Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You have to get at these online hoes quickly. They are getting hundreds of emails from Simps and Tricks every week and they will forget about you if you are lollygagging. Fukk all that "friendship" talk. Women on free dating sites are jumpoff/fukk buddy status.

I actually did. And it wasn't like I was thirsty either. I would say she was looking for attention but who gives their number out just for attention...especially someone you met online. :mindblown:
 

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Carné Asada;4482433 said:
I actually did. And it wasn't like I was thirsty either. I would say she was looking for attention but who gives their number out just for attention...especially someone you met online. :mindblown:

Women give out their number to almost anyone nowadays. You see these women giving out their number to 20 guys a night at the club just to have dudes blow their phone up so they can brag to their girlfriends. Don't be her text buddy. Get her number, call her up, spit your game and try to set something up asap. If she isnt down to meet up soon her number goes in the bushes.
 

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right now i'm dealing with a situation that i messed up previously. i wanna reconcile but she showing some serious PTSD. I'm trying to figure out how to finesse the situation without losing ground and it's just leaving me frustrated as hell. she gotta move forward or i gotta move on :yeshrug:
 

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Life is short. Why waste your time worrying about being restricted to 1 woman for the rest of your life? That is not happiness. That is torture! marriage is not even on my mind. I can spend the rest of my life happy just traveling the world, meeting new people everyday and experiencing food, cultures and sites that the average person will never see. You only get 1 life so life it to the fullest.

The woman you marry today won't be that broad down the road.

To me dating is so much better if I don't feel like being in a relationship I don't have to. If I feel like it I can, if I don't feel like it anymore I can end it.

If I want to stay late at work I can, if I want to go away and stay in a sleezy motel I can

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Be wary men, don't be professing your love in poems, don't be writing long emails professing how you feel. Long text messages, if your going to let your emotions flow do it in front of her face so at least she can't screen cap it or forward to her girlfriends as they laugh and put you on the summer jam screen.

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Good advice. This can apply to all forms of text and anything that can be saved as a screenshot. Anything that can be said that's regrettable should undergo much scrutiny before being sent out.


I wasn't professing love, but I did tell this chick that it "would be dope to see her" on a certain day, even though there was "no pressure". This is a broad who was displaying that flaky, inconsistent shyt that's grown to become prevalent in this dating culture. She suggested that we definitely hang out through a FB message. I arrange a date/meetup through text. She cancels on the original date, on basis of "sickness from day drinking", then the following day cancels again because of her continued "sickness." Only this time she was like she could attempt to go out.

Brehs, I feel like such a moron for telling her that it'd be dope to see her. We eventually met up in person and shyt, but I'm really upset at myself for sending her that shyt. Was indifferent to the situation anyways, like, if she was down to kick it, cool, if not, cool. But telling this chick that it would nice too see her surely must have altered her perception. I even mentioned having vitamins on deck just in case, like a dumbass :snoop:

Wasn't even trying to smash this broad! But I'm certain that she tried to paint me as a needy simp to her friends. I'm certain she didn't erase those text messages either :sadcam:
 

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Good advice. This can apply to all forms of text and anything that can be saved as a screenshot. Anything that can be said that's regrettable should undergo much scrutiny before being sent out.


I wasn't professing love, but I did tell this chick that it "would be dope to see her" on a certain day, even though there was "no pressure". This is a broad who was displaying that flaky, inconsistent shyt that's grown to become prevalent in this dating culture. She suggested that we definitely hang out through a FB message. I arrange a date/meetup through text. She cancels on the original date, on basis of "sickness from day drinking", then the following day cancels again because of her continued "sickness." Only this time she was like she could attempt to go out.

Brehs, I feel like such a moron for telling her that it'd be dope to see her. We eventually met up in person and shyt, but I'm really upset at myself for sending her that shyt. Was indifferent to the situation anyways, like, if she was down to kick it, cool, if not, cool. But telling this chick that it would nice too see her surely must have altered her perception. I even mentioned having vitamins on deck just in case, like a dumbass :snoop:

Wasn't even trying to smash this broad! But I'm certain that she tried to paint me as a needy simp to her friends. I'm certain she didn't erase those text messages either :sadcam:

Shouldn't worry about all of that. If these women want to put you on that summer jam screen or will try to make you look foolish to her friends, then the girl isn't worth the shyt on the bottom of your shoe. Stop giving a fukk what these hoes think. Try to holler, and if she ain't down, keep it moving. You made an honest attempt. That's the only thing that matters.
 

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Good advice. This can apply to all forms of text and anything that can be saved as a screenshot. Anything that can be said that's regrettable should undergo much scrutiny before being sent out.


