it was a grocery store, tried to avoid her but was unsuccessful. Awkward conversation was had. She mentioned fluff like hanging out and texting me and right now I'm unsure as to why I didn't call her out on that shyt face-to-face :snoop:

I dunno what's up with that shyt though. Like, I'm thinking this might be a trend in my area or something where girls suggest activities and hangout sessions face-to-face, but when it comes down to it, they back out. Then, if you encounter them in person afterwards, they act as though they didn't flake on the first opportunity, and then suggest more hangouts :wtf:

I'm going to stop interacting with drunk women too. I know some women who are feverishly indecisive and flip floppy when sober, but the irrational, illogical levels of conversation when these ladies are hammered is too high for a breh.


That's Game breh... Many woman's advice columns and books suggest for women to flake out on a dude the first couple of times to get you to chase them...
 

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Solid advice. :salute:

Will keep pushing for something greater no matter what.

I went through a similar situation breh. It happens to the best of us. THe only difference is the girl I dealt with was damaged goods and insecure. She displayed many bad qualities yet I still wanted to save her for the reasons listed. It's our ego, or need to have something that was once ours.
 

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Brehs have yall heard of this site for cheating spouses?

ashleymadison.com

I just saw a commercial for this shyt. :wtf:

EDIT: I'm creating a troll profile for this site. No way I believe married women are putting their faces online for a cheating site.

Jeff Porset show & Maury told mws about the site.
 
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That's Game breh... Many woman's advice columns and books suggest for women to flake out on a dude the first couple of times to get you to chase them...

Damn, why is the game so grimy though?! :damn: Do most women want that much reassurance? Does a male saying "yes" to an idea or suggestion of theirs stroke their ego that much? I ran into an article or two that discussed flaking, but those stories seemed to be centered around the guy going after the number, and arranging the date, and initiating and all that.

These women are playing that role, saying we should chill, or burn or whatever, and I'm like yeah that's cool, since I'm broad-minded and not opposed to many things. It's getting to the point that I'm thinking about saying "no" the next time someone suggests doing something. So many of my in-person, face-to-face interactions have moments of unnecessary dialogue, and I don't want to be bothered with it anymore.
 

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Saw this re-run of Anderson Cooper with these chicks pushing their book. That 4 hour non-response BS they pushing is just gassing these chicks heads up.

 
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