Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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quick question tho... what if youve already accomplished most of your life goals and your next one is to start a family? what do you do then?

i guess i could come up with more goals but im not gonna lie, my desire to be a father and build a fam is way stronger than any other shyt I could come up with.

i have a very well paying job, no real stress, im finally at a place where i can SETTLE DOWN. nobody ever explained this part of life to me.​

You have the same problem that one of my boy's have. You're more concerned about being a father and starting a family than you are in finding a good woman. Worry about the latter first. Worrying about a family first will reverse all of this:


i have a very well paying job, no real stress, im finally at a place where i can SETTLE DOWN. nobody ever explained this part of life to me.​
 

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Peep game, brehs :mjpls:

This is what I'm talking about when I promote that INDIFFERENT mindset. Think about what you're saying, you're worried about the fact that you were excited to see her might've deterred her form seeing you. What kind of person would be turned off by someone eager to see them? :mindblown:

That says more about her than you. Learn the game, brother. It's sad that thats how you have to be, but it is what it is. And this is not a condemnation of women, for some reason its biologically coded in them to be attracted to men that don't really care about them. Learn the game, Learn the power, but never let it turn to resentment. Some of us have to learn the hard way :manny:

That indifferent mindset does take time though and doesn't come overnight.

Although I'm not taking it as bad as dude, but remember last month when I mentioned this mixed chick from Germany I met while I was out in the DR who was just the same. Approaching me, all eager and up for convo then when I suggested a meet up she got all flaky and bailed out and a lil part of me even felt a way about it. :shaq2: (But I met mad chicks out there and got over that one real quick :blessed: )

I'm starting to see through the bullshyt of a lot of these women the more I interact with them.

Just see it as THEIR loss and keep it moving. Just remember the kind of giddy headed broads you deal with and realise 9 times out of 10 it's nothing YOU did, they just lap up attention and enjoy being pursued in order for their egos to get boosted. In time, you'll be able to tell the genuine ones who DO like you from the ones who are just on some bullshyt.

Also, remember it doesn't hurt to just have a conversation with a broad then simply walk away on some "thanks maam, but I gotta bounce" type shyt. They won't be expecting that lol. Remember the end of Rush Hour 2 when Isabella kissed Lee at the airport and he said it was good getting to know her and walked away without looking back. Practice makes perfect, fam.
 

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I got a question..

Im the godfather of this chick that I've had sexual relations with..

She sees me from afar and calls me...

talks about she aint seen me yada yada yada

then she brings up money for the godchild...

she says she tells the godson that im working when she asks about me....

I believe the lil nikka dont ask shyt...

She said I should spend more tme with him
 

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I got a question..

Im the godfather of this chick that I've had sexual relations with..

She sees me from afar and calls me...

talks about she aint seen me yada yada yada

then she brings up money for the godchild...

she says she tells the godson that im working when she asks about me....

I believe the lil nikka dont ask shyt...

She said I should spend more tme with him

:ufdup: I would never be the God father of a woman's child... If it's not one of my homies asking me to be his kid's Godfather then it's bushes :childplease:
That's another hustle for these women to get in your pockets without any reciprocation and it's all in the name of "your Godbaby"...
 

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:ufdup: I would never be the God father of a woman's child... If it's not one of my homies asking me to be his kid's Godfather then it's bushes :childplease:
That's another hustle for these women to get in your pockets without any reciprocation and it's all in the name of "your Godbaby"...

:wow:

true shyt...just wat i was thinkin
 

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We got to remember we are men. We shouldnt be worried about our marriage failing.Eventually some of us will probably get married or be in a long relationship. All we can do is our best and if your a praying man which I hope some of you cats are:Pray for the best.Being real in this day and age if you get divorce its not end of the world.A woman doesnt make us.A woman might let us lose $$$,time,vistiation of kids etc...but not make us lose our mind,sanity,dignity and pride,cause before women there was us the individual.Women are like buses they come,they go.You dont see former employers thinking of the employees they fired.Your old job aint debating whether or not to pick up the phone and call you. Cause they moved on and dont care! Once you have that attitutde,you can conquer anything.No woman can make you or break you.
 

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[ame]https://twitter.com/cigarillofiendd/status/344673851713662976[/ame]

[ame]https://twitter.com/cigarillofiendd/status/344673442437677056[/ame]
 

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funny how the conversations about being Godfather ends up with asking for money. Where is the REAL father?
 