I wasn't professing love, but I did tell this chick that it "would be dope to see her" on a certain day, even though there was "no pressure". This is a broad who was displaying that flaky, inconsistent shyt that's grown to become prevalent in this dating culture. She suggested that we definitely hang out through a FB message. I arrange a date/meetup through text. She cancels on the original date, on basis of "sickness from day drinking", then the following day cancels again because of her continued "sickness." Only this time she was like she could attempt to go out.

Brehs, I feel like such a moron for telling her that it'd be dope to see her. We eventually met up in person and shyt, but I'm really upset at myself for sending her that shyt. Was indifferent to the situation anyways, like, if she was down to kick it, cool, if not, cool. But telling this chick that it would nice too see her surely must have altered her perception. I even mentioned having vitamins on deck just in case, like a dumbass :snoop:

Wasn't even trying to smash this broad! But I'm certain that she tried to paint me as a needy simp to her friends. I'm certain she didn't erase those text messages either :sadcam:

Peep game, brehs :mjpls:

This is what I'm talking about when I promote that INDIFFERENT mindset. Think about what you're saying, you're worried about the fact that you were excited to see her might've deterred her form seeing you. What kind of person would be turned off by someone eager to see them? :mindblown:

That says more about her than you. Learn the game, brother. It's sad that thats how you have to be, but it is what it is. And this is not a condemnation of women, for some reason its biologically coded in them to be attracted to men that don't really care about them. Learn the game, Learn the power, but never let it turn to resentment. Some of us have to learn the hard way :manny:
 

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this just don't make sense to me. why signup for some long-term bs just to be with someone?
i mean each situation is different. managing problems with 1 girl is better than managing problems while juggling 5 different girls, who change every 3 months.' I understand it from that standpoint.

and when i say problems I'm talking relatively minor problems. like things that come up because men and women are inherently different. because i aint dealing with ANYONE's major bullshyt.

i would like to have a family some day as well.​
 

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this whole thread could have been a sub-forum. Feeling your whole post man. Sometimes i think back of times when i put women i was infatuated with above my goals and even above family and friends. I think back and really feel like i was committing sins against myself. Two things that are hard IMO: letting go of the ego and of the feeling. And forgiving yourself for the fact that you didn't put yourself first all this time...

quick question tho... what if youve already accomplished most of your life goals and your next one is to start a family? what do you do then?

i guess i could come up with more goals but im not gonna lie, my desire to be a father and build a fam is way stronger than any other shyt I could come up with.

i have a very well paying job, no real stress, im finally at a place where i can SETTLE DOWN. nobody ever explained this part of life to me.​
 

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My ex who put me though the wringer has been hitting me up as of late letting those simp texts fly. She wanted to continue to text other dudes and lie about it while we were together, so I ended it. I let her roam and now she's trying to come back. Sending me texts like "this rain is some good cuddle weather..." And " I really messed it up with you"
Breh's, there is NO feeling like curving a chick who is displaying thirst or who shytted on you in the past n
 

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quick question tho... what if youve already accomplished most of your life goals and your next one is to start a family? what do you do then?

i guess i could come up with more goals but im not gonna lie, my desire to be a father and build a fam is way stronger than any other shyt I could come up with.

i have a very well paying job, no real stress, im finally at a place where i can SETTLE DOWN. nobody ever explained this part of life to me.​

getting a broad, a wife, starting a family is the easy part, ive never seen a :sadcam: wedding photo, its all smiles, everyone thinks their marriage is going to work, the sad thing is in this day and age, everything you built up can be destroyed.

the thing for me about marriage is i have things im looking for, and i think about it alot, we know womens looks drop of so fast, say you marry a 25 year old broad, big titties, big azz, beautiful face, slim waist. Say she balloons after the first kid, the azz dissappears, the titties dissappear, the gray strands come in then what?

say she gets cancer and you have to look after her, say shes in a accident and gets paralyzed from the neck down, are you gonna stay? are yotu going to stray? Im a man who will take my marriage vows seriously if i were to ever get married in sickness and in health.

what if she wants a divorce and you got 4 kids what then?

what if she gets her dream job in like europe or africa are you ready to pack up and move?
 

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A quick tip for the good hearted brehs...

Beware of chicks who play the victim. I am sucker for a damsel in distress so I have to keep reminding myself of this. Realize that this is how a lot of 'good' chicks will get you, but don't fall for it. Make these chicks own up to their mistakes. I know way too many attractive chicks with good personalities who will pull that victim card quicker than a mufukka if they're in an unfavorable situation. Don't let these chicks take advantage of your good heart.
 
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