Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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He's telling me she's close to her moms and shyt and I'm like that's an even BIGGER reason not to meet this broads moms because clearly she looks to her mother for validation in the choice of men she has, among other things.

Meaning that if you don't "wow" her mom in that first meeting, chances are the relationship will either fall to pieces soon or run into problems, and in either case it's a clear indication that it's time to make a break.

Yup pretty much he's being sized up, just like when women want you to meet their friends.

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i agree.

when dealing with women, be as leery as you would be if u had a snake in your backpack. but at the same time, just enjoy them. when/if they start showing signs of "emptyheadedness", you know what to do.

Exactly. A careless attitude when it comes to dating is a great attitude.Whatever happen to "Lets just kick it".
 

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Most women do not even know what love is, blurting it off after a few good dates, or after sex etc.

I've probably had like 10 women in my life tell me they loved me, I remember getting texts after first dates how they never felt this way before and two weeks in professing their love.

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That's my point. You don't "love" someone after a couple of months no matter how good things may be going between you two. They "love" you now, then when the honeymoon period is over, they're creeping behind your back with the next dude without a care in the world. FOH.
 

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Brothas are thinkin too hard when it comes to women/relationships.Once we start asking ?'s like "What do you see me as", "Where do we go from here". That means we are relinquishing our role as a leader.Think of it like this. When a MAN and WOMAN gets married.Usually the woman is the one planning everything,the dress,the lists,flower girls etc. As for us we just show up. Thats what we do in relationships we just show up and do our duty.Leave the planning and direction (as to where the relationship goes) to the women.

That's some good posting right there
 

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Brothas are thinkin too hard when it comes to women/relationships.Once we start asking ?'s like "What do you see me as", "Where do we go from here". That means we are relinquishing our role as a leader.Think of it like this. When a MAN and WOMAN gets married.Usually the woman is the one planning everything,the dress,the lists,flower girls etc. As for us we just show up. Thats what we do in relationships we just show up and do our duty.Leave the planning and direction (as to where the relationship goes) to the women.
exactly, we should just show up and lead by our actions. let them ask where this is going...
 

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Be wary men, don't be professing your love in poems, don't be writing long emails professing how you feel. Long text messages, if your going to let your emotions flow do it in front of her face so at least she can't screen cap it or forward to her girlfriends as they laugh and put you on the summer jam screen.

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brehs... i dunno if I was built for the challenges of adult dating. I keep learning how shady women can be and it wears me out. I don't know if I can ever really trust a girl.

but I'm also not built for the alternative.

i actually envy nikkas who got married relatively young. even if they have problems they're potentially building a family and not out here in this dating world. the older I get, each girl I seriously date wears me down more than the one before her. because everybody you date at this age has 'marriage' implications.

long story short: i wish things were carefree like when i was young. there's way too much on the line for me to not approach every female strategically.​
 

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brehs... i dunno if I was built for the challenges of adult dating. I keep learning how shady women can be and it wears me out. I don't know if I can ever really trust a girl.

but I'm also not built for the alternative.

i actually envy nikkas who got married relatively young. even if they have problems they're potentially building a family and not out here in this dating world. the older I get, each girl I seriously date wears me down more than the one before her. because everybody you date at this age has 'marriage' implications.

long story short: i wish things were carefree like when i was young. there's way too much on the line for me to not approach every female strategically.​

Life is short. Why waste your time worrying about being restricted to 1 woman for the rest of your life? That is not happiness. That is torture! marriage is not even on my mind. I can spend the rest of my life happy just traveling the world, meeting new people everyday and experiencing food, cultures and sites that the average person will never see. You only get 1 life so life it to the fullest.
 

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brehs... i dunno if I was built for the challenges of adult dating. I keep learning how shady women can be and it wears me out. I don't know if I can ever really trust a girl.

but I'm also not built for the alternative.

i actually envy nikkas who got married relatively young. even if they have problems they're potentially building a family and not out here in this dating world. the older I get, each girl I seriously date wears me down more than the one before her. because everybody you date at this age has 'marriage' implications.

long story short: i wish things were carefree like when i was young. there's way too much on the line for me to not approach every female strategically.​

this just don't make sense to me. why signup for some long-term bs just to be with someone?
 

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Women are nuts. I met a girl on Skout...she said she's looking for "friends". Aight, coo. I just got out of something and I'm not really trying to get into anything like that. We chat, she sends me a pic in her bikini. I send her a pick of me as I just finish a workout...looking swole.

She proceeds to give me her number. Skeptical, I look her up and she is a real person. We text back and forth...she talks about grabbing drinks soon when she gets over her cold. Later on in the week, I told her I'm about to peep this movie on netflix she recommended. She said "What, without me?". I'm thinking in my head "I've never spoke or seen you". A couple of days later, when I text her, she takes forever to get back...even getting brief with her responses. WTF? These hoes, man. I'm telling you.
 

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Carné Asada;4482333 said:
Women are nuts. I met a girl on Skout...she said she's looking for "friends". Aight, coo. I just got out of something and I'm not really trying to get into anything like that. We chat, she sends me a pic in her bikini. I send her a pick of me as I just finish a workout...looking swole.

She proceeds to give me her number. Skeptical, I look her up and she is a real person. We text back and forth...she talks about grabbing drinks soon when she gets over her cold. Later on in the week, I told her I'm about to peep this movie on netflix she recommended. She said "What, without me?". I'm thinking in my head "I've never spoke or seen you". A couple of days later, when I text her, she takes forever to get back...even getting brief with her responses. WTF? These hoes, man. I'm telling you.

You have to get at these online hoes quickly. They are getting hundreds of emails from Simps and Tricks every week and they will forget about you if you are lollygagging. Fukk all that "friendship" talk. Women on free dating sites are jumpoff/fukk buddy status.
 
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