Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

btw ill state again, if you are a man and you respect yourself, and as well don';t let women walk over you and treat em with respect and when they leave you don't beg, cry etc. just get on with your life, they WILL come back, not saying as a gf or whatever but they will try

women will never admit it but they know when they f up something good just don't accept them back though

 

[winb83]

You can't rationalize with a woman on things like this. Women don't apologize and hardly if ever take fault for their actions. A woman will manipulate you into somehow believing that you are the reason she acts the way she does. ADULTS TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR WHAT THEY DO.

i never really thought about but this is true

 

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[Easy-E]

Its always funny when the men always says that a woman is supposed to submit to their husbands. The funny thing is men forget that men are supposed to submit to God and the church. Yall throw this wife submit like ppl throw slavery around but forget what the man is supposed to do. For the christians in the bible:


Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and He is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband" (Ephesians 5:21-33).

Now yall know that its not just a wife submitting to their husband but a husband is supposed to love their wife like they love themselves.

Props for the post... but, you're sig is kinda blasphemous .

But, you're 100% correct; most us men forget why exactly the woman is supposed to submit to us.

 

[The Message]

btw ill state again, if you are a man and you respect yourself, and as well don';t let women walk over you and treat em with respect and when they leave you don't beg, cry etc. just get on with your life, they WILL come back, not saying as a gf or whatever but they will try

women will never admit it but they know when they f up something good just don't accept them back though

Word. They always come back. Most dudes dont cut women off for any other reason than if they cheated. Most dudes tolerate the bs they throw our way and women get willy-nilly and liberal with the disrespect. They get used to it because they're not reprimanded for the nonsense. They cant understand it when they get cut off.

 

[MrFantastic]

i never really thought about but this is true

My oldhead always told me that women have no character.. They wil say one thing and then comepletely do another.. Without remorse or any feeling of recourse.. Never forgot that!

 

[PrettyCoach]

I understand what you're saying.
At the end of the day, this is a thread about men dealing with women, so it's going to be from the male perspective. We've had several ladies come in and ask for advice, and they're questions have been answered fairly and respectful.

Sure you can say that there has been some female bashing, but the overall vibe of this thread has been about enlightenment rather than bashing females.

I totally understand where you are coming from. There is nothing wrong with enlightening people on the lessons they have learned. My point is when it goes to a where you are telling men to just sleep with these women and throw them away. Meaning treat them like trash or smut them out and then go about your business. Or sleep with as many females as you want to and then only want to wife up a woman with 5 partners or less. I was told by some men that a woman cant want all these things in a man and not already possess the things herself. It goes for a man also. he cant want to sleep with every female in the world and then expect to lock down a female who only had less than 5 partners. keep it 100. Just like you cant really call a female a ho when she sleeps with a whole bunch of males but a man aint a ho when he sleeping with a whole lot of females. Lets be real. Would you tell your daughter this info. Remember Men, these women yall messing with do have fathers and are someone's daughter and could be your daughter one day.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

My oldhead always told me that women have no character.. They wil say one thing and then comepletely do another.. Without remorse or any feeling of recourse.. Never forgot that!

thats real females will shyt on you and act like aint shyt wrong thats why you shld never apologize

 

[PrettyCoach]

Where have I said anything differerent?

Mostly everything posted is here to help folks not make the mistakes we did

On the other hand as a man you can choose the best partner take all precautions and still get burned.

I agree with this. I mean that goes for both sexes. women do the same thing. I just think there is never a female side to things that is all. It just seems like women are the culprit in everything. This is with looking at Projectcovo, this forum and other forums. We will never completely understand the function of both sexes but we all need to come to an agreement on some things.

 

[MikelArteta]

I think regarding marriage to a certain extent after ten years, as long as you have ha similar socio-economic backgrounds growing up it really doesn't matter who you marry, it just boils down to if you're borrh willing to be kind to each other.

Companies sell the married lifestyle due to marketing to suck you in dont




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[MikelArteta]

Men we have to realize also th magnitude of the heroism of women who leave their decent but dull husbands and boyfriends. It's an insidious message repeated in essays and in movies for women of a certain age. Ever notice how in movies about men who cheat on their wife's the male leads are dudes who must be punished with death or with a rabbit boiling on the stove ( fatal attraction, basic instinct, cape dear, American beauty, what lies beneath, any Tyler perry movie)

Whereas in movies about women who cheat on their now boring husbands boyfriends or fiancée, te female leads are somehow morally innocent while they allow themselves o be swooningly swept off their feet by a more exciting man, and of there husbands or boyfriends find out and dare get jealous they are the bad guys who must be punished( bride wars, notebook, English patient, titanic, perfect murder, bridges of Madison county)

Hmm


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[PrettyCoach]

that may be true but on some real shyt men are more real with it I find to the point where they may play you but its a women's fault for not knowing.

i cant speak on tricking and gold digging cause I've never experienced that but honestly If I were I wouldnt bash women for it because i'd be the fool that allowed it. But its that much more frustrating and detrimental to one's esteem or midnset to have a girl in love with you then stop messing with you over some petty shyt (my case). Or to be tricking on you and then act like it wasnt that all along and then you did something fukked up when you really didnt...having your mind running circles and shyt (case of others as it seems)

By no means did I ever say that women dont do messed up things just like males do. There are some petty and crazy things we do and sometimes it is only off emotions. I agree with what you are saying. On some real stuff, no not all men are real with it. So somehow somewhere, everytime a woman gets mad at a man for cheating or having multiple women and babies. She was told from the beginning. Please dont lie to your self and me. There are some time where they keep it real in the beginning but realize they gotta lie to keep getting the butt. So a man might tell her he likes her wants to wife her up and have kids with her. but in the beginning he said it was just sex. Dont you men say all the time " Say whatever you gotta say to get the draws" Right. RIIIIGGGHHHTT!!!!

