Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[PrettyCoach]

cue the emotional breakdown in 5,4,3,2...........

ROTFL UMMM nahhh that would be you boo. Dont try to play me. I assume you want respect then please give me respect too. I havent come at you in a crazy way. Just stating my opinion.

 

[PrettyCoach]

Let me ask you something

Have you cheated or dumped a guy before?

I have not cheated but I have dumped a guy and I have been dumped before. I mean what I was saying was I got your point on why you said it. I know its an ego thing. Just like if a female wants her ego stroked she would try to have guys vying for her attention. I get it now. when I first thought about it. I thought it was cold but now i understand.

 

[MikelArteta]

I have not cheated but I have dumped a guy and I have been dumped before. I mean what I was saying was I got your point on why you said it. I know its an ego thing. Just like if a female wants her ego stroked she would try to have guys vying for her attention. I get it now. when I first thought about it. I thought it was cold but now i understand.

How about you creating a thread? And I'll rip your thought process to shreds.

 

[Sharp]

All relationships goes through these 2 phases
1. The infatuation stage: where she's so in love with any and everything you do or say.
2. The normalcy stage: where she has become used to all the wonderful things you did to get her hooked, and now she's bored.

If you keep trying to impress a woman either you're going to run out of ideas or run out of money. A lot of us get so caught up in the infatuation because she is feeling us so much that we let down our guard. We think we got it in the bag. We tend to judge her based on this infatuation stage, when in fact all it is is a temporary mood and emotion.

You have to pay attention to the normalcy stage cause this is the stage that 85% of your relationship will be in. This is the stage you should judge her character. Unfortunately most of us get so caught up in the infatuation stage that we "wife" her before everything slows down and reality steps into play.

Many women have the tendency to get bored quick, so when you do so much in so short of a time all it is doing is accelerating the course of the relationships. Ever heard the expression "things that start fast, end fast"? Well dammit, it's true

Take your time getting to know these women, never make no promises in the beginning because you have no idea who you're dealing with, learn to distinguish infatuation from love and respect. Remain humble and always be prepared to sever ties if she starts to act in ways that are unacceptable later down the line.

Don't be one of those dudes saying "I want things to get back to the way it was."

That was the infatuation stage breh. Key word "Infatuation"

 

[Tony_Siegel]

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[PrettyCoach]

How about you creating a thread? And I'll rip your thought process to shreds.

Really seriously. lol I just said that I understood what you meant when you explained it. ok I will create one and please and I mean please rip my thought process to shreds. Thats what a forum is for to write your thoughts down and there are people who would rip it to shreds.

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn sharp that was deep as hell

I'm sitting here in awe like

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn sharp that was deep as hell

I'm sitting here in awe like

 

[MikelArteta]

Btw If I have time, I'll go through this thread and put the words of advice and gems up in different categories

Some sort of manual


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk breh!

 

[Sharp]

Women are selling a product just like we are. In the beginning, if a chick is really feeling you she will cater to your ego and make you feel like a king. Think about it, if she treated us like shyt, or just didn't make us feel special in the beginning, most of us would have cut her off.

Women will make you believe that the p*ussy belongs to you and only you. Some woman will act like they are so in love with you to make you fall in love with them and then they got you. Never tell a woman that you love her until certain things have taken place. I don't care what you feel in your heart, gut or whatever. It's just butterflies and infatuation... shake it off breh.

1. Make sure that you she tells you that she loves you first
2. Make sure that you are committed relationship with her
3. Make sure that this committed relationships has elapsed more than 6 months... not from the time that you met her, but from when you became serious

When you do say it, say it sparingly. Dont say it all day long. I know people tell you to do this, but all it does is make her too comfortable. Exclusivity brings values. The less you say it, the more value it has when you say it. Rule of thumb, only say it once before you go to bed. It gives her reassurance at the end of the day, and this is how you reinforce good behavior. You can say it every now and then when she does something amazing.

You don't reward bad behavior with an "I love you". She has to be aware that your love is conditional. It is based upon how she treats you. Your love is a privilege not a right.

 

[PrettyCoach]

All relationships goes through these 2 phases
1. The infatuation stage: where she's so in love with any and everything you do or say.
2. The normalcy stage: where she has become used to all the wonderful things you did to get her hooked, and now she's bored.

If you keep trying to impress a woman either you're going to run out of ideas or run out of money. A lot of us get so caught up in the infatuation because she is feeling us so much that we let down our guard. We think we got it in the bag. We tend to judge her based on this infatuation stage, when in fact all it is is a temporary mood and emotion.

You have to pay attention to the normalcy stage cause this is the stage that 85% of your relationship will be in. This is the stage you should judge her character. Unfortunately most of us get so caught up in the infatuation stage that we "wife" her before everything slows down and reality steps into play.

Many women have the tendency to get bored quick, so when you do so much in so short of a time all it is doing is accelerating the course of the relationships. Ever heard the expression "things that start fast, end fast"? Well dammit, it's true

Take your time getting to know these women, never make no promises in the beginning because you have no idea who you're dealing with, learn to distinguish infatuation from love and respect. Remain humble and always be prepared to sever ties if she starts to act in ways that are unacceptable later down the line.