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Women give out their number to almost anyone nowadays. You see these women giving out their number to 20 guys a night at the club just to have dudes blow their phone up so they can brag to their girlfriends. Don't be her text buddy. Get her number, call her up, spit your game and try to set something up asap. If she isnt down to meet up soon her number goes in the bushes.

My nig, I called her up and this girl did not want me off the phone. She kept on talking and talking and talking. I guess all it took was a phone call. But we good. We still friends, though. :mjpls:
 

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Man funny how Nikola Tesla was on this tip a long time ago
Caption: "In place of the soft voiced, gentle woman of my reverent worship," says Mr. Tesla, "has come the woman who thinks that her chief success in life lies in making herself as much as possible like man--in dress, voice and actions, in sports and achievements of every kind"

In the past the reason why Mr. Tesla never married was because his estimation of woman placed her on such a lofty pedestal that he could never bring himself to feel worthy of her. Now that she has, as he feels, stepped down from her pedestal and bartered all her noblest qualities for what is called her "freedom," he is even more disinclined to matrimony than he was before.

An Engineer's Aspect: Nikola Tesla - "Mr. Tesla Explains Why He Will Never Marry"
 

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Has anyone read this b.s.? :rolleyes:

E3 audience offended by 'rape joke' at Microsoft Xbox One event | Mail Online

Nonsense like this happens when chicks are always pandered to and not told to 'woman up' and stop being so damn sensitive. Funny how when women make blatant and INTENTIONAL sexual remarks and even physically touch a man inappropriately it's just deemed as funny and we're supposed to like and/or accept it no matter what.
 

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Has anyone read this b.s.? :rolleyes:

E3 audience offended by 'rape joke' at Microsoft Xbox One event | Mail Online

Nonsense like this happens when chicks are always pandered to and not told to 'woman up' and stop being so damn sensitive. Funny how when women make blatant and INTENTIONAL sexual remarks and even physically touch a man inappropriately it's just deemed as funny and we're supposed to like and/or accept it no matter what.
i watched the video while doing something else and i waited for the zinger. at the end i thought i missed it so i replayed it. only thing i figured it could be was the "Let it happen..." comment. this whole thing is retarded.
 

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We got to remember we are men. We shouldnt be worried about our marriage failing.Eventually some of us will probably get married or be in a long relationship. All we can do is our best and if your a praying man which I hope some of you cats are:Pray for the best.Being real in this day and age if you get divorce its not end of the world.A woman doesnt make us.A woman might let us lose $$$,time,vistiation of kids etc...but not make us lose our mind,sanity,dignity and pride,cause before women there was us the individual.Women are like buses they come,they go.You dont see former employers thinking of the employees they fired.Your old job aint debating whether or not to pick up the phone and call you. Cause they moved on and dont care! Once you have that attitutde,you can conquer anything.No woman can make you or break you.

You gotta remember that the only reason most men get married is for the kids. I think we realize that this is the best enviroment to raise kids under. I spend a lot of time thinking about how I'm going to raise my kids, all I care about concerning my wife is that she be on my level physically and atleast close financially. If I can somehow meet a woman who would be willing to bear ALL my children (no multiple baby mamas) without marriage then :ohlawd:
 

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You gotta remember that the only reason most men get married is for the kids. I think we realize that this is the best enviroment to raise kids under. I spend a lot of time thinking about how I'm going to raise my kids, all I care about concerning my wife is that she be on my level physically and atleast close financially. If I can somehow meet a woman who would be willing to bear ALL my children (no multiple baby mamas) without marriage then :ohlawd:

Only way you can get a woman to bear all your kids (lets say 2-3) without marriage is if you have some $$.Women want commitment.Who is to say all marriages are bad.You just have to roll the dice and hope you get what you want.Now if you dont want kids,then your set :smugbiden:
 

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Only way you can get a woman to bear all your kids (lets say 2-3) without marriage is if you have some $$.Women want commitment.Who is to say all marriages are bad.You just have to roll the dice and hope you get what you want.Now if you dont want kids,then your set :smugbiden:

Breh, there's nothing intriguing about knowing that the chick laying next to you is going to be the last one you ever fukk. I don't want to be the old guy at the club, but I can't imagine getting hitched up before 35/40. I'm only 21 and I'm ALREADY worrying about this shyt :pachaha:
 
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