You can't rationalize with a woman on things like this. Women don't apologize and hardly if ever take fault for their actions. A woman will manipulate you into somehow believing that you are the reason she acts the way she does. ADULTS TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR WHAT THEY DO. So PrettyCoach, this is exactly what you're not doing... "BUT, BUT, MAYBE ITS YOU".... Women can't admit their faults, and we know this, so I'm not surprised.

The purpose of this thread is for men to pay attention to the type of women they encounter and deal with. The older veterans, such as myself, made these mistakes so the youngins don't have to. At the end of the day I hold myself accountable for the bad choices I've made with the women I decided to deal with. We're making men much more keen on the things that women do. I also understand that most women are master manipulators and therefore a logical thread like this highlights the negative traits she so desperately attempts to hide by using her sex appeal and her self-proclaimed entitlement as a woman.

And woman will continue to believe that every man that they ever dealt with caused the demise of their relationships.

Woman and accountability

So with all due respect, I can't even listen to your nonsense and this is not the thread for it.

ROTFL PLease I cant listen to your nonsense either. Please have 2 chairs and
sit down please. ARe you serious? I think both sexes dont take responsibility in certain situations. You just proved my point on that. Men blame women for hurting them and why their relationships didn't work. There are women that believe that it was all the man's fault also. Its is both sexes that dont take responsibility on their fault. Not just women.

 

[PrettyCoach]

Props for the post... but, you're sig is kinda blasphemous .

But, you're 100% correct; most us men forget why exactly the woman is supposed to submit to us.

LOL well i have seem some crazy sigs so i found one that makes me laugh. Its not blasphemous, its a kinda masterpiece. lol

 

[Sharp]

By no means did I ever say that women dont do messed up things just like males do. There are some petty and crazy things we do and sometimes it is only off emotions. I agree with what you are saying. On some real stuff, no not all men are real with it. So somehow somewhere, everytime a woman gets mad at a man for cheating or having multiple women and babies. She was told from the beginning. Please dont lie to your self and me. There are some time where they keep it real in the beginning but realize they gotta lie to keep getting the butt. So a man might tell her he likes her wants to wife her up and have kids with her. but in the beginning he said it was just sex. Dont you men say all the time " Say whatever you gotta say to get the draws" Right. RIIIIGGGHHHTT!!!!



ROTFL PLease I cant listen to your nonsense either. Please have 2 chairs and
sit down please. ARe you serious? I think both sexes dont take responsibility in certain situations. You just proved my point on that. Men blame women for hurting them and why their relationships didn't work. There are women that believe that it was all the man's fault also. Its is both sexes that dont take responsibility on their fault. Not just women.

Have you ever been married? Well, I have. I don't normally do this as my tolerance is very low and I am indifferent to opinions that don't measure to the litmus test of reality, but I'll give you a special offer.

The only mistakes that a man can really make is if he cheats, abuses, neglects, or fails to protect/provide for his woman. If these things are done, then it is evident, and something that he needs to work on.

But we're talking about men who try to be good men and get dogged out by women who take advantage of their niceness. Men who have been erroneously taught that doing everything that your woman wants you to do is the key to a happy relationship. Men who have held their woman down in every way just to be told later down the road that he didn't have a back bone and that she's leaving him for a dude that won't hesitate to disrespect her. Teaching men how to be men and how to obtain the respect they deserve and establish their self worth. Interpreting this thread any other way is a form of manipulation which I won't tolerate... I'll probably ig you from this point forward

This thread is about reprogramming the male mind, and what you're contributing to this thread is not beneficial. Your point of view had already been explored in forums all across the internet. This is for men by men. So with all due respect, most of us don't really care for what you're saying. We'd go to Lipstick Alley if we wanted that.

 

[Raw Lyrics]

I totally understand where you are coming from. There is nothing wrong with enlightening people on the lessons they have learned. My point is when it goes to a where you are telling men to just sleep with these women and throw them away. Meaning treat them like trash or smut them out and then go about your business. Or sleep with as many females as you want to and then only want to wife up a woman with 5 partners or less. I was told by some men that a woman cant want all these things in a man and not already possess the things herself. It goes for a man also. he cant want to sleep with every female in the world and then expect to lock down a female who only had less than 5 partners. keep it 100. Just like you cant really call a female a ho when she sleeps with a whole bunch of males but a man aint a ho when he sleeping with a whole lot of females. Lets be real. Would you tell your daughter this info. Remember Men, these women yall messing with do have fathers and are someone's daughter and could be your daughter one day.

Please cite the person(s) who gave this particular bolded piece of advice in this thread. Thank you for your cooperation.