Don't be one of those dudes saying "I want things to get back to the way it was."

That was the infatuation stage breh. Key word "Infatuation"

Now i agree with this . C/S. It is true in a lot of ways.

 

[Turbulent]

Women are selling a product just like we are. In the beginning, if a chick is really feeling you she will cater to your ego and make you feel like a king. Think about it, if she treated us like shyt, or just didn't make us feel special in the beginning, most of us would have cut her off.

Women will make you believe that the p*ussy belongs to you and only you. Some woman will act like they are so in love with you to make you fall in love with them and then they got you. Never tell a woman that you love her until certain things have taken place. I don't care what you feel in your heart, gut or whatever. It's just butterflies and infatuation... shake it off breh.

1. Make sure that you she tells you that she loves you first
2. Make sure that you are committed relationship with her
3. Make sure that this committed relationships has elapsed more than 6 months... not from the time that you met her, but from when you became serious

When you do say it, say it sparingly. Dont say it all day long. I know people tell you to do this, but all it does is make her too comfortable. Exclusivity brings values. The less you say it, the more value it has when you say it. Rule of thumb, only say it once before you go to bed. It gives her reassurance at the end of the day, and this is how you reinforce good behavior. You can say it every now and then when she does something amazing.

You don't reward bad behavior with an "I love you". She has to be aware that your love is conditional. It is based upon how she treats you. Your love is a privilege not a right.

chuch!

 

[winb83]

All relationships goes through these 2 phases
1. The infatuation stage: where she's so in love with any and everything you do or say.
2. The normalcy stage: where she has become used to all the wonderful things you did to get her hooked, and now she's bored.

If you keep trying to impress a woman either you're going to run out of ideas or run out of money. A lot of us get so caught up in the infatuation because she is feeling us so much that we let down our guard. We think we got it in the bag. We tend to judge her based on this infatuation stage, when in fact all it is is a temporary mood and emotion.

You have to pay attention to the normalcy stage cause this is the stage that 85% of your relationship will be in. This is the stage you should judge her character. Unfortunately most of us get so caught up in the infatuation stage that we "wife" her before everything slows down and reality steps into play.

Many women have the tendency to get bored quick, so when you do so much in so short of a time all it is doing is accelerating the course of the relationships. Ever heard the expression "things that start fast, end fast"? Well dammit, it's true

Take your time getting to know these women, never make no promises in the beginning because you have no idea who you're dealing with, learn to distinguish infatuation from love and respect. Remain humble and always be prepared to sever ties if she starts to act in ways that are unacceptable later down the line.

Don't be one of those dudes saying "I want things to get back to the way it was."

That was the infatuation stage breh. Key word "Infatuation"

during what you call infatuation when you first meet someone there's missing information and your mind fills in the blanks. that's why a man can look at a woman he barely knows and feel like she'd be perfect for him.

during this time there's the combination of your mind filling in the blanks and the person putting their best foot forward. at this point people can often fall in love with a person that doesn't really exist.

as time goes on the blanks your mind filled in get overwritten with actual real information and you start to learn who you're really dealing with. also at this time the person becomes less and less able to keep putting their best foot forward so the "real" them starts to show.

to me the issue is before that second phase most people are already in love. also people think love is this deep logical and rational emotion when really its just an irrational attachment to something. you can fall in love with a hell of a lot of people unintentionally if you hang around them long enough.

i believe this is why so many relationships fail because while we fall in love with actually human beings the person's personality that we're in love with only exist in our mind and when reality hits many people realize the person they loved never really existed outside their mind.

 

[MikelArteta]

during what you call infatuation when you first meet someone there's missing information and your mind fills in the blanks. that's why a man can look at a woman he barely knows and feel like she'd be perfect for him.

during this time there's the combination of your mind filling in the blanks and the person putting their best foot forward. at this point people can often fall in love with a person that doesn't really exist.

as time goes on the blanks your mind filled in get overwritten with actual real information and you start to learn who you're really dealing with. also at this time the person becomes less and less able to keep putting their best foot forward so the "real" them starts to show.

to me the issue is before that second phase most people are already in love. also people think love is this deep logical and rational emotion when really its just an irrational attachment to something. you can fall in love with a hell of a lot of people unintentionally if you hang around them long enough.

i believe this is why so many relationships fail because while we fall in love with actually human beings the person's personality that we're in love with only exist in our mind and when reality hits many people realize the person they loved never really existed outside their mind.

i agree women believe in the fairy tales, the one etc.

me i realize with proper communication and time you can fall in love with anyone

 

[winb83]

i realize with proper communication and time you can fall in love with anyone

i just realized this a few months ago. until then i used to believe in the idealized version of love that the general public believes in.

if you and a person of the opposite sex hang around each other long enough
and you get along you can fall in love with them because you don't even have to know a person really to be in love you can just believe you know them.

i've fallen in love with women that when i look back on it now were totally incompatible with me and had very little in common just because we got along well enough.

love is not really about the other person you're in love with its about you and its all internal.